Finally going to come out need help!

[went2far]

So i'm taking the bull by the horns. I'm bi and i'm going o tell my youth worker first but i'm not sure how i'm going to say it. I plan to ask if we can sit back to back to make it easier. So how do you think i should work it i feel like if i just say "i'm bi" and that's it, it will be a bit awkward and short, help would be greatly appreciated.

[HUSTLEMAN]

Try getting into a conversation with him/her and then after a while say that you have something very important to tell him/her, and then you say, "I am bisexual."

I hope that it all turns out great for you.

[Luminous]

I'm 'out', and by that I mean if it's relevant to the conversation, I'll tell. I don't really understand making a big deal about it and having a big conversation, unless you think that person may be against it (then please, defend yourself!). I think you could just casually mention to your youth worker in a conversation, "Oh, by the way, I think you should know I'm bi." If you make it a big deal, it will be a big deal, and it sounds to me like you don't want that.

[went2far]

I'm 'out', and by that I mean if it's relevant to the conversation, I'll tell. I don't really understand making a big deal about it and having a big conversation, unless you think that person may be against it (then please, defend yourself!). I think you could just casually mention to your youth worker in a conversation, "Oh, by the way, I think you should know I'm bi." If you make it a big deal, it will be a big deal, and it sounds to me like you don't want that.

i want to tell her as i wanted help to tell my parents

[Luminous]

i want to tell her as i wanted help to tell my parents

Okay, that's a good reason to ask for a moment alone. Tell her something along the lines of, "I'm bi, and I want to tell my parents, but I don't know how, will you help me?" It will be hard to say, I know that from experience, but take a deep breath and go for it, you'll be fine. Good luck! :)

[went2far]

Okay, that's a good reason to ask for a moment alone. Tell her something along the lines of, "I'm bi, and I want to tell my parents, but I don't know how, will you help me?" It will be hard to say, I know that from experience, but take a deep breath and go for it, you'll be fine. Good luck! :)

thanks thats a really good idea thanks so much im not as nervous as i thought, im more thrilled im going to tell someone

[blarg2011]

good luck bro!!! it's a really importanta nd good step ur taking! :)

[went2far]

good luck bro!!! it's a really importanta nd good step ur taking! :)

Thanks

[AlexOnToast]

When people ask, I tell. Other than that I dont go around just announcing it. My sexuality doesnt define me as a person - and you don't catch many people going around saying "oh by the way everyone, I'm straight, just letting you all know"

[blarg2011]

u make a good point alex, but i guess it's important to have at least one person to talk about ur feelings.... or maybe i'm wrong?

[went2far]

yes i think ur defo right alex but i would like my family to know me fully as a person. just like they know my fav foods and stuff

[ksdnfkfr]

just say "i'm bi" and that's it

Yep, it's that simple. You just bi, not an axe murderer.

[Liam Peter]

When my friend told me he was gay, he kind of just worked it into the conversation casualy, if u wanna make it less akward, do that

[went2far]

Yep, it's that simple. You just bi, not an axe murderer.

When my friend told me he was gay, he kind of just worked it into the conversation casualy, if u wanna make it less akward, do that

kashmir i like you outlook on life and liam thats a good idea however im not to good with convos to start with

[Liam Peter]

kashmir i like you outlook on life and liam thats a good idea however im not to good with convos to start with

Then I would sugest you just come out and say it, if they are not well enough to accept you then that's their loss and they are not worthy of being involved in your life. :)

[went2far]

Then I would sugest you just come out and say it, if they are not well enough to accept you then that's their loss and they are not worthy of being involved in your life. :)


i know for sure that my family will be ok with it but for some reason its still hard to tell them.

[Liam Peter]

i know for sure that my family will be ok with it but for some reason its still hard to tell them.

Im not gay so I've never gone through it, but I definatly understand what u mean, I could know my family would be ok with something but I still won't wanna tell them, but it's like riping off a bandaide, and the sooner you do it the less it will hurt

[went2far]

help i chickened out :(

[DeadEyes]

So i'm taking the bull by the horns. I'm bi and i'm going o tell my youth worker first but i'm not sure how i'm going to say it. I plan to ask if we can sit back to back to make it easier. So how do you think i should work it i feel like if i just say "i'm bi" and that's it, it will be a bit awkward and short, help would be greatly appreciated.

Well, you might want to think twice before you went 2 far.