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bmxkid313
January 20th, 2014, 06:23 PM
A couple weeks ago I stopped at subway and there was a really cute girl working there, I chatted her up and we had a really nice quick conversation, then I left. I told a friend of mine about her and that I should have asked for her phone number. We then made a deal that if I got her number, he would ask out a girl that he likes. So on Wednesday I went there again and had another good chat with her, plus she remembered me so that was good, then asked for her number. She gladly gave it to me and I left. I sent a screenshot of her contact to my buddy so he would believe I got her number. In talking to her she said she went to the same school as me, but a year ahead of me so I didn't know her. My buddy was also a year ahead of me and he knows who she is, according to him she is pretty slutty. I wanted to double check so I asked another friend and he said the same thing. This definitely bothered, and still bothers me.

I decided to text her on Friday and when I did I got a text back a couple minutes later saying that the number was a landline. She told me to text her so I think I might have put her number in my phone wrong, I don't see why she would give me the wrong number since we seemed to hit it off. I am considering going back on Wednesday (the other two times I went were Wednesdays so I know she works then) and telling her that I think I saved her number wrong. But of she have me the wrong number then I would look like an idiot. Should I go back and ask her again? The thing telling me to just move on is that she has been with quite a few guys, and she also told me she smokes cigarettes the first time I was there. Both of those things are huge turn offs for me. Even with those things she is a really sweet laid back girl (no pun intended) that I got along with and was easy to talk to, and of course she is super pretty. I mean now that she is out of high school (graduated last year) she could have put her slutty ways behind her, and I don't know how long or how much she smokes so I might be able to get her to quit that. Should I pursue her? I figured I could at least hang out with her and fin out more about her, isn't that the point of dating? Or should I skip her?

Waleedbt
January 20th, 2014, 11:14 PM
I say move on, i mean any girl you meet on places like a subway will give a fake number, this also indicates that shes not a "bad" kind of girl ( im not going to use words to describe a girl).
If you go again you'll look like either a creep or desperate.
You can still try but i would'nt recommend it.

Good luck!

ausley
January 20th, 2014, 11:46 PM
Yeh don't chase dude it looks like you're desperate. Unless you go back for some subway and she asks about it don't even chase. :)

Living For Love
January 22nd, 2014, 11:39 AM
I think you should drop it, and you shouldn't try to go into a relationship and change her habits while you were together, she might feel pressured somehow. You deserve better.

JollyToes
January 22nd, 2014, 11:57 AM
I would go back there and not even mention you tried to text her. Just order your good and that's it. Don't chase

bmxkid313
January 23rd, 2014, 06:17 PM
Thanks for the advice guys! I wish I could find a nice country girl who drives a big truck...But not bigger then my truck. Lol