going out with someone but like someone else

[billybigfish]

ok so im going out with a girl atm and we've been going out for about 3 weeks now, and ive been recently introduced to some of her friends as ive been hanging around with her at school, and one of her friends is bi and has seemed to have taken a large interest in me, i mean, hes a really cool guy and hes really nice. me and him have been talking for a while and we've recently started talking about sex and stuff, and im really worried because
a: i dont want to cheat on her
b: i really like her
c: i really like him
d: i really really want to date this guy and really want there to be something between us
e: i really dont want to break up with my girlfriend cause i dont want to upset her
f: im really really confused ;_____;

[Living For Love]

You need to choose between them two. I guess you just need to follow you're heart, see which of them gives you more attention and cares more about you. Once you've made your decision, slowly back off from one of them, but keep being friends. Until you've made your decision, you should be a good boyfriend to her and get closer to him, get to know him better.

[JollyToes]

Yeah you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you are involved with both they will eventually find out.

[death-metal]

ok so im going out with a girl atm and we've been going out for about 3 weeks now, and ive been recently introduced to some of her friends as ive been hanging around with her at school, and one of her friends is bi and has seemed to have taken a large interest in me, i mean, hes a really cool guy and hes really nice. me and him have been talking for a while and we've recently started talking about sex and stuff, and im really worried because
a: i dont want to cheat on her
b: i really like her
c: i really like him
d: i really really want to date this guy and really want there to be something between us
e: i really dont want to break up with my girlfriend cause i dont want to upset her
f: im really really confused ;_____;

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the best thing you can do now is talk about this to your girlfriend. Be sure if your feelings.

[Gumleaf]

You need to make a decision and do so quickly if things with this guy are developing like they are. I'm glad you don't want to cheat, which means a decision must be made. It's not right to lead her on, that will only upset her more. So using that as an excuse not to break up with her is the cowards way out. Bottom line is, if you really really want something between him and you as you say, you must end things with her. Simple as that.