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CRH777
February 5th, 2014, 08:15 AM
Well I'm 15 and my penis hasn't grown at all. Not only that but I lied to myself when measuring it so it's really smaller than I originally thought. I want to go to a doctor (urologist or maybe endocrinologist) to see if it will grow at all. The problem is is that I'll have to ask my dad to go with me (I'm not asking my mom). How should I ask him? Or should I just wait five months to get my drivers license.

AlexOnToast
February 5th, 2014, 08:18 AM
Well I'm 15 and my penis hasn't grown at all. Not only that but I lied to myself when measuring it so it's really smaller than I originally thought. I want to go to a doctor (urologist or maybe endocrinologist) to see if it will grow at all. The problem is is that I'll have to ask my dad to go with me (I'm not asking my mom). How should I ask him? Or should I just wait five months to get my drivers license.

Can I ask, what size are you, just out of curiosity?

ksdnfkfr
February 5th, 2014, 08:27 AM
the only way i know how to ask stuff is straight up. would just say im concerned that i am not developing properly. maybe just ask to see my regular doctor and then have him refer me to a specialist.

CRH777
February 5th, 2014, 08:31 AM
Can I ask, what size are you, just out of curiosity?

Yeah I'm 3.25 or 3&1/4 erect. I thought I was 3.6 but I pressed (I didn't know that I did)

AlexOnToast
February 5th, 2014, 08:40 AM
Yeah I'm 3.25 or 3&1/4 erect. I thought I was 3.6 but I pressed (I didn't know that I did)

Thats really not so bad. It's not even unusual for someone your age to be that size or smaller. I can guarantee that most of the claims of foot-long wieners on here are false, and I particularly dislike those false claims because they can make people like you and me feel inadequate. From what I understand, the penis doesnt fully stop growing until your body is completely finished growing. You are 15, and you still have some time to go, and I would encourage you to maybe wait some time before you decide to act on it. Also, i hate to burst bubbles, but I don;t think there would be much a Doctor could do in terms of penis size.
If it really is an issue that you feel you really must take up with a doctor, then be out-straight with you r parents. Tell them you have some puberty concerns and would like to see a Doc' for a professional opinion. Other than that you needn't go into to much detail.
Hope i could help, and good luck :)

CRH777
February 5th, 2014, 08:41 AM
Thats really not so bad. It's not even unusual for someone your age to be that size or smaller. I can guarantee that most of the claims of foot-long wieners on here are false, and I particularly dislike those false claims because they can make people like you and me feel inadequate. From what I understand, the penis doesnt fully stop growing until your body is completely finished growing. You are 15, and you still have some time to go, and I would encourage you to maybe wait some time before you decide to act on it. Also, i hate to burst bubbles, but I don;t think there would be much a Doctor could do in terms of penis size.
If it really is an issue that you feel you really must take up with a doctor, then be out-straight with you r parents. Tell them you have some puberty concerns and would like to see a Doc' for a professional opinion. Other than that you needn't go into to much detail.
Hope i could help, and good luck :)

Thanks that helped a lot.

AlexOnToast
February 5th, 2014, 08:44 AM
Thanks that helped a lot.

Any time broskey :)

JamesSuperBoy
February 5th, 2014, 11:19 AM
Great answer from

There is so much variation in size and maybe a lot depends when you started puberty and it is also genetic

nklarke
February 5th, 2014, 11:30 AM
I wouldn't care about it as it "should" grow. Anyway, how are you developing in the rest of your body?

CRH777
February 5th, 2014, 12:36 PM
I wouldn't care about it as it "should" grow. Anyway, how are you developing in the rest of your body?

I have some face hair. I have pubes. I have some armpit hair and I'm starting to grow a happy trail. I've gotten taller recently. I don't know how much. I may be in a growth spurt now but my penis hasn't grown at all. Also I can cum

Jtyler
February 5th, 2014, 03:34 PM
Your ok just wait a little longer it will grow!

Shadow08200
February 5th, 2014, 04:52 PM
I'm fighting the same battle as you, waiting for it to grow. It would be nice to at least be average, but I am not in control of these situations.

All I can say is wait it out. I don't necessarily think the doctor can really do anything until you've finished your puberty. If you still haven't seen any changes later down the road, then maybe i'd consult your doctor. Other than that, just be patient.

deregisterme
February 5th, 2014, 05:31 PM
Well I'm 15 and my penis hasn't grown at all. Not only that but I lied to myself when measuring it so it's really smaller than I originally thought. I want to go to a doctor (urologist or maybe endocrinologist) to see if it will grow at all. The problem is is that I'll have to ask my dad to go with me (I'm not asking my mom). How should I ask him? Or should I just wait five months to get my drivers license.

Doctor probably wouldn't start any hormone treatment on anyone until they're 16 anyway, and even then only if you hadn't started puberty at all. You have stated fine, but if there's little development at 16, then yes, you could then go for a check up.

CRH777
February 7th, 2014, 04:56 PM
the only way i know how to ask stuff is straight up. would just say im concerned that i am not developing properly. maybe just ask to see my regular doctor and then have him refer me to a specialist.

Hey when I do ask should I do so through a text or should I talk to him face-to face?

jeremy96
February 7th, 2014, 05:04 PM
I would go to a psychic medium and ask what she/he thinks!

Zachary G
February 7th, 2014, 05:06 PM
if you want to see the doctor, just be up front with your dad and tell him that you need to make an appointment to see the doctor, hes a guy so I am sure that he will appreciate what you are going through. then again, you could just always talk to your dad about it and see if he can give you some insight.

ksdnfkfr
February 7th, 2014, 05:33 PM
Hey when I do ask should I do so through a text or should I talk to him face-to face?

id say face to face or maybe side by side sitting on the couch or wherever.
i think a lot of dads want to be closer to their sons and he would prolly be
glad that you are confiding in him, showing him trust.

CRH777
February 7th, 2014, 05:33 PM
id say face to face or maybe side by side sitting on the couch or wherever. i think a lot of dads want to be closer to their sons and he would prolly be glad that you are confiding in him.

Thanks.

awesomeness14
February 23rd, 2014, 03:47 PM
You're fine, just be patient.