Im cheating on my boyfriend with a married man

[thebaddest416]

m 17 , 18 in 3 months
I have a boyfriend, we're dating since february 2013 but we never had sex because he's a arab christian and he wants to marry me before doing it...We can only kiss & touch eachother but he really respect his religion even when he has a ***** he still doesnt want to have sex with me....He just turned 18.I like this guy because he's smart & he is like the sweetest guy ever he never does bad stuff , he has a bright future and he is handsome & a good exemple for me.we've been friends for 4 years and dating for 11 months... He's not just my boyrfiend he is also my best friend.I also love his family and they love me, they even took me to their country (lebanon) in the summer so I really can't break up with him our relationship is too serious. my parents know his parents and they know we want to get married

I met a 24 year old hot white-brazilian guy last month & he took my virginity the day I met him because we did drugs.. he takes me to places and give me so much money I got 800$ only last week from him. But the thing is hes married and has a 3 year old kid, I dont love him but I think he really loves me. Since i lost my virginity i feel horny all the time and everytime i wanna have sex i just call him.I dont wanna lose him because he spoils me so much, he pick me up at school sometimes, we drink and smoke together, he bought me an iphone (I told my parents i won a contest) My girl friends like him too because he also buys some stuff (like clothes,food) for them and give them free alcohol & pot.He takes us to night clubs & everything, my friends think i should chose him over my boyfriend.This guy doesnt know i have a boyfriend. I already seen her daughter and she loves me, I think he wants a serious relationship with me (even though he is married) but to me he is just a f*ck friend that spoils me I dont even need to find a job because this guy has so much money! Please note that im not a prostitute , I can stop having sex with him and he would still give me money and gifts because he cares about me

Can my boyfriend find out im not a virgin once we have sex? He wants to get married when Im 19
Do you think the brazilian guy wants a serious relationship with me or is he just using me for sex? He spends alot of time with me , he respects my friends ... he told me he only married his wife because she was pregnant and he doesnt really love her
I love my boyfriend more than everything but without the brazilian guy my life would seriously suck...And ill miss his daughter :(

[the_dude69]

An arab Christian that's something you don't hear every day. It will all work out do what you thinks best

[Second Chance]

The Brazilian guy is just using you for sex, and he is using money and his body to get to you. If this guy is cheating on his wife, then there is no way he is going to good to you if he cannot treat the mother of his child rightly. It would not surprise me if the guy has other girlfriends on the side. The fact that this guy would go out with someone under age is a clear warning sign that he's a pedo. At this point, you should get tested and make sure you did not get something from him.

As for you and your boyfriend, I do not see much of a future with him if you are going to go behind his back and not stay loyal to him. It is one thing to say that you respect your boyfriend's religion, but it is another thing to actually put that into practice. Unless you and your boyfriend have agreed to having an open relationship, then there's no way you can continue to go out with the Brazilian guy. If sex is that important to you, then you should probably dump your boyfriend and stay with the Brazilian guy.

If the married guy is stringing you along with drugs, then you should definitely get a handle on your drug problem. There is no sense in living your life for drugs and sex and throwing away everything you have with your family and boyfriend. However, you have to make the choice to be clean and get help because kicking a drug habit takes professional help along with will power.

I think that because the married guy took your virginity you will always feel something special for him. It is too bad that you let the married guy take your virginity and not your boyfriend.

By the sounds of things, it seems like you like to go out and party whereas your boyfriend is more serious and probably is into school and his future. The married guy sounds like he is fun all of the time and does things whereas your boyfriend does not. If partying and having a good time is what you want, then the married guy is who you should go with. It seems to me that you and your boyfriend are really different, and chances are you both are probably not meant for each other.

I hope things work out for you.

[nachorip]

Just pretend like it hurts when you get married