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Daniella98
January 19th, 2014, 12:10 PM
Hi girls

There is something I talked to my girlfriends about, which I dont get. Its about recieving oral from a one night stand. My friends would gladly give head, but they dont want to recieve oral pleasure from a boy they do not know.
I never thought of it to even be an issue. I mean of course I wouldnt say no to oral pleasure. Or am I wierd or too open or what is wrong?

Do you girls, who dare to do one night stands, say no to being licked? And why?

Hope to get this cleared up :-)

Taryn98
January 19th, 2014, 02:29 PM
If someone wants to give me oral, whether it's a one night stand or not, I would let them. I mean if I'm already giving them oral, why would I not want it in return? That doesn't make sense.

Shailene
January 19th, 2014, 06:26 PM
I generally wouldn't have a problem with it

hoboliz
January 19th, 2014, 11:22 PM
Not that I actually think this, because I'd totally let them go down on me, but maybe your friends don't intend to have sex, and are afraid getting naked will send mixed signals to the guy.

Daniella98
January 20th, 2014, 03:56 AM
Not that I actually think this, because I'd totally let them go down on me, but maybe your friends don't intend to have sex, and are afraid getting naked will send mixed signals to the guy.

They want to have sex and they do have sex. They also like to be licked. But they only want to be licked by boys they know well. They also have one night stands who they gladly give head

hoboliz
January 20th, 2014, 04:41 AM
They want to have sex and they do have sex. They also like to be licked. But they only want to be licked by boys they know well. They also have one night stands who they gladly give head

Dunno. That is weird. Have you asked them about it?
They sound fun to party with though.

Swimmie
January 20th, 2014, 10:48 AM
At least for me, having a mind blowing oral orgasm can cause a lot of feelings... Perhaps they're trying to avoid those, as it's only a 1-night stand...

Daniella98
January 20th, 2014, 11:26 AM
They say its too intimate for a first time... but I dont understand how getting licked is more intimate than giving head and swallowing

Swimmie
January 20th, 2014, 02:23 PM
They say its too intimate for a first time... but I dont understand how getting licked is more intimate than giving head and swallowing

Giving a blowjob and swallowing cum is super hot and makes me feel really naughty... very sexy but just that...
Receiving oral sex is like that too, except that if the guy has some nice tricks and gives me a huge orgasm, there is a great possibility that I might start having feelings for him...

That's how I work :P

NotShortButFunsized
January 20th, 2014, 02:47 PM
Giving a blowjob and swallowing cum is super hot and makes me feel really naughty... very sexy but just that...
Receiving oral sex is like that too, except that if the guy has some nice tricks and gives me a huge orgasm, there is a great possibility that I might start having feelings for him...

That's how I work :P

that makes sense, i'm kinda the same way so i can definitely understand that

I've never had a one night stand, but if I knew i didn't want something long term out of it I might have the same reservations about what might cause feelings, though I'd also feel selfish for asking someone I don't know that well to go down and pleasure me

Swimmie
January 20th, 2014, 03:03 PM
My point exactly... I wouldn't want to start feeling things about a guy I won't see again...

hoboliz
January 20th, 2014, 06:19 PM
I've always thought of oral as a regular part of foreplay, so going down on them or them going down on me is just part of the process of having sex. It's kinda weird to think of one as more intimate than the other, except matters of trust, like being blindfolded or something.

Daniella98
January 21st, 2014, 01:17 AM
Giving a blowjob and swallowing cum is super hot and makes me feel really naughty... very sexy but just that...
Receiving oral sex is like that too, except that if the guy has some nice tricks and gives me a huge orgasm, there is a great possibility that I might start having feelings for him...

That's how I work :P

If that is the reason I definitely understand and it all makes sense

Pop girl
January 21st, 2014, 02:18 AM
It's seems odd to me (I'm sure everyone's different) but I would definitely be more happy receiving then giving on a one night stand. Like if it's a guy u don't know and your giving head I'd be worried about std's and stuff :/

CheekyLinda
January 22nd, 2014, 07:49 PM
I love being given oral sex too damn much to care if it's from a one night stand or anything else *blushes*... I'd definitely be careful as to giving oral sex to one night stands, though.. it would depend on the type of person my partner is

laurakoller0815
January 23rd, 2014, 05:09 PM
to get eaten is just a part of the game... so why refuse it just enjoy it;)

Shortie
January 23rd, 2014, 11:08 PM
Different people are more or less sexually comfortable with different acts. Some girls are terrified at what boys/guys think of their vagina so they don't want the other person to give them oral. To me this is silly as you're missing out on the pleasure of receiving plus you're robbing the "giver" of the pleasure of giving.. So basically if I'm with someone then I trust them enough to share all of my body.

Kristihey
January 24th, 2014, 08:54 AM
I can see how a girl would feel that way, but I would not turn it down! :D

jenny2234
January 24th, 2014, 10:26 AM
I would let them do it. Why not?

stacy1203
January 24th, 2014, 03:53 PM
I would go for it, unless I really dislike the person

hoboliz
January 24th, 2014, 04:51 PM
I would go for it, unless I really dislike the person

Why would you be having a one night stand with someone you really dislike?