Nothing to talk about?

[Reghan]

When I'm talking to my boyfriend on Facebook we always have something to talk about, but when we talk on oovoo we literally just sit there trying to find things to talk about. Help? I need as many topics as you can think of. Questions to ask etc.

[Paladino]

If its your boyfriend, you two should have a bond enough for the conversation to flow. I sometimes think like that with my girlfriend, all you have to do is just not think about it. Talk about anything, something in the news, events in the future etc. Can I ask, does the conversation flow in person?

[Reghan]

If its your boyfriend, you two should have a bond enough for the conversation to flow. I sometimes think like that with my girlfriend, all you have to do is just not think about it. Talk about anything, something in the news, events in the future etc. Can I ask, does the conversation flow in person?

Yeah it does, I mean we've only been dating for 8 days, but it's more on Facebook we have conversations like I miss you and lots of hearts and stuff, but we can't really be like <3 <3 <3 on oovoo.

[Eric57]

If you want my honest opinion (and I don't mean to be rude), you shouldn't have to think of or ask others for a list of topics and questions to ask your boyfriend so you guys have things to talk about. If he is your boyfriend, then the conversation should simply flow without any effort.

Just talk about random things. You can start off simple. Ask him about his day, how was school, if he has any plans for the weekend. Just general questions. Maybe some sort of conversation will come from one of those general topics. If the conversation comes to a crashing halt, just talk about something random. He is your boyfriend. So you should be able to say anything to him.

Also, you said that most of your Facebook conversations are basically saying how much you miss each other and lots of hearts. So maybe attempt to get to know him some more. Ask him questions about himself. It takes a long time to really to get to know somebody. So ask about him, ask about his family. There are so many things you can say or ask. Just pick something random and go with it.

I'm not sure if I'm being of any help, though. Just don't think about it too much. The more you think about it/stress over it, the harder it's going to be.