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Body odah Man
January 24th, 2014, 02:41 PM
I'll try to keep this as short as I can:

Recently I met this chick, let's call her T, at this small get-together a buddy of mine had. First I didn't think I liked her but we talk via phone and FB, just chattin, daily and it never gets dull and she's a rlly nice girl so I really wanna have a relationship with her (by relationship I mean occasional kissing and someone to hang with and that loves me).

Only there's a few problems:
1. I suck with getting people to like me and not even sure she does (she's anti relationship too) so yeah :( Also I told her at the beginning of this (before I liked her) that this was gunna be friendship only so yeah...


2. She found my hygiene 'sub-par' when we met. Trying to work on it, and gotten better at it, but does that mean she's always gunna have that opinion of me and can I get over it?

So yeah that's the lowdown. Apologies for the long post. Anyway, do you guys, and girls, think I have a chance or should I just give it up?

Gumleaf
January 24th, 2014, 04:57 PM
Dude, you won't know until you ask or talk to her about it. If you don't do that you'll be going around in circles playing games in your mind about whether you had that chance or not. Best to get it out in the open. During one of your chats just bring the subject up and see what she thinks. But if she has an issue with your hygiene, makes sure you fix that up first. It's very easy, just make sure you keep clean, look clean and smell clean. That's all it takes and isn't too hard to do. Good luck!!!

Body odah Man
January 25th, 2014, 05:30 AM
@^
Thanks man. I could try that I suppose, only problem is I'm nervous that she'll get pissed at me for telling her I like her seein as I told her in the beginning of this friendship that we would just stay friends. But you got to try sometimes I suppose.

Body odah Man
January 30th, 2014, 07:28 AM
any other advice by any chance?

Body odah Man
April 17th, 2014, 12:39 PM
Can this thread be locked? It has been resolved

Elysium
April 17th, 2014, 06:08 PM
Locked per OP request. :locked2: