Stopped hanging out with me

[topgun]

So I have this friend and we used to hang out a lot, laugh, talk, etc. I thought we were getting really close and I started developing feelings for her cause she was unlike anyone I've met before. but now she's just stopped hanging out with me and has found a new group and they don't like me, and is really getting close to this other dude and its killing me!
I cant stop thinking about her even though sometimes she's a real bitch to me. And yeah I've a really hard time making new friends. Oh both of my friends are not here and we hardly talk, so I really have to no one to talk to this about, that's why I'm here.

I sound like a little bitch, I know but I need some advice.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Just asking to get more of an understanding, but how long did your relationship (as friends) last? It depends on timeframe as well, I have a couple of reasons which could be possible.
1. She might have felt that hanging with you is wrong. I've done that before as well
2. Somebody could've said something about you which she could not stand. Maybe it was a lie.
3. She just changed. Some people just do that, they just stop talking to certain people and talk to others.
No matter what the reason, you should respect it and even though it will be difficult, it would be better to move on.
With friends, you just have to make new circles. You can either change (which is difficult) or you could even meet new people like work, Community service, clubs, anything.

[Saint of Sinners]

Do you know why she stopped hanging out?

[topgun]

Just asking to get more of an understanding, but how long did your relationship (as friends) last? It depends on timeframe as well, I have a couple of reasons which could be possible.
1. She might have felt that hanging with you is wrong. I've done that before as well
2. Somebody could've said something about you which she could not stand. Maybe it was a lie.
3. She just changed. Some people just do that, they just stop talking to certain people and talk to others.
No matter what the reason, you should respect it and even though it will be difficult, it would be better to move on.
With friends, you just have to make new circles. You can either change (which is difficult) or you could even meet new people like work, Community service, clubs, anything.

Thanks for replying! :D

Our relationship as friends lasted for about 6 months, she used to talk to me about everything, her bf(she goes back and forth with that guy), problems, etc.
Maybe someone did say something about me. This friend of her's really hates me.

I'm trying to make new friends I do have friends in this other group, but I'm never a part of their plans.

Now I do feel better, I don't really like her anymore. I guess I just needed to open up.

Do you know why she stopped hanging out?

I have no idea. :S

[JamesSuperBoy]

Thanks for replying! :D

Our relationship as friends lasted for about 6 months, she used to talk to me about everything, her bf(she goes back and forth with that guy), problems, etc.
Maybe someone did say something about me. This friend of her's really hates me.

I'm trying to make new friends I do have friends in this other group, but I'm never a part of their plans.

Now I do feel better, I don't really like her anymore. I guess I just needed to open up.

Thats good you feel better - maybe you just kinda got stuck between to groups of friends ex friends whatever best thing do not over think the deal if you dont get in the plans with a group its kinda up to you to maybe suggest things do to or such any see how it goes -- good you are feeling better

[death-metal]

Thanks for replying! :D

Our relationship as friends lasted for about 6 months, she used to talk to me about everything, her bf(she goes back and forth with that guy), problems, etc.
Maybe someone did say something about me. This friend of her's really hates me.

I'm trying to make new friends I do have friends in this other group, but I'm never a part of their plans.

Now I do feel better, I don't really like her anymore. I guess I just needed to open up.

@bold: Dude, no offence but I think you should stop talking to her if that is the reason. She has been your friend for about 6 months and yet she believes in somebody else who doesn't even know you that well. 6 months more than enough time to know someone closely or atleast for me it is. I can figure someone out in like a week or two and then treat them the way they should be ...
If she doesn't really trust you, then you should find someone else who'll trust you even when the world will be against you. A cliched line but thats how it is.
Hope I helped...good luck!!