Should I go find me somebody else and let his ex have him?

[Angiemurphy82]

i been living and dating him for a year and a half now. his ex has been a continuing problem for the whole year. he said she was just a f*ck and that's it. well the other day she texted my phone telling me all sorts of stuff about my life and what my parents do. well he was suppose to take care of that. he didn't. he didn't file a police report, he didn't do anything but go and yell to the police saying she harassing him and stalking him. I was not mentioned at all to the police. so basically he went to them screaming say she get on his nerves. she always call and text him but he usually texted her back or called her back. there were time where he would answer her in front of me. today she texted me telling me how the house look and everything. he told me she's lying, she's crazy, and not to listen to her. he said she stalking him. she knew I messed up my ankle and she knew about my mom life, what glasses I wear, what the bathroom look like, she knew my mom was pregnant, my dad in the navy, she knew my living situation. I mean she knew everything. he won't even block her. she told me she text his phone like she do because I be looking for her. at one point of time I was laughing at her because I really did think she was crazy. we both would laugh at her together. but she texting my phone, telling me all this stuff. for a whole year, he been telling me she just a f*ck and obsessed with him trying to break us up. he told me for 6 years now, she been harassing him. she told me he using me for my army money. she basically knew everything. she knew I wear a lot of weave and I be doing it. he said they never dated she just sprung off one time. he said they only had sex in the backseat and that was it. its been a year of dating, this is still a continuing problem. after a year, he decides to put me on his social media pages, but he would put old pictures up, people still don't wanna meet me. I would be the only one post pictures of us kissing and hugging, he would only upload maybe 3 pictures of me by myself. the only picture we have together is on his instagram is on Christmas, we was just standing together. its like when people know its him uploading to his page, they will like it. but when I do stuff, nobody likes it, not even his family when he get an average of 600 plus likes.

[Living For Love]

Maybe give him some time until things with his ex calm down. Try to give her the impression that you two broke up, but it's something temporary, until things calm down.

[Angiemurphy82]

Thus is half of the story. What I'm telling you is that he refuse to get rid of her. If he been trying to get rid of her for 6 years he would have done. Why would I give him space? Can't nobody know that much about me unless you tell them. He kept me away from her because she knew a lot. All this been going on the whole time we was together, now why would you tell me to talk to him? if she know this much about me and what went wrong you think he telling the truth? How else can she know?????? How she get my number??????

[Living For Love]

She might have got information about you, your life and your family through things your boyfriend carelessly told her, or just through social media (your Facebook, for instance). Confront him about that topic, because you deserve the truth, I mean, it's your privacy that's being invaded here, your life, your relationship. And ask him as well why doesn't he want to get rid of her and stop contacting her, because, no offence, she seems quite a creepy and stalker-ish person, and he seems kind of a fool for still being with her until she changes her attitude.

[Melodic]

He might have no choice to leave if she's been harassing him for six years. If she knows all about you, what do you think she knows about him?

[Angiemurphy82]

@ looking for sunshine...if someone has been harassing you for 6 years you would have done something by now and not come up with lies everytime. Now he saying they brokeup a year ago. He refuse to get rid of her. evidently she's not stalking. That information she said had to come from him. So what you mean he had no choice? I broke up with him so it don't matter this was half of the story.

@ryan that information is not on Facebook it can only come from him. How does she seem stalkish if all this information have to come from him? As stated we talked about this plenty of times already. If a person was harassing you, you would take legal action and not constantly lie about what you gone do and he sitting there picking up the phone answering her. So please come up with a better idea.