Immediate Urges Compared to Routine

[becca07]

Do you ever find yourself m-bating differently ( i.e--- how long you take, go faster/slower, where you do it, how you do it etc) when you do it out of routine Vs when you suddenly get the extreme urge to “go for it”??

Routine= When your Not really horny, but its part of a nightly or morning ritual.

Spontaneous/immediate urge= “Omg I can’t take this anymore I NEEd it so bad”

[jenna123]

in routine i tend to go slower and more calmly, i take my time. When i suddently get the urge i tend to take care of it as quick as possible and go as fast as i can. This is because many times when i get the urge im not at home, so i cant take the time i would want to take, gotta do it quick. Routine i take like 15-20 mins to cum, with an immediate urge i can take care of it in 5 mins

[NotShortButFunsized]

I agree with everything Jenna said, routine lets you slow down, take your time, stuff like that. For immediate urges where I NEED it, the urgency of the feelings turns into urgency of action. The immediate jobs are more intense since I just go straight for the best most intense feelings, but in exchange I don't get to enjoy it as long because I'm done in like five minutes. I guess you can say when it's routine I'm willing to take time to enjoy the journey, but when it's immediate all I want is to get to the destination.

[bethgirl1986]

I agree with everything Jenna said, routine lets you slow down, take your time, stuff like that. For immediate urges where I NEED it, the urgency of the feelings turns into urgency of action. The immediate jobs are more intense since I just go straight for the best most intense feelings, but in exchange I don't get to enjoy it as long because I'm done in like five minutes. I guess you can say when it's routine I'm willing to take time to enjoy the journey, but when it's immediate all I want is to get to the destination.

I'm pretty much like this. With the sudden urges, I often go for the destination as quickly as possible, and while the orgasms are good, they are often not the greatest. Usually when I take my time I have the best results.

[jenna123]

I'm pretty much like this. With the sudden urges, I often go for the destination as quickly as possible, and while the orgasms are good, they are often not the greatest. Usually when I take my time I have the best results.

yea, agree 100% with this

[Swimmie]

Yeah, I'm like that too...
But also, when I get an immediate urge, sometimes I feel like masturbating savagely... almost hurting myself :P

[becca07]

Yeah, I'm like that too...
But also, when I get an immediate urge, sometimes I feel like masturbating savagely... almost hurting myself :P

I get that too...its like i really don't care for the "foreplay" i just want to O hard and fast lol

[KellyNC]

I mostly true to keep it as a more routine thing late at night, once or twice, in my room. To me that prevents most 'immediate urges' from striking and gives me a safe place to deal with any urge that builds up over the course of the day. I'll change it up from time to time, either because I have to or just to spice things up, but for the most part I find the 'routine' approach keeps me happy enough.

[NotShortButFunsized]

I mostly true to keep it as a more routine thing late at night, once or twice, in my room. To me that prevents most 'immediate urges' from striking and gives me a safe place to deal with any urge that builds up over the course of the day. I'll change it up from time to time, either because I have to or just to spice things up, but for the most part I find the 'routine' approach keeps me happy enough.

Do you find the "routine" approach ever gets boring? like you're so used to that schedule that it becomes just that, part of a schedule?

[Amsey]

I always change it up to be honest... im always looking for new ways to do it or trying it in different places haha, but my ritual is before bed but I try and do it different each time but usually slow :)

when I REALLY need it I go all Jimmy Hendrix in my bits hahaha :whoops:

[Kristihey]

I have my routine times but I also love the omg-now-now moments :P Like most ppl say, the ones I plan on usually take 15-30 min while the times that pop up are 5 min things

[laurakoller0815]

well i think its depends on my mood take my time or getting over the edge.... When I have much time i spent much time to build it up slowly til im so close. I keep myself at thst level as long as I can till I cant stand it anymore;) is it routine?

[jessi_s]

well i think its depends on my mood take my time or getting over the edge.... When I have much time i spent much time to build it up slowly til im so close. I keep myself at thst level as long as I can till I cant stand it anymore;) is it routine?

Not by my standards, when I do a routine session I usualy don't have enough time to improvise, I just need to get it done as quickly as possible so I can get the "mental reboot" after orgasm so I can focus on other things like studying... If I have the time and opportunity, I'll take my time as long as possible and I could get more creative in it, I dont consider that as routine :)

[laurakoller0815]

i agree with you in that point.... Well as longer as it takes to get close the muscles in tighs and tummy is soo good;)

[CheekyLinda]

Yeah, I'm like that too...
But also, when I get an immediate urge, sometimes I feel like masturbating savagely... almost hurting myself :P

I'm exactly like this as well. When I do it as part of my routine, I'm gentle with myself, taking my time to savor the sensations, which leads to serene, fulfilling orgasms that boost my energy to go on with my day.

But I am VERY different when I feel this overwhelming horniness and lust, at those times, I love to penetrate myself furiously with something, and rub my clit savagely fast to let the orgasm out as fast as I can.. the hotness of the moment makes me have mind-numbing orgasms, and I've been known to sometimes have delirious multiple orgasms when that happens :whoops:

[NotShortButFunsized]

I'm exactly like this as well. When I do it as part of my routine, I'm gentle with myself, taking my time to savor the sensations, which leads to serene, fulfilling orgasms that boost my energy to go on with my day.

But I am VERY different when I feel this overwhelming horniness and lust, at those times, I love to penetrate myself furiously with something, and rub my clit savagely fast to let the orgasm out as fast as I can.. the hotness of the moment makes me have mind-numbing orgasms, and I've been known to sometimes have delirious multiple orgasms when that happens :whoops:

Uhh...TMI a bit? :p

[CheekyLinda]

Uhh...TMI a bit? :p

hahahahahahahahaha... oopsies :p

[hoboliz]

Yeah, I'm like that too...
But also, when I get an immediate urge, sometimes I feel like masturbating savagely... almost hurting myself :P

Um... Does anyone else ever choke themselves when they get like that?