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SkiJoey99
January 31st, 2014, 07:44 PM
A couple of months ago I lost a dare/bet kind of deal and had to give one of my friends a blowjob. This week he asked me if I'd do it again for him. I'm not gay, and I don't want him to think I am. However I kind of want to do it, but I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks!
Swagging god
January 31st, 2014, 07:53 PM
If you feel like doing it again and he is offering, go for it. I would just relax and have fun, if he says anything about being " gay then explain to him that you're not " gay", just horny and willing to experiment.
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pjones
January 31st, 2014, 08:08 PM
as long as he'd not taking advantage of you, and you're ok doing it, it could be fun.
DjBlazter
January 31st, 2014, 08:19 PM
If he wants it give it to him but tell him its only once from you unless u and ur friend are bi/gay and u either want to date or experiment but its probably a one time thing
darthearth
January 31st, 2014, 08:21 PM
Say that you'd love to go down on him again (with a smile), but that "blowjobs don't make me gay".
Zachary G
January 31st, 2014, 08:30 PM
if its something you want to do, then go for it. he seems pretty interested in wanting to do it again, so why not. if i were in your shoes, i would definitley take advantage of the chance to experiment some more with someone i trusted than with someone i didnt (assuming you trust him to keep your secret)
Carson99
January 31st, 2014, 08:31 PM
Gay is not an all-or-nothing thing. It is a preference. And it's hard at our age to have lots of willing, trusted friends who are female, so...
Just educate him. Science tells us nobody is completely 100% anything. Just impress upon him the deal about trust, and that him approaching you can be spun as him having unusual attractions also. Enjoy...
ksdnfkfr
January 31st, 2014, 08:33 PM
Lay down some ground rules. Take charge of the situation.
TheAmazingOta
January 31st, 2014, 09:23 PM
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Fireangel
January 31st, 2014, 09:42 PM
A couple of months ago I lost a dare/bet kind of deal and had to give one of my friends a blowjob. This week he asked me if I'd do it again for him. I'm not gay, and I don't want him to think I am. However I kind of want to do it, but I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks!
Just do it and enjoy it.
Green Arrow
January 31st, 2014, 10:10 PM
If you want to do it, do it! Just make sure that he knows that you just want to do it for the experience not for any other sexual reason. :)
chrisjenkins
January 31st, 2014, 11:04 PM
If you are comfortable with doing it then do it.
ExhibitG
January 31st, 2014, 11:06 PM
put aside labels. don't let the weight of "doing this might make me gay" prevent you from doing something you want to do and might enjoy doing. just do whatever makes you happy and leave the labels to soup cans.
Luke91
January 31st, 2014, 11:59 PM
I can understand you being interested in doing it again if you enjoyed it the first time but are you not interested in seeing what it is like to receive? It would appear to me more like experimenting if it went both ways. I would tell him you are willing to do it again if he is willing to return the favor. If it only goes one way then I can see where he could think of it as gay.
grossgod11
February 1st, 2014, 12:02 AM
Personally I wouldn't do it because I don't have an attraction to men in anyway, but if it makes you happy you want to experiment and have some fun with that guy go for it if you trust him and feel comfortable doing it.
Catholic Guy
February 1st, 2014, 04:12 AM
Be honest, tell him you aren't gay but you are willing to give him a blowjob
JVTeen
February 1st, 2014, 04:34 AM
A couple of months ago I lost a dare/bet kind of deal and had to give one of my friends a blowjob. This week he asked me if I'd do it again for him. I'm not gay, and I don't want him to think I am. However I kind of want to do it, but I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks!
If a friend of mine asked me, i would be willing to do so. Given the right time and place or chance that were both alone. I say go for it!Just beware of Medical Exams though! WAHAHAHA
deregisterme
February 1st, 2014, 06:02 AM
A couple of months ago I lost a dare/bet kind of deal and had to give one of my friends a blowjob. This week he asked me if I'd do it again for him. I'm not gay, and I don't want him to think I am. However I kind of want to do it, but I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks!
Don't worry about being labelled. If you want to do it, go for it. If I was in your position, I would want him to return the favour too!
snowtrax
February 1st, 2014, 08:47 AM
If you liked it I would do it again. How often do you get that opportunity?
AlexBoy
February 1st, 2014, 09:13 AM
If you don't feel comfortable, then don't do it. but remember that there's nothing wrong with it and that it's perfectly okay to do it if, it's very normal and lots of guys mess around with friends to experiment, you'll never know if you really don't like something if you don't try it
Forsakenbymyself
February 1st, 2014, 10:03 AM
If it's something you are comfortable with, do it. If he ever crosses the line, you can tell him!
tom17
February 1st, 2014, 01:10 PM
If you liked it the first time, you want to do it again and he even askes you to do it, then why don't you go for it? I would! There's nothing to be ashamed or scared of. You both are okay with it.
jayjay's toocool
February 1st, 2014, 01:21 PM
Haha to be truthful ask him for one back, check his response. You know based on basic guy code you didn't have to do the dare at first. So could you tell that you really wanted to.
loki2000
February 1st, 2014, 01:30 PM
Id go for it...Sounds like both of you don`t mind getting into it...Just relax and enjoy your self...Not gay to have sum fun with your best friend
Tdaykin877
February 1st, 2014, 01:33 PM
Make it clear your not gay and it's just experiment, and do it ahah
riverboy
February 1st, 2014, 04:46 PM
if its something you want to do, then go for it. he seems pretty interested in wanting to do it again, so why not. if i were in your shoes, i would definitley take advantage of the chance to experiment some more with someone i trusted than with someone i didnt (assuming you trust him to keep your secret)
But I would also include you have to blow me too.
Basketballpl97
February 1st, 2014, 05:08 PM
Riverboy good point haha, emm I think that in order to do it you should trust him and be ok with yourself
jacobjb10
February 1st, 2014, 06:20 PM
I would go for it. if you are comfortable with it just tell your friend I'm only doing this because I want to experiment and that your not gay.
AlexOnToast
February 4th, 2014, 05:36 PM
I guess so long as you are both comfortable, I don't see the harm :)
The Trendy Wolf
February 4th, 2014, 06:31 PM
A couple of months ago I lost a dare/bet kind of deal and had to give one of my friends a blowjob. This week he asked me if I'd do it again for him. I'm not gay, and I don't want him to think I am. However I kind of want to do it, but I just don't know what to do. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks!
If you want to do it again, then go ahead and experiment with it. If your friend thinks that you're gay as a result, then that's his opinion, but only you know what you are.
Storm'sGame15
February 4th, 2014, 06:40 PM
I would go for it if you were comfortable. My friend once asked and I decided to give him one then he returned the favor kinda nice.
Country Cowboy
February 4th, 2014, 08:15 PM
If your comfortable with it, go for it! I personally would do it
Pulp501
February 4th, 2014, 09:42 PM
If you want to do it, just do it.
Seth Green
February 4th, 2014, 10:51 PM
If you want to, go for it. Also, JEEZ where can I find friends like this...?
MTB1997
February 5th, 2014, 04:35 PM
Id go for it! No ones sayin you have to go to full on sexual intercourse!
Jtyler
February 5th, 2014, 05:46 PM
as long as he'd not taking advantage of you, and you're ok doing it, it could be fun.
Agreed
KiyoshisIsland
February 5th, 2014, 06:29 PM
Just go for it
daniel 2014
February 6th, 2014, 12:09 AM
Say that you'd love to go down on him again (with a smile), but that "blowjobs don't make me gay".
This is a good one! Id just go for it and explain your situation like he said.
Jaseblader
February 6th, 2014, 02:09 AM
I would tell him sure, but he has to give me on at the same time #69
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