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johndoe1112
January 26th, 2014, 11:42 PM
why the fuck do people care so much that most of my girlfriends are black does anyone else have this problem i like darker girls and i'm white italian i'm getting a bit tired of this i really would want someone to tell me if there family gives them a problem. and its not my parents its my dads side of the family normally
Swagging god
January 26th, 2014, 11:54 PM
Some people for a number of reason are just narrow-minded. My advice to you ( being black myself lol) is to ignore them and date her because she is a good person and you love her. As Martin Luther King Jr. said, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character."
johndoe1112
January 26th, 2014, 11:57 PM
all of my girlfriends are black and im 95 percent italian so its like the bronx tale
chieko
January 27th, 2014, 12:47 AM
This must suck but whether they like your girlfriends or not they have to respect you and your choices. Perhaps you can change their racists views but that will take a lot of time and patience. Sometimes you can't just change racists. However if you really loved your girlfriends it doesn't matter what do they think about. Don't allow their comments to get to you, that's their problem. Your responsibility to yourself is to not let them bother you. Products of their own rearing and limiting beliefs, we are all human and have faults...this is a big one for them.
PinkFloyd
January 27th, 2014, 12:59 AM
People as a whole are uncomfortable with things that are different. I mean the reason why homosexuality and racism is such an issue is because people are uncomfortable with it. This isn't racism as you may think though.
This is just plain different, and it makes people feel uncomfortable, so they give you weird looks, ask questions, and even make hurtful remarks. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this.
johndoe1112
January 27th, 2014, 01:21 AM
but you see it does not bother me that she is black it does not bother my sister but it bothers like two people in my family but its just wares on me i love her and i don't really give a fuck what people think but i hope its not like that for her family with her dating a white guy
Loca
January 27th, 2014, 02:01 AM
Some people for a number of reason are just narrow-minded. My advice to you ( being black myself lol) is to ignore them and date her because she is a good person and you love her. As Martin Luther King Jr. said, "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character."
The world's best quote ever! I'm half caste and if anyone , when I get a partner , sees us they will make a remark
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