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Mariomaster
January 18th, 2014, 02:49 AM
Hi all :)

My name is Mario :) and i was wondering how many girl know about the BSDM stuff and if they have ever done anything :)

Or also BONDAGE :) since i've my gf that likes me to tie her and have .... in some position XD so i wanted to know if she is the only one or not :)

If you do anything can you describe what you do? :)

Thanks very much :)

and btw if you have any question about it just write me a pm :P after my gf asked me the first time i got quite interested in it too XD

Star Wolf
January 18th, 2014, 03:03 AM
Hm. This is a teen forum site so I am going to assume you are one. Now I've never done anything, just read up a lot on it.

BDSM can be a lot of different things, from bondage, to role-play, inflicting pain, asphyxiation(God-forbid), and even cutting.

So now I am going to tell you some VERY important things. If you are going to do BDSM with your girlfriend, you must Always use something called a Safe Word. As a dom, you are not the one that calls the shots when it comes to this one. it must always be safe, sane, and consensual.

A Safe Word is a word you use for Stop. It can be anything from Carp to Melon. It is a word that the sub uses when the dominant is going too far. The dom must be very attentive and careful to make sure he stops Immediately when the sub says it.

You must also sit down with each other and talk about it and make sure both parties are Very aware and know Exactly what is going to take place, and are ready before you do something.

I swear, this is really dangerous to take up on your own, so you should talk to someone who knows the ropes and has experience. It's not safe to just go for it and try it out, because you could end up hurting or killing her if your not careful.

These kinds of actions require pre-planning, communicating, and a great deal of trust in each other.

Seek out wisdom, get educated on it, and be very, very careful. Good luck.

Mariomaster
January 18th, 2014, 03:07 AM
I'm a teen of course and well be sure that i've aready read all this information and here i wasn't asking for advice but just to know if there were someone else that do the same... just this :)

theusername
January 18th, 2014, 03:19 AM
I'd suggest going onto Google and doing a search - this isnt a sex forum lol

JonBarleyCorn
February 9th, 2014, 03:04 PM
I think most girls would try most things -- with the right guy. It is up to you to make it fun and interesting. If I am right, they don't think "gee I would like to be paddled with a ping pong paddle tonight." But if you make it fun.... And I do think a lot of girls like some kind of tying up....with right guy.

Elysium
February 9th, 2014, 03:11 PM
This is so not appropriate. :locked: