Is he gay?

[Simon WDS]

So there's a guy in my class that I have an crush on.. He's one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. He is really nice and I love being around him. Anyways, a month or two ago, one of my other friends took my phone and texted him hearts and stuff. He responded with hearts and from then we always text hearts to each other. He even sent a text on Xmas saying "all I want for christmas is you." But the thing is, you never know if he is serious or not, which is really annoying. I've asked him if he's gay but he avoided the question. So, what should i do? Tell him all my feelings and maybe loose him or should I do something else. Do you think he's gay? :confused:

[the_dude69]

If you have a crush on someone. Let them know or you will find yourself ten years from now wondering what could have been.

Peace love happiness

[ECSTASY]

it sounds like that he is , from his reactions. but it seems that he is those type of shy guys
he wouldn't reply your text with hearts if he wasn't interested in you .

[AlexOnToast]

I think the best thing to do would be to ask him yourself in an honest friendly way :)

[Simon WDS]

it sounds like that he is , from his reactions. but it seems that he is those type of shy guys
he wouldn't reply your text with hearts if he wasn't interested in you .


Trust me he isn't one of those shy guys, he's very outward :P

Hmm thanks guys, I'll probably ask him when we're alone next time :)

[Pierce]

My advice is to send him signals that you're fine people being gays, eventually he might feel safe to confess his sexuality to you. If you really trust this guy, you can just tell this guy that you're bisexual, I would avoid telling him that you have a crush on him because you don't know how he will react to that. Or, you can just ask him lol.

[Loca]

So there's a guy in my class that I have an crush on.. He's one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. He is really nice and I love being around him. Anyways, a month or two ago, one of my other friends took my phone and texted him hearts and stuff. He responded with hearts and from then we always text hearts to each other. He even sent a text on Xmas saying "all I want for christmas is you." But the thing is, you never know if he is serious or not, which is really annoying. I've asked him if he's gay but he avoided the question. So, what should i do? Tell him all my feelings and maybe loose him or should I do something else. Do you think he's gay? :confused:
Jeez this happens to me. I really dunno if he is! I'm asking him whether he is gay or not

[Fireangel]

So there's a guy in my class that I have an crush on.. He's one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. He is really nice and I love being around him. Anyways, a month or two ago, one of my other friends took my phone and texted him hearts and stuff. He responded with hearts and from then we always text hearts to each other. He even sent a text on Xmas saying "all I want for christmas is you." But the thing is, you never know if he is serious or not, which is really annoying. I've asked him if he's gay but he avoided the question. So, what should i do? Tell him all my feelings and maybe loose him or should I do something else. Do you think he's gay? :confused:

Yes, I think he is gay or maybe Bi. Good Luck my friend. Go for it!

[steellord321]

If gonna ask if he's gay its only fair for you to share the same about yourself. Especially since you want a relationship you should just go for it.

[Ainsleyshea]

go for it tell him you get one chance so what's stopping you

[TapDancer]

So there's a guy in my class that I have an crush on.. He's one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. He is really nice and I love being around him. Anyways, a month or two ago, one of my other friends took my phone and texted him hearts and stuff. He responded with hearts and from then we always text hearts to each other. He even sent a text on Xmas saying "all I want for christmas is you." But the thing is, you never know if he is serious or not, which is really annoying. I've asked him if he's gay but he avoided the question. So, what should i do? Tell him all my feelings and maybe loose him or should I do something else. Do you think he's gay? :confused:

Does he know you are Bisexual? Perhaps he might actually answer you when you ask him if he is gay, if he was aware that you aren't straight. It could be a bromance, I won't lie, but he sounds too cool to be a dick about it. I mean, if you were to ask him out or something, he sounds like the kind of guy that if he was straight, he would be like "Sorry dude, but I like the ladies" but still be all cool around you. If he is, then what have you got to loose?

[trainman]

Sounds like you are both in the same place sexually. He likes you and you like him and both are a little afraid. Talk about people being gay and how it is cool with you and would never bother you and that you totally understand someone being gay. Take it from there. And if you two are pretty hot for each other, take it slow. Jerk off together and gradually get into other things, but the most important thing BE SAFE!!!! No anal without a condom. Good luck dudes

[tyryhamilton]

He seems intereated but please keep updated..lol

[Simon WDS]

Thanks for all the advice. Hopefully he'll be at school tomorrow, so I'll ask him if he's gay/bi and if he's into me :)

I'll update tomorrow :)

[dportillo]

Let them know

[dportillo]

He is gay

[kinger]

I think you just need to let him know how you feel otherwise you risk spending the rest of your life wondering if it would have worked

[Simon WDS]

Damn it, he's still sick :(

[here2helpU]

So there's a guy in my class that I have an crush on.. He's one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. He is really nice and I love being around him. Anyways, a month or two ago, one of my other friends took my phone and texted him hearts and stuff. He responded with hearts and from then we always text hearts to each other. He even sent a text on Xmas saying "all I want for christmas is you." But the thing is, you never know if he is serious or not, which is really annoying. I've asked him if he's gay but he avoided the question. So, what should i do? Tell him all my feelings and maybe loose him or should I do something else. Do you think he's gay? :confused:

I think he is bi curious, and by the fact that he didnt answered you question even though he is str8 forward that means something, my opinion is not to ask the question again or go hard, take it slower , something like: write him a text and say, hey whats up, listen i wanted to tell you something , i like you more then just best friends , how do you feel about that , and send him a kiss or a heart or both, the thing is not to take him up front because he will back off... Or you could invite him for a sleep over and watch a movie and hit on him slowly :) Good luck.

[hansemann]

The only sign i can see that he is gay, is that he avoided the question...
Sending hearts in texts is common where i come from, so yeah :P

[Emerald Dream]

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