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JVTeen
February 1st, 2014, 04:25 AM
Well, my sexuality i think is in question right now. And almost all my friends are girls, for some reason, i'm also quite attracted to males not emotionally but when i see like abs, muscles or whatsoever, i sometimes get an erection or perhaps crazy fantasies. Does that make me gay? And what could i do to make myself more male or more masculine? So that girls won't just look at me like a guy-friend or maybe gay friend.

Ainsleyshea
February 1st, 2014, 07:00 AM
no thing makes you gay you are the only person that can say that your gay but you sound bi curios it will pass or it wont and just coz you hang a round with girls they think you there gay friend if you like hanging around with them then do it.

carishius
February 1st, 2014, 07:57 AM
For a couple of years I didn't know what I was, like one day I'd be attracted to girls the next guys so I just waited it out, and now I'm openly gay and I've accepted that no more feelings towards girls now. And just because you hang out with girls doesn't mean you're gay, like I said im openly gay and most if not all of my friends are heterosexual guys. So my advice would be just wait and see and soon enough you'll know for yourself :)

steellord321
February 1st, 2014, 08:37 AM
If your gay you don't want girls as more than just friends, so there's nothing you should do to be "more masculine" just to attract girls.

But either way, sounds like you need more time to figure that out. Do you like girls physically? Just having some as friends isn't the best gauge of sexuality. I've mostly only had guy friends.

For me, the emotional attraction came later, only when i allowed myself to think of guys as more than just hot and that i want to do things like cuddle or make out with them.

Forsakenbymyself
February 1st, 2014, 10:06 AM
being gay has nothing to do with being masculine. I think you could be bi-curious.

ksdnfkfr
February 1st, 2014, 10:28 AM
Well, my sexuality i think is in question right now. And almost all my friends are girls, for some reason, i'm also quite attracted to males not emotionally but when i see like abs, muscles or whatsoever, i sometimes get an erection or perhaps crazy fantasies. Does that make me gay? And what could i do to make myself more male or more masculine? So that girls won't just look at me like a guy-friend or maybe gay friend.

There's nothing unique in any of that.
I've read lot of posts very similar.
Just means you are an ordinary teenager.