I extremely hate my Dad!!!

[Ellyz]

I cant stand anymore my Dad's attitude as he grows old and old he becomes more annoying and more insults come , Just like this he always compare me to my stepbrother who do goods , < My Stepbrother don't look at him anymore as a dad. When i make an achievement he laughs and make a joke out of him , He is jealous when my mom takes care of me when i am sick because of the trait that i got from him [Juvenile Arthritis] , Every word i say to him treated like im disrespecting him , He keeps starting quarrels with every one of us , Me,Sister,and my Mom , Sometimes i go Rage and Hot blooded that i want to punch him in the face only my mom not letting me to do , like i was 2m from him my fist is extremely exaggerating , also when i was little he keeps kicking my [down stuff] and punch me when they have a quarrel with my mom , I told my mom to lets leave the house let the old man stay there alone , my mom keeps on declining , i dont know what to do anymore , if i lose my temper completely i might kill him , or i just kill myself [suicide] i have high bloods everyday when i see him my blood boils and my mood changes from cool to mad. :mad:

[Croconaw]

I don't really know how much advice I can give you, but I can definitely relate. I'm not particularly fond of my dad either. He always compares me to kids with severe mental disabilities. It makes me very upset, and to the point where I want to cry. Your dad doesn't have a right to abuse you that way. Please don't commit suicide though, as that wouldn't really solve anything. Is there someone you can talk to about this? If you haven't done anything yet, it will only get worse. As for your accomplishments, you should feel proud of them. Your brother's accomplishments shouldn't affect how you feel about yourself. This is your life, and not his. It seems like you're aggravated, so I advise you to talk to someone you trust.

[baseballjock]

i have the same problem it sucks right but my mom always taked his side one time i hit him back ... bad idea

[Ellyz]

I don't really know how much advice I can give you, but I can definitely relate. I'm not particularly fond of my dad either. He always compares me to kids with severe mental disabilities. It makes me very upset, and to the point where I want to cry. Your dad doesn't have a right to abuse you that way. Please don't commit suicide though, as that wouldn't really solve anything. Is there someone you can talk to about this? If you haven't done anything yet, it will only get worse. As for your accomplishments, you should feel proud of them. Your brother's accomplishments shouldn't affect how you feel about yourself. This is your life, and not his. It seems like you're aggravated, so I advise you to talk to someone you trust.

I trust my Mom , I already told her that get me a single apartment so i can get some space , She declines like she said Please don't leave us , Indeed i will if i keep seeing the old man , I dont have anymore to rely on anymore my Sis dont cares about me , My money which i have saved from my cabinet for 2 years took my dad for his beer drinking and club hangover :mad: , I said give it back she Slap me in the head and talk trash , My Stepbro and i have an argument really badly , My friends is hopeless to rely on , Maybe i should go to a child center and leave the home , if my mom keep insisting me to stay .

i have the same problem it sucks right but my mom always taked his side one time i hit him back ... bad idea

Thats the problem , She always saw my dad doings to me and still she keep on taking his side .

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[baseballjock]

o ok then i totaly feel for u bro and i just kind try to avoid them both they walk into a room i leave might work might not

[Croconaw]

o ok then i totaly feel for u bro and i just kind try to avoid them both they walk into a room i leave might work might not
Ignoring it never works. If you want to actually make some progress, then you must do something about it.

[Ellyz]

o ok then i totaly feel for u bro and i just kind try to avoid them both they walk into a room i leave might work might not

Shall i go visit a psychiatrist for the mental pressure and always high blood pressure when i see the old man .

[baseballjock]

Shall i go visit a psychiatrist for the mental pressure and always high blood pressure when i see the old man .
maby... or do u have a girl freind [or boy] i know that my ex helped me a ton... all the doc is going to do is give u drugs[ not that thirs any thing wrong with that].

[Ellyz]

maby... or do u have a girl freind [or boy] i know that my ex helped me a ton... all the doc is going to do is give u drugs[ not that thirs any thing wrong with that].

Didn't have girlfriends though never had one since birth ,

Ignoring it never works. If you want to actually make some progress, then you must do something about it.

Just Came out of my mind , What if he is in the house i go out regardless of nights , and when he goes out i go in the house and get some sleep . and before he comes back again i go out again :yeah:

[baseballjock]

what do u mean since birth and u should

[Croconaw]

I guess you could try that.

[baseballjock]

like i sayd it works great

[Ellyz]

what do u mean since birth and u should

Honestly I am a Quiet loner guy , i have confidence but surely the girl will get bored of me easily when it comes to getting a girlfriend , i like going to museums and library instead of clubs

[Croconaw]

If a girl truly loves you, she won't leave you because you're boring.

[baseballjock]

hey dude theirs nothing wrong with that just gota do two things find a girl thats just like u shouldent be to hard heck i know a few and then take a step out of the comfort zone

[Ellyz]

If a girl truly loves you, she won't leave you because you're boring.

I guess so . Anyways thanks for your Help , I got cooled off for the day :yes:

[Croconaw]

I guess so . Anyways thanks for your Help , I got cooled off for the day :yes:You're welcome! :D

[Carson99]

... Sometimes i go Rage and Hot blooded that i want to punch him in the face ... like i was 2m from him my fist is extremely exaggerating ... if i lose my temper completely i might kill him ... :mad:
For starters, this isn't right, regardless. Most men, when confronted with violence, react with violence, in the long term. Regardless of any insecurity or jealousy issues.

At my house, money is a sacred trust. Stealing someone else's money just never happens.

Since your father apparently has custody, and your step-mom has no real say in the matter, your only path (other than giving in) is to seek outside help, and that is seldom a pretty matter. Don't always trust what outsiders say or promise.

A few more years. But one thing I am sure of. If you continue to be violent with him, you have no leg to stand on. Nobody will care about hearing your reasons.