She is not talking to me. What should I do??

[death-metal]

So..this girl I like (TBH i think I love her) just went through a bad, really bad break up like a week ago. We were very close friends. We still are maybe, I don't know. So yesterday we were hanging out and we went for a little walk. While we were walking, I all of sudden held her hand. I don't know why I did that but I did. And as far as I know, she wasn't that uncomfortable. I know this because she squeezed my hand too.
So after school, I tried to ask how her day went but all she gave me was a sad smile. She didn't say what happened...she said nothing. I talked to one her best friend and she said she was quite upset and angry about me holding hand and it seems like she's crying. So I texted her. I said I was sorry and she didn't reply. And now she says something about her phone being seized by her mother yet she's online on viber and is talking with her friend.
Now what am I supposed to do?? I said I was sorry and I held her hand just to let her know that she has someone who really cares about her.
She is still not talking to me and its killing me. Yes, it is very painful to get ignored by someone you talk to everyday.
What do you guys think I should do?? Any advice would be appreciated!! Thanks!!

[Seemyheart]

There isn't much you can do... you could try talking to her again, she could be having a hard time with the break up and needs time to heal. But if she doesn't want to talk, don't try and force her. I know that you miss talking to her, but she may need time, and tthat's understandable.
I hope this helps.
i wwish you the best of luck:)

[death-metal]

There isn't much you can do... you could try talking to her again, she could be having a hard time with the break up and needs time to heal. But if she doesn't want to talk, don't try and force her. I know that you miss talking to her, but she may need time, and tthat's understandable.
I hope this helps.
i wwish you the best of luck:)

I get what you're trying to say but what if she doesn't talk to me at all? Its not everyday I get close to someone. Its been like 3 years since I last felt this close, happy and finally not so lonely. I'm afrair I'll loose her....
I said I was sorry but she said something like "You don't have to be sorry. Its not your fault." and then didn't reply other 7 of my texts. Her friend told me that she is very upset. Did I do something wrong? She knows about how I feel about her.
Anyway if it has to be done, I'll do it! I won't talk to her till she's finally over it. Thanks for the advice btw...and I guess I'll need luck as well.

[PinkFloyd]

My advice would be to open up to her. Tell her why you held her hand. Girls like honesty. Other than that, I can't think of anything. All I can say is good luck, man.

[Blood]

You held her hand to show her you care, and you told her that. If she didn't reply to 7 of your texts you should stop texting her and give her some space. She's probably still sad about her other break up and wary about getting into another relationship. She'll text you when she comes around.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I think you have to chill on this - maybe she needs time - she does not need 7 texts -

That is invasive - holding her hand yes you tried - maybe just in the instant she squeezed - maybe that meant a thanks for caring NOT I love you and need you to text

[death-metal]

My advice would be to open up to her. Tell her why you held her hand. Girls like honesty. Other than that, I can't think of anything. All I can say is good luck, man.
I already did but she's not replying.
You held her hand to show her you care, and you told her that. If she didn't reply to 7 of your texts you should stop texting her and give her some space. She's probably still sad about her other break up and wary about getting into another relationship. She'll text you when she comes around.
Thanks! I'll give her space. Its not like I've several other people to care after so yeaah..I think I'll wait and let time do its work. :)
I think you have to chill on this - maybe she needs time - she does not need 7 texts -

That is invasive - holding her hand yes you tried - maybe just in the instant she squeezed - maybe that meant a thanks for caring NOT I love you and need you to text

I never said I texted her as people in relationship do. I texted her to say I was sorry...I panic in times like this and usually end up doing stupid stuffs like that. My bad.
So yeaah! I'll wait!

And others who have been in the same situation I'm in right now can reply too. Let me know what you guys did!

[Seemyheart]

I get what you're trying to say but what if she doesn't talk to me at all? Its not everyday I get close to someone. Its been like 3 years since I last felt this close, happy and finally not so lonely. I'm afrair I'll loose her....
I said I was sorry but she said something like "You don't have to be sorry. Its not your fault." and then didn't reply other 7 of my texts. Her friend told me that she is very upset. Did I do something wrong? She knows about how I feel about her.
Anyway if it has to be done, I'll do it! I won't talk to her till she's finally over it. Thanks for the advice btw...and I guess I'll need luck as well.

If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me

[death-metal]

If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me

Okay! Thanks :)

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[Seemyheart]

Okay! Thanks :)

All right:) I will
I hope things get better for you

[PinkFloyd]

[QUOTE=death-metal;2675909]I already did but she's not replying.

Thanks! I'll give her space. Its not like I've several other people to care after so yeaah..I think I'll wait and let time do its work. :)


I never said I texted her as people in relationship do. I texted her to say I was sorry...I panic in times like this and usually end up doing stupid stuffs like that. My bad.
So yeaah! I'll wait!

And others who have been in the same situation I'm in right now can reply too. Let me know what you guys did!

No dude. I mean talk to her face.

[Body odah Man]

So..this girl I like (TBH i think I love her) just went through a bad, really bad break up like a week ago. We were very close friends. We still are maybe, I don't know. So yesterday we were hanging out and we went for a little walk. While we were walking, I all of sudden held her hand. I don't know why I did that but I did. And as far as I know, she wasn't that uncomfortable. I know this because she squeezed my hand too.
So after school, I tried to ask how her day went but all she gave me was a sad smile. She didn't say what happened...she said nothing. I talked to one her best friend and she said she was quite upset and angry about me holding hand and it seems like she's crying. So I texted her. I said I was sorry and she didn't reply. And now she says something about her phone being seized by her mother yet she's online on viber and is talking with her friend.
Now what am I supposed to do?? I said I was sorry and I held her hand just to let her know that she has someone who really cares about her.
She is still not talking to me and its killing me. Yes, it is very painful to get ignored by someone you talk to everyday.
What do you guys think I should do?? Any advice would be appreciated!! Thanks!!

I think that she's trying to purposely avoid you and not talk to you because of u holding her hand. She just went through a breakup and she probably doesn't want to go through any more drama. You holding her hand= (in her mind) you wanting to be more than friends which she does NOT want atm and due to her insecurity she's avoiding you. I'd say to give it time. Leave her alone for a bit until you think she's clamed down. Then go slow and try to win back her friendship. Good luck :)

[Saint]

Emotional rollercoasters. She's probably on one,and it's honestly just best to leave her alone for a bit. By holding her hand you might have signalled a different approach,and she could've just thought that you were trying to hit on her. Best thing you could do now is to just wait it out :P

[death-metal]

Emotional rollercoasters. She's probably on one,and it's honestly just best to leave her alone for a bit. By holding her hand you might have signalled a different approach,and she could've just thought that you were trying to hit on her. Best thing you could do now is to just wait it out :P
Allright! Thanks!
I think that she's trying to purposely avoid you and not talk to you because of u holding her hand. She just went through a breakup and she probably doesn't want to go through any more drama. You holding her hand= (in her mind) you wanting to be more than friends which she does NOT want atm and due to her insecurity she's avoiding you. I'd say to give it time. Leave her alone for a bit until you think she's clamed down. Then go slow and try to win back her friendship. Good luck :)
Yeah...Well someone said time's a healer so yeah...I'll let time do its work.
[QUOTE=death-metal;2675909]I already did but she's not replying.

Thanks! I'll give her space. Its not like I've several other people to care after so yeaah..I think I'll wait and let time do its work. :)


I never said I texted her as people in relationship do. I texted her to say I was sorry...I panic in times like this and usually end up doing stupid stuffs like that. My bad.
So yeaah! I'll wait!

And others who have been in the same situation I'm in right now can reply too. Let me know what you guys did!

No dude. I mean talk to her face.

I' will. when she'll recover. Thanks btw! And nice username...

[JamesSuperBoy]

Let us know how the goes - but for sure try not to panic over it and do stupid stuff.

[isaiah]

So..this girl I like (TBH i think I love her) just went through a bad, really bad break up like a week ago. We were very close friends. We still are maybe, I don't know. So yesterday we were hanging out and we went for a little walk. While we were walking, I all of sudden held her hand. I don't know why I did that but I did. And as far as I know, she wasn't that uncomfortable. I know this because she squeezed my hand too.
So after school, I tried to ask how her day went but all she gave me was a sad smile. She didn't say what happened...she said nothing. I talked to one her best friend and she said she was quite upset and angry about me holding hand and it seems like she's crying. So I texted her. I said I was sorry and she didn't reply. And now she says something about her phone being seized by her mother yet she's online on viber and is talking with her friend.
Now what am I supposed to do?? I said I was sorry and I held her hand just to let her know that she has someone who really cares about her.
She is still not talking to me and its killing me. Yes, it is very painful to get ignored by someone you talk to everyday.
What do you guys think I should do?? Any advice would be appreciated!! Thanks!!

I have been in the same situation and i am a nice person but my older cousin gave me some advice he told me to walk with another girl in front of her show her your wanna a relationship and you dont wannna wait around and be dragg along like a piece a string and if she likes u she will say forget the hold thing and talk if she dont move on find some one else if yall are meant to be together u will

[death-metal]

Day 3: She talks with other people who don't really matter (according to her that is) but she didn't even look at me...

[goundy]

So..this girl I like (TBH i think I love her) just went through a bad, really bad break up like a week ago. We were very close friends. We still are maybe, I don't know. So yesterday we were hanging out and we went for a little walk. While we were walking, I all of sudden held her hand. I don't know why I did that but I did. And as far as I know, she wasn't that uncomfortable. I know this because she squeezed my hand too.
So after school, I tried to ask how her day went but all she gave me was a sad smile. She didn't say what happened...she said nothing. I talked to one her best friend and she said she was quite upset and angry about me holding hand and it seems like she's crying. So I texted her. I said I was sorry and she didn't reply. And now she says something about her phone being seized by her mother yet she's online on viber and is talking with her friend.
Now what am I supposed to do?? I said I was sorry and I held her hand just to let her know that she has someone who really cares about her.
She is still not talking to me and its killing me. Yes, it is very painful to get ignored by someone you talk to everyday.
What do you guys think I should do?? Any advice would be appreciated!! Thanks!!

A girl isn't going to be sad because you physically escalted on her. It would be a different story if you 'hand hold raped her' and held her hand against her will. She was just shy and probably a bit emotionally scattered due to her ex breaking up with her.

My personal saying is never apologize for your desires as a man. You did the right thing but following your male instincs; never let society make you feel ashamed for following it. Never apologize.
She was sad for reasons outside of you. If you like her, you know what you have to do...

[death-metal]

A girl isn't going to be sad because you physically escalted on her. It would be a different story if you 'hand hold raped her' and held her hand against her will. She was just shy and probably a bit emotionally scattered due to her ex breaking up with her.

My personal saying is never apologize for your desires as a man. You did the right thing but following your male instincs; never let society make you feel ashamed for following it. Never apologize.
She was sad for reasons outside of you. If you like her, you know what you have to do...

Already apologized...haha you're late bro! Anyway thanks :)