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chiisaiaoiryu
January 29th, 2014, 11:05 PM
Just had this floating in my head and wanted to see how people would reflect on their first time having sex. Please be honest when answering, and note that I'm talking about full-on sex in this topic, not just hj and bjs. Also, this can be answered by both guys and girls.

How old were you when you first had sex?:

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?:

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?:

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?:

Was it with a guy or girl:

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?:

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?:

Here's the answers for mine to get it started.


How old were you when you first had sex?: 18

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: a mix of both pressure and a best friend who was on the same curiosity boat as me

If with a guy, what position were you and how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?: I liked being bottom

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?: N/A

Was it with a guy or girl: guy

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: I was good with it, best friend and I just saw sharing our virginity as us sharing our stuff.

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: It was a one-time thing, but it did in a sense strengthen our friendship in that we knew we were comfortable with talking about or doing anything with each other.

WHTaft09
January 29th, 2014, 11:49 PM
How old were you when you first had sex?: 16

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: Curiosity/desire with a trusted friend

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?:

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?: Pretty comfortable, it felt great!

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: I felt awesome, I wanted to do it again right away!

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: My first was a one time thing. Did not ruin our friendship

tvsigeys
January 30th, 2014, 12:08 AM
How old were you when you first had sex?: 15

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: friend

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?:

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?: very

Was it with a guy or girl: girl

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: quite happy

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: fwb

WizardFire
January 30th, 2014, 03:42 AM
How old were you when you first had sex?: 15

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: Curiosity plus I my friend had just as much desire as I did

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?: I was giving and he was receiving. We were both comfortable.

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?:

Was it with a guy or girl: Guy

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: It just felt amazing after. We both enjoyed ourselves.

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: Friends with benefits

AlexOnToast
January 30th, 2014, 05:20 AM
I don't feel like going into detail, suffice it to say that I didnt enjoy it at all really

Swagging god
January 30th, 2014, 09:43 AM
Just had this floating in my head and wanted to see how people would reflect on their first time having sex. Please be honest when answering, and note that I'm talking about full-on sex in this topic, not just hj and bjs. Also, this can be answered by both guys and girls.

How old were you when you first had sex?: I lost my virginity when I was 14.

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: I had been dating her for a while and we had talked about it and so on our 6 month anniversary I came over and we lost our virginity to each other.

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?:

If with a girl or as top with a guy, how comfortable were you with penetration for the first time?: I was very comfortable with penetrating her, I just told her that if she needed for me y to stop, slow down or whatever all she had to do was ask. We communicated our feelings and did our best to make it enjoyable and special for the both of us.

Was it with a guy or girl: Girl

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: I felt estatic, empowered and closer to her as a partner.

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: We were already dating and the relationship lasted a little over 2 years after we lost it to one another. And even though we are just friends now we stilll have that strong connect as we did while dating.

hoboliz
January 30th, 2014, 12:51 PM
[QUOTE=chiisaiaoiryu;2669789]How old were you when you first had sex?: 13

How did you come to want to have sex; i.e. pressure, curiosity, or had a trusted friend who wanted it as bad as you?: Natural progression of events.

If with a guy, how comfortable were you with the sex position you chose to be in?: it was comfortable, sure but I've found other positions to be more pleasurable.

Was it with a guy or girl: guy

How did you feel after your first sex experience; i.e. happy or regretful or whatever else you felt?: still horny. He was terrible.

Did it end up as one-time thing, FWB, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend down the line, or ruining the friendship?: we did it a few more times, but he didn't improve, so I stopped seeing him.

Luminous
January 30th, 2014, 10:26 PM
I haven't had sex yet.

mai-rin
January 31st, 2014, 09:55 AM
I've not had sex out of my own will yet