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JollyToes
January 18th, 2014, 06:13 AM
My friend wants me to hit on his girlfriend to see if she'll cheat. What he doesn't know is that we made out a few months before they started dating. I'm scared if we are put in that position something really bad may happen. All advice welcome

OhSweetMaple
January 18th, 2014, 06:24 AM
Bad bad bad bad. No good will come from this I think. Your friend should either trust her or leave her, he shouldn't have to test her. Also you could get yourself in a situation you don't want to be in. Don't make yourself part of it I say :)

JollyToes
January 18th, 2014, 06:34 AM
It sucks that I'm friends w both. I think about it a lot. We are all young and eventually one of them is going to hurt the other and I'm gonna be stuck in the middle. Grrrrr.

honeybear
January 18th, 2014, 08:40 AM
I wouldn't do it...if he doesn't trust her enough to ask you to do something like this their relationship is over anyway..I wouldn't get caught in the middle

Emerald Dream
January 18th, 2014, 08:43 AM
Boys and Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

red.astrix
January 18th, 2014, 10:40 AM
NO just no

Melodic
January 18th, 2014, 10:42 AM
This is not a good idea, if you two had a potential relationship before they dated it might make things worse. And there are other ways to find out she is cheating besides making mutual friends hit on her.

hoboliz
January 18th, 2014, 11:20 PM
If he doesn't trust her, they need to talk. You stay out of it. It's not fair to you for him to ask you that.

CharlieHorse
January 18th, 2014, 11:33 PM
DON"T FUCKING DO IT
k? :)

ausley
January 18th, 2014, 11:51 PM
Honestly dude especially if you're bestfriends with this Guy which im expecting you are because he trusts you enough to do this for him if you really need to get involved tell him the truth. tell him that you guys made out months which i think you should have told him a looong time ago especially if they were going out. Like if I was him and you were a good friend I'd want you to tell me about it straight up instead of making me go through the trouble of finding out later and by someone else. Just think if you you don't want your bud to be hurt by a heartbreak right? like he may be mad at you for a while but if you guys were friends you'd make up.

JollyToes
January 19th, 2014, 12:26 AM
I didn't think it was that serious, it's not like we made out while she was dating him. I ended up telling him I wouldn't do that. He understood and it's all good.