Surgery of my father, and afraid of loss.

[earl_hun]

Hello everyone.

My life became a complete mess. My father's examination went wrong. He's got a tumor in his head. He will undergo a surgery, and he will get deaf for his right ear, that's 100%. And his face or body can be paralyzed. And there's a risk of death... I don't want to lose him... We had a bad relationship for 2 years. And the clock is slowly ticking for the surgery... I don't want to lose him. I can't lose him...

Please, somebody help me get through these times. My friends are ignoring me since I'm getting depressed about this...

[earl_hun]

It became worse. I'm losing my contact with my best friend...

[sqishy]

I wish other people will reply, I'll be the first.
Talk to him, if you can. I don't know how to help otherwise, but don't isolate yourself, talk to others.
*hugs*

[earl_hun]

I wish other people will reply, I'll be the first.
Talk to him, if you can. I don't know how to help otherwise, but don't isolate yourself, talk to others.
*hugs*

I spend a lot of time with dad, and sometimes I hold back my tears when I see him in pain...

And my friend who was my "listening ear", simply became an ignorant prick... And it only hurts me, because I was there when he was in deep sh*t...

[sqishy]

Don't blame yourself, make sure you don't. It was not your fault

[earl_hun]

Don't blame yourself, make sure you don't. It was not your fault

But the ignorance hurts like hell :(

[sqishy]

Grief does that. Don't hold back if you want to cry, but don't let self-blame overcome you. That does not help :(

[earl_hun]

Grief does that. Don't hold back if you want to cry, but don't let self-blame overcome you. That does not help :(

I want to get rid of people who are putting me more down than before

[sqishy]

Before you think of that, hold on to the people who you value. That is more important now

[earl_hun]

Before you think of that, hold on to the people who you value. That is more important now

I don't have them.

[sqishy]

I don't have them.

Your dad?

[Flying apple]

Spend every minute with him, do the right things, and know that if the time comes, that you made the very most of it

[KidImage]

Keep your head up. Just make sure to apologize for not spendung time.


People will, forget what you said, what you did but, people will never forget how you made them feel.

[earl_hun]

I will send all the time what I can with my dad.

I hope he will be OK after the time has come...

I try to keep my head up, but it's hard without people who I can count on

[Cjk_20]

Let him know you love him. That's all that matters. Give him hugs. Talk to him. Tell jokes and laugh. He will appreciate it.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Ok, I know mines a little bit different, but after my dad had a heart attack, I had to remember to keep my head up. It will all be fine in the end, Tell him you love him and talk to him lots, it will make both of you more happyier, keep me updated on how it all goes. ;)

[earl_hun]

Tbanm you,I'm better now :)