Is She Cheating? break up option?

[Matthew_17]

Ok Last moth i posted something here saying my GF was getting closer to my best friend and i started to notice that she was always smiling at him after our soccer games. So 2 days ago i was in the locker room getting dressed for the game and my best friend left earlier to the field and he left his locker opened . His bagpack was on the floor , i picked up and i looked inside and saw my girlfriend's black bracelet which means a lot to her. So wtf right? when i talked with her a while ago she said.. stop thinking about something stupid whatever that shit means. Should i break up? its kinda messed up because we are dating since 2009 . After the game i asked him about her bracelet and he told me she asked him to keep it because she left on the gymnastics and he was there by the time. yeah.. no one believes that right?

ADVICE NEEDED THANKS

[Croconaw]

That's sort of a tough decision there. If she has been dating you for five years, then I see absolutely no reason why she would cheat. Is the bracelet incident the only thing that happened? If it's just that one thing, you might be overreacting a bit. I'm not saying you're wrong, bt what if you end up breaking the relationship over some misunderstanding? You could also tell by her tone of voice when she told you not to worry about it. Did she seem angry or act defensive?

[Matthew_17]

That's sort of a tough decision there. If she has been dating you for five years, then I see absolutely no reason why she would cheat. Is the bracelet incident the only thing that happened? If it's just that one thing, you might be overreacting a bit. I'm not saying you're wrong, bt what if you end up breaking the relationship over some misunderstanding? You could also tell by her tone of voice when she told you not to worry about it. Did she seem angry or act defensive?

Yeah i know..5 years but you see this is happening since november she goes to his house a lot, she always hugs him before me after the games, now the bracelet plus the fact she has a lot phone calls of him. so yeah that's why. I know i need to have a serious conversation , but if she keeps saying everything its fine and i will find out later more weird stuff. i dont really know how to deal with it

[Living For Love]

You should confront her about his somehow. It might be just small actions she does that makes you think she's cheating on you, but they can mean something. I don't think your friend is much involved in this, because all the things start from her (she gives him the bracelet, she hugs him first, not the contrary). You should just ask her what's wrong with her and why does she keep doing those things. If this is upsetting you too much, you should reconsider this relationship and the friendship you have with the other guy as well.