Best Friend was in an accident.

[casperathome]

So my best friend was in a snowboarding accident last weekend. He's really banged up but he is coming home on Friday. (concussion, broken right wrist, broken left arm, Sprained knee and messed up face) He ran in to a snow machine!

His mom is a nurse and has to return to work on the weekend and has asked me if I would hang out with him and help feed him and help him to the bathroom. We are kinda neighbours. We have been friends since gr.3 and are close but never done 'anything' together although I've had fantasies about him.

I guess I am gonna have to help him to the bathroom and prbly help him pee. I'm sure he will not be able to J/O and I'm wondering how could I approach it to 'help him out' while he recurperates? We have never jerked together but are really close and we have talked about jerking off in a general context. He's a few months older than me and I'm pretty sure he is as horny as me.

My question is how do I approach him to offer to 'help out' with his 'needs'. Would you just be open about it or wait for him to ask. I certainly wouldn't mind at all. Being that I will have to help him pee and actually hold his penis.. what if he gets a boner while I'm helping him? He doesn't have a G/F and he may be curious as I am.

What would you do and how would you handle it. Would you just outright 'offer your service'? BTW we have seen each other naked many times and I have seen him with a semi. I caught him staring at mine once so I think he could be curious but we never crossed the line by touching each other....

[Kjcj]

So like I would just come out and say ' if you need help with anything and I mean ANYTHING just let me know an I'll help ya out' kinda like look there if you have to and hint at em while your saying it and like exaggerate the second anything lol if he don't get the hint then he must not be in the mood lol.... Sorry to hear about his accident!

[Fireangel]

Just ask him if he wants to j/o or feel an urge to wank, you can help him. Or maybe he don´t like to j/o.

[sdude]

So my best friend was in a snowboarding accident last weekend. He's really banged up but he is coming home on Friday. (concussion, broken right wrist, broken left arm, Sprained knee and messed up face) He ran in to a snow machine!

His mom is a nurse and has to return to work on the weekend and has asked me if I would hang out with him and help feed him and help him to the bathroom. We are kinda neighbours. We have been friends since gr.3 and are close but never done 'anything' together although I've had fantasies about him.

I guess I am gonna have to help him to the bathroom and prbly help him pee. I'm sure he will not be able to J/O and I'm wondering how could I approach it to 'help him out' while he recurperates? We have never jerked together but are really close and we have talked about jerking off in a general context. He's a few months older than me and I'm pretty sure he is as horny as me.

My question is how do I approach him to offer to 'help out' with his 'needs'. Would you just be open about it or wait for him to ask. I certainly wouldn't mind at all. Being that I will have to help him pee and actually hold his penis.. what if he gets a boner while I'm helping him? He doesn't have a G/F and he may be curious as I am.

What would you do and how would you handle it. Would you just outright 'offer your service'? BTW we have seen each other naked many times and I have seen him with a semi. I caught him staring at mine once so I think he could be curious but we never crossed the line by touching each other....

Well, I had a friend that a similar accident had him layed up, I had to help him bathe cause he didn't want his mom to do it and he was uncut so he needed his foreskin cleaned. After a couple of times doing this he got hard and said he really needed to cum so I just kept working his skin back and forth till he shot,...became an every day thing and led to some more fun so that's one way it could happen for u?

[Everyusernameistaken]

Just say in a joking manner "now you can't jerk huh?" And see where it goes.

[Lost in the Echo]

Just don't do anything. He's in a bunch of pain, so I'm pretty sure jerking off is the last thing on his mind. If you try to do anything to him, there's a possibility he would think you're a creep.
So just simply help him with whatever he neess help doing.

[daniel 2014]

Just put it out there and tell him if he ever gets the urge you can help him out if he wants it. I'm sure he will be very appreciative! I would want a friend like you in his situation! You're a great friend dude. Just put it out there. You don't have to push it. Just let him know you're there. I mean your best friends and you already have to hold his Dick to let him piss... which I find much more awkward than getting jacked off by a friend... you are a great friend bud!

[ksdnfkfr]

If you were in his situation what would you want and how would you want it asked?
Or would you even care how he asked just as long as he was willing help you?
Def a bonding experience whatever happens thats for sure

[daniel 2014]

Just say in a joking manner "now you can't jerk huh?" And see where it goes.

Great idea! Try 2nd or 3rd day once he starts to get desperate... haha

[Pulp501]

If he is really hurt, he probably isn't going to be worried about masturbating too much. If you are nursing him, don't try to take advantage of the situation unless he wants to.

[casperathome]

ya a week in the hospital and he has been medicated. Like most of us..I think.. he will be 'due' for some relief. I know I would after a week! If was me in his place I think after a week or two I would be squirting if anyone touched my dick! My first concern is definitely for his recovery and comfort. He looks pretty messed up in the hospital with casts and bandages (Looks like Frankenstein LOL). Face is all swollen and a gash on his face and a black eye and swollen cheek. He is a very cool friend although a bit shy. He plays the guitar which I'm sure he will really miss.

I'll prbly leave his sponge baths to his mom who is a nurse and works 12 hour shifts. He has no brothers and sisters either. I guess I'll let him take the lead and he can let me know what he wants me to do for him ?? Fortunately, like me he is circumcised so I won't have to deal with washing his foreskin which could 'raise' some problems LOL.

So a more important question: If you were him would you ask your friend to jerk you off? and if you were me would you hesitate to 'help' him out both knowing that it would never be told to anyone. He may feel that I might tell someone which of course I NEVER would.

What's your opinion??

[ksdnfkfr]

That's hard to say. I am really close with both my friend and my cousin, both my age.
Since i am a special needs kid, they help me out with this and that anyways.
And my friend and i you know anyways.
But if it was my cousin, close as we have been our whole lives and as much as he has helped me (like he used to help me with the toilet when we were little because im autistic and have coordination problems)... idk if I would want him masturbating me, even under those circumstances. Just depends on how your friend views you.

[Jaseblader]

Simply ask "Hey, bro. Have you Jerked it since the accident?" "no, is it cuz u cant cuz I could help if you want" if he says like no, then just say I was just kidding :D but if he says yes then have fun!

[Living For Love]

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[isaiah]

i say ask my bestfriend was sick once we are very close like brothers he ask me to massage his legs i thought nothing of it and did and he started getting hard and then he grabbed my hand and went to stroking his dick and he had a g/f

[deregisterme]

So my best friend was in a snowboarding accident last weekend. He's really banged up but he is coming home on Friday. (concussion, broken right wrist, broken left arm, Sprained knee and messed up face) He ran in to a snow machine!

His mom is a nurse and has to return to work on the weekend and has asked me if I would hang out with him and help feed him and help him to the bathroom. We are kinda neighbours. We have been friends since gr.3 and are close but never done 'anything' together although I've had fantasies about him.

I guess I am gonna have to help him to the bathroom and prbly help him pee. I'm sure he will not be able to J/O and I'm wondering how could I approach it to 'help him out' while he recurperates? We have never jerked together but are really close and we have talked about jerking off in a general context. He's a few months older than me and I'm pretty sure he is as horny as me.

My question is how do I approach him to offer to 'help out' with his 'needs'. Would you just be open about it or wait for him to ask. I certainly wouldn't mind at all. Being that I will have to help him pee and actually hold his penis.. what if he gets a boner while I'm helping him? He doesn't have a G/F and he may be curious as I am.

What would you do and how would you handle it. Would you just outright 'offer your service'? BTW we have seen each other naked many times and I have seen him with a semi. I caught him staring at mine once so I think he could be curious but we never crossed the line by touching each other....

Just tell him that you're fairly open on these things and that you're happy to help him out with anything. It is likely that when you're in the bathroom with him that he may get a boner, so talk to him beforehand, so things aren't unexpected and awkward, should it just happen out of the blue. That way you can have agreed boundaries of what you both want in advance.

[JohneyQuest]

If you think he may be uncomfortable with you having to hold his penis for him to pee, perhaps just help him sit down on the toilet to pee. That way he can still use the bathroom and it may not be as awkward for either of you.

[AlexOnToast]

It's really his call. Being honest, after all he just went through, JO might not be on the forefront of his mind XD

[daniel 2014]

ya a week in the hospital and he has been medicated. Like most of us..I think.. he will be 'due' for some relief. I know I would after a week! If was me in his place I think after a week or two I would be squirting if anyone touched my dick! My first concern is definitely for his recovery and comfort. He looks pretty messed up in the hospital with casts and bandages (Looks like Frankenstein LOL). Face is all swollen and a gash on his face and a black eye and swollen cheek. He is a very cool friend although a bit shy. He plays the guitar which I'm sure he will really miss.

I'll prbly leave his sponge baths to his mom who is a nurse and works 12 hour shifts. He has no brothers and sisters either. I guess I'll let him take the lead and he can let me know what he wants me to do for him ?? Fortunately, like me he is circumcised so I won't have to deal with washing his foreskin which could 'raise' some problems LOL.

So a more important question: If you were him would you ask your friend to jerk you off? and if you were me would you hesitate to 'help' him out both knowing that it would never be told to anyone. He may feel that I might tell someone which of course I NEVER would.

What's your opinion??

Just ask if hes has gotten the chance to jack off since the accident. Then if he says no let him know that you would help him out if he wanted it. Chances are he will. Youre best friends after all. I wouldnt ask... i would rather my friend ask if i needed it. If i were in his situation.

[mychalo]

[I]So a more important question: If you were him would you ask your friend to jerk you off? and if you were me would you hesitate to 'help' him out both knowing that it would never be told to anyone. He may feel that I might tell someone which of course I NEVER would.

What's your opinion??

If it was me that was hurt and the urge was becoming too much I'd probably ask my best friend to help me out. And pretty sure I'd do the same if the situation was reversed. But I wouldn't make an offer if the subject wasn't brought up by him.