Does this make me gay or bi?

[CRH777]

Well I have a friend that I…kind of like I don't know why I just do. Is this normal and does it make me gay or bi.

[Green Arrow]

Have you ever had feelings for other guys? This could just be a one time thing or it oculd be start of something else. Don't start looking for a label just yet, start to get a grip of your feelings then you'll know yourself who/what you are. No single person on here can tell you what you are, ONLY YOU know.

[CRH777]

Have you ever had feelings for other guys? This could just be a one time thing or it oculd be start of something else. Don't start looking for a label just yet, start to get a grip of your feelings then you'll know yourself who/what you are. No single person on here can tell you what you are, ONLY YOU know.

No just this one person and he's my best friend

[ksdnfkfr]

You have a friend... you kinda like... does that that make you gay?
I doubt it.

[Green Arrow]

No just this one person and he's my best friend

In what way do you "like" him? Sexually? Emotionaly? Do you see yourself having sex with him?

[CRH777]

In what way do you "like" him? Sexually? Emotionaly? Do you see yourself having sex with him?

Um tbh emotionally but only when he's around. Usually. And I kind of want to jack off with him but no sex.

[Tenoka]

Um tbh emotionally but only when he's around. Usually. And I kind of want to jack off with him but no sex.

Like Tom said, you only know if you like him, you can tell us feelings that describe it but you know the answer.

Have you been close to any other person before, like between you and your mate?

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[CRH777]

Like Tom said, you only know if you like him, you can tell us feelings that describe it but you know the answer.

Have you been close to any other person before, like between you and your mate?

No I've never been close to anyone like that b4

[Tenoka]

No I've never been close to anyone like that b4

That could be possibly it. Talk to him when you feel comfortable enough and ask him how he feels, of you want. Either way, straight or gay. It's alright.

[Zachary G]

Its tough when you have a really close friend that you care for strongly and emotionally, it kind of confuses things, but it doesnt make you gay or bi even. Its possible to have love for him and it not be sexual -- its that way with me and my best friend though he knows Im gay, he knows that I love him in a non sexual way. I guess its all part of really knowing when you have made that true friend connection.

[AlexOnToast]

I doubt that you are gay. You are just going through stuff that every teen faces. Dont worry :)

[chiisaiaoiryu]

This is something that could be a one-time thing. On the other hand, it could be an awakening of sorts for you. Either way, it's up to you to decide how you want to interpret this. I will say this, though; you are at the age when your hormones are going crazy. Feelings like that are bound to pop up every now and then. I had them myself when I was 13.