Experimenting

[Tom1997]

So I've got a friend who is willing to experiment! And I've always wanted to but I don't know whether to take up the offer or not?

[Deactivated]

It all depends on how you feel about the thought of experimenting with them. Does the thought make you feel uncomfortable? If not, then you can go ahead. :)

[Everyusernameistaken]

Do it!

[deregisterme]

So I've got a friend who is willing to experiment! And I've always wanted to but I don't know whether to take up the offer or not?

Go for it. Just know the boundaries b4 U start. for example would U j/o separately or touch?

[Jtyler]

Your should its a great experience but if your don't feel it is wright then don't do it

[Philleeep]

There is no should or shouldn't except when it comes to being pressured, you shouldn't be pressured into doing something you arent entirely sure you want to do. If you want to do it then do it. If you don't want too then don't and if you're nervous maybe it could help to say, there's nothing to say that they aren't either.

[Shadow08200]

Don't feel like you're being pressured. If you don't want to, then just decline the offer. If you're wanting/willing to experiment, then i'd say go for it!

[chrisjenkins]

Do it.

[Thomas01]

If you are up for it, why not?

Just talk about it beforehand or do it

[Fireangel]

Go for it.

[Kjcj]

If I was to want to do something with a somebody but was to nervous to ask then was offered the opproutunity by that person I would take him up on the offer

[Canadian Dream]

It's up to you, as long as you feel comfortable doing it, then you're good!

[jacktvv]

From my point of view i wouldn't decline the opportunity, you get to learn new thing you probably didn't know. Its all up to you if you want to do it or not :)

[Arsenalfan123]

If you are curious then do it

[Country Cowboy]

Personally I would take it but only do what your comfortable with

[Brown13]

as long as you arent being pressured and you know what the boundaries are i see no problem with taking up that offer ;)

[ksdnfkfr]

Ehh its just fooling around, not a career choice. Dont sweat it too much.

[Aleks96]

The worst thing that could happen is that you don't enjoy it, in which case you don't have to do it again. I say go for it.

[Zachary G]

Go for it. Just know the boundaries b4 U start. for example would U j/o separately or touch?

couldnt have sid it better myself, but you also dont want to miss out on what could be a one time opportunity. better to take advantage of it while the taking is good and while you have a friend who is willing.:yeah:

[ryzzz9]

i think the biggest thing to ask yourself is can you trust the person not to talk about it. like, what if you do it and you don't like it? is this person going to go around saying you're into guys if you find out you're not? and if you find out you ARE into guys, do you want everyone knowing yet? I just know from experience that guys talk about hooking up w/girls alot, so I imagine it's the same for guys hooking up w/other guys. but if the person is chill and y'all are rly good friends, go for it.

[riverboy]

Do things you feel comfortable doing. Don't over think.

[LunarScorpio]

If you wish, do it. But it is totally your choice

[MechaSniper]

You'll regret it if you don't do it.

[Jaseblader]

Take the offer for sure if you want

[AlexOnToast]

So long as you are both comfortable and it's all safe, I don't see the harm

[Jeonard]

if a friend offered, I would... do what you fell comfortable with

[Ben101]

If they were a close friend, i'd go for it, but only if I was 100% comfortable.

[mychalo]

If one of my friends asked I'm pretty sure I'd take him up on it, to see what it's like. Wouldn't go crazy and do everything of course

[backjruton]

I would... all the boys I know are boring and I was born into the boring yeargroup of all apparently straight people that don't want to go anywhere :L

[Brown13]

I would... all the boys I know are boring and I was born into the boring yeargroup of all apparently straight people that don't want to go anywhere :L

Story of my life. Only met one but still. 99% of nothing is still greater than the 1% of nothingness

[Sean4U]

There is no should or shouldn't except when it comes to being pressured, you shouldn't be pressured into doing something you arent entirely sure you want to do. If you want to do it then do it. If you don't want too then don't and if you're nervous maybe it could help to say, there's nothing to say that they aren't either.

Well said Phileeep....if you are comfortable with the idea then you should act on your feelings...don't let him pressure you into something you're not ready for...nothing wrong with it at all

[awesomeness14]

If you've always wanted to then go ahead.

[DarkHorse4eva]

I would say go for it, but it also depends how you feel about it, if you think you're ready and if you trust him.

[Remora]

The guy i experiment(ed) with is a friend from primary school. We used to be best friends until i did gymnasium. I rang him up about half a year ago because the hormones were raging trough my body. I realised that, if i was going to do things like that, it better be with someone i trust, but also someone i don't see so often. The perfect opportunity. We had a sleepover and that's where we (via good ole' truth or dare) started minor experimenting and after that we made more appointments. I do still feel pressure when we meet, and have a slight feeling i don't *actually* want this. It all depends on your perspective.

[Bmble_B]

id say that if its mutual, then do it.