mom

[Seemyheart]

My mom just came in my room and started yelling at me... she has been yelling at me a lot lately, it's getting so old. I sometimes wish I could just run away. Far far away.

[Croconaw]

Is there a specific reason that she would be yelling at you? It just seems weird that she would do that with no intention. Are you doing anything to aggravate her?

[JollyToes]

I hate when that happens. They yell and walk out and your just sitting there like wth just happened.

[Seemyheart]

I hate when that happens. They yell and walk out and your just sitting there like wth just happened.

I know right!! I didn't even bother to reply... just stared back until she was done

Is there a specific reason that she would be yelling at you? It just seems weird that she would do that with no intention. Are you doing anything to aggravate her?

She says I'm not helping her enough... I did dishes, Fed the pets, helped my little sister with her homework, did MY own homework and did laundry... I guess I haven't done enough...

[Croconaw]

She seriously needs to chill out then. It looks like you've done more than enough.

[Seemyheart]

She seriously needs to chill out then. It looks like you've done more than enough.

Thing I don't get is that I have a 17 year old brother and a 10 year old sister, who are also more than capable to help out more too... and she just yells at me

[Croconaw]

She probably has something against you, which is ridiculous. You should tell your siblings to do some work around the house for a change.

[Seemyheart]

She probably has something against you, which is ridiculous. You should tell your siblings to do some work around the house for a change.

My brother and I don't talk, and there isn't a point in trying to tell my sister to help, she will just tell my mom I yelled at her and I'll get yelled at.

[Carson99]

What do you expect from us? Yes that happens. A lot. I wish it were magically possible to hear both sides of the story (or even how old you are) and see the actual situation. Then I might have some suggestions.

Chances you are can't tell us the other side because you don't even see it for yourself.

What I'm saying is you may well have the answers already and just not willing to go there and see them.

[Seemyheart]

What do you expect from us? Yes that happens. A lot. I wish it were magically possible to hear both sides of the story (or even how old you are) and see the actual situation. Then I might have some suggestions.

Chances you are can't tell us the other side because you don't even see it for yourself.

What I'm saying is you may well have the answers already and just not willing to go there and see them.

I didn't "expect" anything. I JUST needed to get it off my chest. Which is why this website is here, so people can talk about what's getting them down and then getting help or advice.

Forgive me for posting about it.

[blarg2011]

i've learned that when some1 puts so much atention on you (in your case yelling at u) it's cuz they expect something from u... i mean, they think u can do better

for example... imagine i'm a football coach... if i got two players, one is good, and the other is really bad... of course i'll put much more energy on the good one... it's cuz i see that the bad one will not have any future on football...

maybe u should just chill... think about this and maybe the way u take those yelling will change...

and my mother yells at me a lot even if i do stuff or not... it's the way mothers are i guess...

[Carson99]

Seemyheart -- I'm sorry I didn't mean to sound harsh. I want to help if I can in some small way, that's why I am here. I don't have any crises at the moment in my own life.

I feel frustrated when I don't have enough information to have any idea why or how. No way I could possibly say anything helpful. I was treating it like a question, when I realize now it was a rant.

I will try to be more sensitive and perceptive in the future. Thanks for being honest with me.

[chrisjenkins]

My mom is the same way. I did try running away. I got a couple of states away and realized that I did love her and I went back.