Roomate

[Elevendyseven]

I'm 16 and my family is renting out a room in our house to a "family friend" he is 19, I used to hang out with him when we were younger (like grade school) and we used to watch porn and do stuff like that, and I've always had the thought he might be bisexual, and last night I had a dream that we were giving each other handjobs...he messes around with me sometimes like playing footsie and just little things like that, I don't know what to do because I don't want to make it awkward to be around him if something DOES happen :0

[Zachary G]

just relax and play things slow and easy. follow his lead and if it leads to something happening, go with it; if it doenst lead to anything, then you will still be cool with eachother. just pay attention to his cues and follow his lead and you cant go wrong.

[hockeyfan]

Take his lead. I'd say more if u included ur age.

[ComfortableInChaos]

Just have him come to your room and hang out with him one night and you and him could just chill and maybe things can move from there if you want things to, or you could just chill in his room and maybe you can bond?

[JessTaylor]

watch porn again, thats always good!

[Swagging god]

Yea you can either discuss it or take his lead, in your case I would choose the latter.

[Jaseblader]

Put him through a gay test, ask him what does he think of certain actors. Ask him straightforward, is there a special girl or boy in his life

[Loca]

What's a gay test? I need to find out whether someone at school is gay or not

[Second Chance]

Since this guy is a renter in your house I would not recommend doing stuff with him. If your family is not all right with you both having a sexual relationship with each other, then he might be forced to move if you both are caught. Also, if things with this guy does not work out, then you will be stuck living with someone who you do not like. All because you two were involved sexually before does not mean he is interested in you now. Since there has been a gap of time when you were last involved with this guy there is a good chance he could have moved on and is now in a relationship. It is one thing if the guy lives somewhere else and you wanted to do stuff with him, but since he is your renter, then things will get weird if you two are in a relationship. The guy is an adult, and even though you two might have been in a sexual relationship before, doing anything now would have to be illegal because your a minor. I can see no good coming out of you two doing anything sexual because the guy will end up not only loosing a place to live but also be in trouble with the law.

[Voodo]

Play it cool... if you want to do things then do them. no one may need to know

[pjones]

Since this guy is a renter in your house I would not recommend doing stuff with him. If your family is not all right with you both having a sexual relationship with each other, then he might be forced to move if you both are caught. Also, if things with this guy does not work out, then you will be stuck living with someone who you do not like. The guy might also be involved with someone. It is one thing if the guy lives somewhere else and you wanted to do stuff with him, but since he is your renter, then things will get weird if you two are in a relationship.

This is good advice. you're 16 and he's an adult, all kinds of things could go wrong

[Fireangel]

[QUOTE=Elevendyseven;2666147]I'm 16 and my family is renting out a room in our house to a "family friend" he is 19, I used to hang out with him when we were younger (like grade school) and we used to watch porn and do stuff like that, and I've always had the thought he might be bisexual, and last night I had a dream that we were giving each other handjobs...he messes around with me sometimes like playing footsie and just little things like that, I don't know what to do because I don't want to make it awkward to be around him if something DOES happen :0[/QUOTE
cool!.. Just enjoy the moment. Are you Gay, Bi or str8?

[TotemPole]

Um, nofhing sexual, your a minor and in all 50 states, adults cannot act sexually on minors. Ignoring the stuff above me, I would highly recommend not doing any thing with your bud.

P.S He would still get in trouble if you enjoyed it. xp

Just don't.

[TotemPole]

Found it! Pedophollia laws will break if you get caught! The consequences are bad. Don't do it!

[Tenoka]

Since this guy is a renter in your house I would not recommend doing stuff with him. If your family is not all right with you both having a sexual relationship with each other, then he might be forced to move if you both are caught. Also, if things with this guy does not work out, then you will be stuck living with someone who you do not like. All because you two were involved sexually before does not mean he is interested in you now. Since there has been a gap of time when you were last involved with this guy there is a good chance he could have moved on and is now in a relationship. It is one thing if the guy lives somewhere else and you wanted to do stuff with him, but since he is your renter, then things will get weird if you two are in a relationship. The guy is an adult, and even though you two might have been in a sexual relationship before, doing anything now would have to be illegal because your a minor. I can see no good coming out of you two doing anything sexual because the guy will end up not only loosing a place to live but also be in trouble with the law.

I second this. The chances that he is not interested anymore, or has moved on, or is in a relationship are pretty high. Plus you parents might look at him as an adult, which he is, so they might not want him sleeping with their son who is younger. If you're the same age, do whatever but there are always consequences for every action, if you're younger, stick to your right hand.

[AlexOnToast]

Since this guy is a renter in your house I would not recommend doing stuff with him. If your family is not all right with you both having a sexual relationship with each other, then he might be forced to move if you both are caught. Also, if things with this guy does not work out, then you will be stuck living with someone who you do not like. All because you two were involved sexually before does not mean he is interested in you now. Since there has been a gap of time when you were last involved with this guy there is a good chance he could have moved on and is now in a relationship. It is one thing if the guy lives somewhere else and you wanted to do stuff with him, but since he is your renter, then things will get weird if you two are in a relationship. The guy is an adult, and even though you two might have been in a sexual relationship before, doing anything now would have to be illegal because your a minor. I can see no good coming out of you two doing anything sexual because the guy will end up not only loosing a place to live but also be in trouble with the law.

Agreed :)

[Jack102]

Agreed :)

Since this guy is a renter in your house I would not recommend doing stuff with him. If your family is not all right with you both having a sexual relationship with each other, then he might be forced to move if you both are caught. Also, if things with this guy does not work out, then you will be stuck living with someone who you do not like. All because you two were involved sexually before does not mean he is interested in you now. Since there has been a gap of time when you were last involved with this guy there is a good chance he could have moved on and is now in a relationship. It is one thing if the guy lives somewhere else and you wanted to do stuff with him, but since he is your renter, then things will get weird if you two are in a relationship. The guy is an adult, and even though you two might have been in a sexual relationship before, doing anything now would have to be illegal because your a minor. I can see no good coming out of you two doing anything sexual because the guy will end up not only loosing a place to live but also be in trouble with the law.




I agree

[Jamaicob]

just hang out as normal then ask if he wants to do what you used to do haha.. if he says yes then one thing may lead to another and youll do stuff. if he says no then just laugh and pretend it was a joke

[gloverjake]

If something did happen. It wouldn't be awkward. Just do whatever you want to man