Why do I feel like all my friends dislike me?

[Syam]

Internet and in real life friends this applies to. I just seem to think they either talk behind my back or just pretend to like me, and
it's horrible as I really really care (which is unusual for me) about some of them. What is it and what can I do about it?I've tried to.stop talking to the internet friends but I just always go back.

[crazyBoyjJ]

I understand what u mean. It feels like nobody really cares about u. And u just got some real maybe fake freinds and everyone is just ignoring u. But all u want is a conversation.
And u care about everyone. But no one cares about u

[fordgtguy]

i had a few of those "friends" found out what they said and beat the shit outta them after that they never talked shit and always respected me even though i dont talk to them now

[ksdnfkfr]

I just seem to think they either talk behind my back or just pretend to like me

So are you saying the problem is with your friends or with the way you think about them?

[Syam]

So are you saying the problem is with your friends or with the way you think about them?

I feel like they're pretending to like me. I've felt like it towards most of my friends, to be honest. I'm unaware of what the problem is, hence this thread.

[The Trendy Wolf]

Internet and in real life friends this applies to. I just seem to think they either talk behind my back or just pretend to like me, and
it's horrible as I really really care (which is unusual for me) about some of them. What is it and what can I do about it?I've tried to.stop talking to the internet friends but I just always go back.

You shouldn't ignore any of your friends simply because you don't trust that they like you. If you feel as if they truly don't care for you, then I suggest simply asking them.

Do have any recollection of a traumatic social experience that may have cause you to mistrust your friends, as if you were afraid to find friends because you are worried that they will just turn you away? I have felt this way before, and I still occasionally do to this day.

You seem like a friendly, yet self-conscious person who only wants to feel accepted. I'm positive that there are plenty of people here, including myself, who care for you and don't think of you as a weird person.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hey, I thought I knew those kind of friends, if you feel like that try find new friends and maybe stop talking to them for a while, that would be a test to see if they actually care.

[Desuetude]

I completely get it. It's not that they don't like you (I mean they might), it's more that you're paranoid that they don't like you. I'm exactly like that. Always worrying whether I'm annoying and whether they're just pretending to enjoy talking to and spending time with me or if they're talking shit about me.

It's called being paranoid and usually everyone will feel this to some extent, just with some it's a little stronger than others. Like when you feel like there's someone watching you but there's no one there. Honestly in this case it seems to be more about your self esteem than your friends. You need to be able to think positively about yourself. Why wouldn't they want to be friends with you? Think about all the good traits you have. Write them down if you need to. Whenever any of your friends pays you a compliment, write it down and when you're feeling like they're only pretending to like you read all the things they've said and remember that they do like you, it's only in your head that they don't. It will just take some time to allow the pattern to change.