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lhs82417
January 23rd, 2014, 01:46 AM
Im 15, and Im gay. I am starting to become more comfortable with the thought of coming out, however I have yet to tell anybody. Here is my problem: There is a really cute boy in my class that I like. I like to talk to him a lot and he seems to enjoy being around me just as much as I like being around him. Im pretty sure he is also gay. I really want to tell him what I feel for him and I want to know what he feels for me, but I'm worried that 1. he might not actually be gay, or 2. even if he is gay and likes me, he might be scared and wont want to do anything about it. It took me a while to build up enough courage to possibly talk to him about it, how do I know he would react. Also if I do talk to him what should I say? I dont want to freak him out but I dont want to be too vauge. Thanks so much!

JollyToes
January 23rd, 2014, 01:57 AM
Maybe bring up being gay in a casual conversation. Don't outright tell him you are but maybe say "oh, did you hear...is gay". See what his reaction is.

Living For Love
January 23rd, 2014, 08:23 AM
What makes you think he's gay? You should give subtle hints like having more physical contact with him, or starting a conversation about LGBT and stuff, see what his reaction is.

lhs82417
January 23rd, 2014, 03:35 PM
Thanks a lot guys, these are good sugestions. I think hes gay because I have been noticing subtle things like he makes up a lot of excuses to talk to me, and he always seems to be near me. Also I change near him in gym and I always see him trying to look at my bulge. He seems like he is acting towards me the way people who have crushes on each other do. I know I can't be positive but I is starting to make sense.