Does this girl seem interested in me?

[clueless_one]

At first she never spoke to me. Then all of a sudden she started speaking to me a heap. We were given sheets of information, my sheet had the same information as hers and she stood really close to me and her arm was touching mine and it almost felt as if she was looking at my information but it was the same as what she had.

When at a group event, I said hi to her and she replied shyly back. She also seemed to be taking notice of my clothes putting my attention on what I was wearing, saying what it said on my shirt. Later, she asked me to pass her a drink to her which was out of her reach, I got it and instead of giving it to her, I filled her cup also. When she was sitting down next to me, she was sitting close to me again to the point she was brushing her arm against mine. She also knocked her leg on mine and said sorry which wasn't needed.

At the event we played a game and she was in the opposition team, and every time she saw me, she followed me and was almost always in my area and was laughing whenever next to me when playing the game.

After the game, she seemed to be around in my area and was talking to me a lot again.

But when she was around her parents she grew quiet and didn't talk but whenever I looked at her, she looked at me and gave a slight smile and was glancing away slowly.

On her birthday, I wished her over Facebook private message with a simple "happy birthday [name] (:", I only expected a "thanks" reply, but she replied saying "hehe thanks [my name]". This got me confused as to what she meant when saying "hehe"

So, what does the "hehe" mean on her reply message to me?
Is she interested in me or is she just acting extremely friendly?

[AlexOnToast]

Well I don't know if this is helpful or not, but I often use "hehe thank" when I think just plain "thanks" sounds too formal... But tbh, it could mean any number of things...

[clueless_one]

I also forgot about one small thing... She put a smiley face at the end of her message reply. So it was actually "hehe thanks [my name] (:"

Sometimes small things like this end up making a huge difference.

[Croconaw]

She might just be acting friendly.

[blarg2011]

do the same to her.. and see how she reacts.... rub his arm like unitentionally, sit next to her, U start a conversation, smile at her... stuff like that.. u know XD

[clueless_one]

anyone else able to help...

[Cygnus]

Don't wanna ruin hopes here, but she is probably being friendly and thats it, a single "hehe" on Facebook will probably not change much.

[clueless_one]

Don't wanna ruin hopes here, but she is probably being friendly and thats it, a single "hehe" on Facebook will probably not change much.

It wasn't on Facebook… It was a message, a private message like say TEXTING…

To me thats what private messaging is on Facebook… TEXTING.

[Croconaw]

You'll never know how she feels if you never ask her...

It wasn't on Facebook… It was a message, a private message like say TEXTING…

To me thats what private messaging is on Facebook… TEXTING.Regardless, it was on Facebook, though. Where it happens shouldn't make much of a difference.

[clueless_one]

You'll never know how she feels if you never ask her...

You don't know how hard it is for me to ask her. ITS ALL ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE TO ME.

the "hehe" just sounds weird given the context was a birthday wish. If it was something funny then yes its nothing to worry about...

[Croconaw]

You don't know how hard it is for me to ask her. ITS ALL ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE TO ME.

the "hehe" just sounds weird given the context was a birthday wish. If it was something funny then yes its nothing to worry about...
I know, but you've been posting a bunch of topics about the same girl. Anyway, that's just what some girls do. They write "hehe" in texts. It doesn't mean anything.

[clueless_one]

I know, but you've been posting a bunch of topics about the same girl. Anyway, that's just what some girls do. They write "hehe" in texts. It doesn't mean anything.

this is a new girl… all posts i make now are of new girls…

[Croconaw]

Well, that's difficult to realize because of your previous history. I have to say this, even though it may come off as rude. You don't have the right to be angry or upset, because you've never had the guts to tell this girl how you feel. She might not feel the same way if you tell her, but at least you'll have closure. You need to tell her these things and stop chasing after whichever girl you're interested in.

[clueless_one]

Well, that's difficult to realize because of your previous history. I have to say this, even though it may come off as rude. You don't have the right to be angry or upset, because you've never had the guts to tell this girl how you feel. She might not feel the same way if you tell her, but at least you'll have closure. You need to tell her these things and stop chasing after whichever girl you're interested in.

what if you can't… then what… I can't do it at all. I can only do things that show that I might seem interested in her like help her and wish her luck in things.

The thing thats weird is why did she ask what it said on my shirt… she is curious about what I'm wearing… am i right… why do you think this is then…?

[Croconaw]

what if you can't… then what… I can't do it at all. I can only do things that show that I might seem interested in her like help her and wish her luck in things.So basically you're waiting for her to ask you out because you're afraid?

The thing thats weird is why did she ask what it said on my shirt… she is curious about what I'm wearing… am i right… why do you think this is then…?She was probably just trying to make conversation, or maybe she has some feelings.

[chimpgonnagetya]

She likes you. Her body language says so, and she's flirting with you. If you like her ask her out. If she says no (low chance of that happening) no one will be mean. If someone got rejected would you be mean to them? No, unless your a huge douche. If anything you would say your sorry they got denied. Ask her out, get movement, weather it's negative or positive. If it's negative, you have closure. You know to move on.

[thesurvivalist]

Wow you are way over analyzing the facebook thing.