Think with your penis ?

[Binky]

I'm not allowed to go out on a date till I'm 15. i'm 13 now! I have been warned, that boy's are only after one thing.... to get in your pants! My mom said that they think with their penis! Is it true that's all they think about? If this is true at what age does the (Penis brain) start. My brother is 8 years old, and I'd like to prepare myself. I'd love to get so feedback.

[hoboliz]

Just about everyone wants sex eventually. Guys and girls. Unless they're asexual. But yes, a lot of the guys will want sex. Just remember that you're not obligated to give yourself to anyone ever. And if they try to force or coerce you, kick them and run.

[ImAurora]

Hate to break it to you, but your Mom's a liar. Not all men are pigs like that, and most of them don't "Think with their penis". Yeah sure they'll be sexually attracted to you, that's to be expected from anyone teenage or older. And as Liz said, most people will want sexual interaction eventually. When the time comes you can date though, make a good choice. Find someone who likes you for you, not your appearance. I know it sounds corny, but it's true.

[Karkat]

There are a lot of pigs out there, but there are debatably just as many girls who are as there are guys.

And yeah, I'll admit that my current boyfriend was most definitely pursuing me with the intention of sex at the start of our relationship. (Not to mention that being a virgin at 20 has to come with some serious sexual tension. I can't imagine.) However, he was also adamant that it was MY choice when or if we ever had sex. And it was. In fact, he's a little too submissive sometimes. (Not just sexually- he kind of designated me the proverbial pants-wearer from the very start of our relationship, and I'm not totally a fan of that, haha. But at the same time, I can be kind of bossy, so maybe it's for the best.)

So yeah, I'd say most guys think about sex, but so do most girls, and that shouldn't ruin anything unless you're uncomfortable with the way they treat you.

[Nanael]

Hate to break it to you, but your Mom's a liar. Not all men are pigs like that, and most of them don't "Think with their penis". Yeah sure they'll be sexually attracted to you, that's to be expected from anyone teenage or older. And as Liz said, most people will want sexual interaction eventually. When the time comes you can date though, make a good choice. Find someone who likes you for you, not your appearance. I know it sounds corny, but it's true.

i was going to say the same things :D

[Lisa R]

My bf is a total gentlemen and never asked for sex. All boys don't think with their penises. One bad apple don't make them all bad there are some good apples out there just got to find it.

[Sminkelaks]

My bf is a total gentlemen and never asked for sex. All boys don't think with their penises. One bad apple don't make them all bad there are some good apples out there just got to find it.

This is the truth. Most boys I know are sweet and considerate, while a handful are horny assholes with only one thing on their minds.

[Lovecraft]

Every person who isn't asexual thinks with their respective genitals sometimes. I kind of don't like the idea behind the whole "boys only want one thing" saying, it implies that girls never want sex and that sexual encounters are inherently manipulative on the boy's part.

Please don't lose sleep over this. Teenage boys are typically horndogs, but don't think for a second that teenage girls don't think with their vageens pretty damn often. If you date someone and they try to take things further than you're comfortable with, tell them "no" and set some boundaries. Either they'll respect those boundaries and wait until you're comfortable to get in your pants or they'll date someone more compatible to their desires.

[taurus97]

Every person who isn't asexual thinks with their respective genitals sometimes. I kind of don't like the idea behind the whole "boys only want one thing" saying, it implies that girls never want sex and that sexual encounters are inherently manipulative on the boy's part.

Please don't lose sleep over this. Teenage boys are typically horndogs, but don't think for a second that teenage girls don't think with their vageens pretty damn often. If you date someone and they try to take things further than you're comfortable with, tell them "no" and set some boundaries. Either they'll respect those boundaries and wait until you're comfortable to get in your pants or they'll date someone more compatible to their desires.

Totally agree 100 per cent !:yeah:

[sweet_girl24au]

Wełl some guys are like that, but not all.
As harsh as it sounds, the prettier and sexier you look the more likely guys are just going to wanna get in there

[jenny2234]

I think all guys want sex but that doesn't mean they are going to rape you or something.