Never had a Partner

[Sunne]

I have never had a partner for as long as I've been alive.
It was never really a big concern for me in Middle School, but now that I'm in High School, I've become really depressed and unfulfilled. I haven't had my first kiss or anything of the sort yet. I'm starting to get scared, because I don't like any girl or boy at my school, and I don't want to end up alone and a virgin...

I know I might sound like I'm in it for sex and conquest, but I'm not. I just want someone to hold and love. But I have no idea where to start! I have no knowledge of anything!

I just want some help on the matter. I don't know where to turn.

[Its Pretty]

I know how you feel Noah. It really sucks to be alone sometimes.

[Saint of Sinners]

Well, can't really give you much practical advice, because to be honest my situation is pretty similar. However, I can tell you this. Don't worry about it. Seriously, don't worry. Relationships come when you least expect it.

Stay strong:)

[Amsey]

Hello, im almost like you ive only kissed boys and girls but nothing more, it is depressing when all your friends are having sex all over the place but like you im waiting for a special person :)only advice I can give is begin speaking to some more boys/girls and decide which you like, maybe try getting some one on something like facebook or msn and chat for a while, if you both like each other it should work out :)

[death-metal]

I know them feels bro...
More importantly, we're both 16! We have our life ahead of us. Who knows? Maybe we'll find someone who we can hold onto for the rest of our lives?

[Seemyheart]

You don't have to worry at all, you're 16, you have plenty of time to find someone, Noah.
Right now, focus on yourself, because when you go to college, it will be a totally different experience. So many doors will open.
"Don't you worry, dont you worry, child". It's a quote from a song, and I kept thinking it when I was reading your post, so I thought I'd share it with you
You don't need to worry, you are going to find someone; whether it is sooner or later
Wish you the best:)
If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me:) I'd be happy to talk

[Synyster Shadows]

Don't worry about anything Noah. I admire that you will wait to have sex with a special someone that you truly love instead of anyone, just to say you lost your virginity. Like it's been said, just try to meet new people and you're bound to meet that special person, even somewhere you least expect it. Trust me, I was like you - single, lonely, and depressed. I thought I'd never have a girlfriend. Now I'm in a long-distance relationship with the girl of my dreams. And guess what. I met her on VT. I never knew I'd get a girlfriend, especially on VT of all places. Just don't worry about it. You'll be fine.

[Melodic]

You can't force it at all, the truest of relationships will come naturally to you. I forced a relationship upon a couple guys and there was this one perfect guy who was meant for me all along and was right in front of me. It's been about two years since we fell for each other, and we still are in love today. So don't give up, you'll find that special someone somewhere. :)

[Zachary G]

it sucks to be alone, but it doesnt mean that you will always be alone. though there isnt anyone at your present school that you like, there might be someone at another school that is right for you, so dont give up hope and settle in to the "im so lonely" phase, just take your time and be patient and things will come together in its own time. gotta have faith dude

[AlexOnToast]

I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes you just want someone to be with, to be able to be yourself with and still be loved, to hug when times are rough and laugh with when times are good. I know it sounds dumb, but there really is someone for everyone, so you just need to hold on in there :) good luck :D