View Full Version : Wanting to lose virginty
andy025
January 16th, 2014, 07:59 AM
I am 15, male, straight and a virgin I feel like I want to have sex but I don't know who to have it with?? Any answers
AlexOnToast
January 16th, 2014, 08:33 AM
Well I'm not sure i could give you any good advice except try to start a relationship with somebody....But don't get into a relationship if it's just for sex because it's just not a good thing to do :/
JamesJB
January 16th, 2014, 11:08 AM
yeah i think u should start a relationship b4 u start doing that stuff... believe me :p
CostumerServiceGuy
January 16th, 2014, 12:16 PM
Don't start a relationship 4 sex dude! Find the right girl, and then bang her when if you love her truly.
Fiction
January 16th, 2014, 05:03 PM
Okay well take it from me, you have sex with a girl just because you want to have sex with her and you will hurt her in a way that'll hurt for years to come. Boys always seem to be in such a rush to loose their virginity and trust me there is no rush.
There is so many risks associated with sex and sex is only fun when you actually have a connection with them. I lost my virginity at your age because my boyfriend wanted to loose his virginity before he turned 15. It was an awful experience for me and one that I regret immensely.
Don't feel pressured to have sex because society says that you should.
Tenoka
January 16th, 2014, 10:37 PM
Let off some steam and then think about it. If you still have that feeling try to focus on some school work or hobbies. Rushing into a sexual relation with someone you don't have a connection with won't be as satisfying.
connorftw
January 16th, 2014, 11:36 PM
Well I'm not sure i could give you any good advice except try to start a relationship with somebody....But don't get into a relationship if it's just for sex because it's just not a good thing to do :/
yeah i think u should start a relationship b4 u start doing that stuff... believe me :p
Don't start a relationship 4 sex dude! Find the right girl, and then bang her when if you love her truly.
Okay well take it from me, you have sex with a girl just because you want to have sex with her and you will hurt her in a way that'll hurt for years to come. Boys always seem to be in such a rush to loose their virginity and trust me there is no rush.
There is so many risks associated with sex and sex is only fun when you actually have a connection with them. I lost my virginity at your age because my boyfriend wanted to loose his virginity before he turned 15. It was an awful experience for me and one that I regret immensely.
Don't feel pressured to have sex because society says that you should.
Let off some steam and then think about it. If you still have that feeling try to focus on some school work or hobbies. Rushing into a sexual relation with someone you don't have a connection with won't be as satisfying.
all of this is great advice. dont lose it until your with somebody you truly love and want to lose it with. trust me you can only lose your virginity once so dont waste it
Nic0 Fiend
January 17th, 2014, 04:47 PM
Your virginity is something that you can't just go to the store and buy back.... You should find someone that you actually like and want to go further with. You wouldn't want to lose it to someone you don't have feels for and have a horrible time now would you??
Eurasian guy
January 18th, 2014, 02:15 AM
It's not worth it bro. I'm 17 and i've been waiting too. It's worth waiting man. Find the right girl for you. It'll mean a lot more emotionally and physically. Especially if she is one too. Plus a lot of girls like the fact that a guys a virgin. Some don't care and some do. But you can't go wrong staying a virgin until you meet the right person.
Fede
January 18th, 2014, 05:24 AM
Believe me, having a relationship with a girl only because you want to lose your virginity is sooo bad, specially for her!
I don't know why most boys want to lose their virginity as soon as possible,
Losing it is a special moment that you must have with a special person... Not someone you found just for that purpose!
Forget about searching a girl for having sex, stop thinking about your virginity, then once you forgot these two things start looking for somebody to love, and who loves you, and after you found it enjoy staying with her, but again dont think about having sex, and after some time you've been togheter sex will come, and believe me it will be the greatest of your life, because sex without love, without any feeling is nothing, and losing the virginity shouldn't be nothing, it should be a very special moment!
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