thatoneguy555
January 16th, 2014, 03:47 AM
Before I begin I must clarify that I'm a straight male.
So I met this friend of mine a few months ago and I already thought he was a little weird. I would catch him staring at me quite a bit, he'd wink at me, whisper "I love you" in my ear, and then he added me on Facebook immediately after meeting me.
I thought I'd never see this guy again and then I ended up changing my group of friends and found out he's in it. I would hang out with practically everyone in the group aside from him and he ended up texting other people in the group asking why he hasn't been hanging out with me.
Now, ever since we've been close, I've been getting strange vibes and I've been getting extremely uncomfortable. He frequently calls me sexy and asks me if I think he's sexy back, he had my profile picture as his phone's background at one point, he always hugs me pretty much every time both of us are standing up, I find him staring at me from the corner of my eye quite a bit whenever I'm not looking...
One time at a hangout, he held my hand, and then in the car he put his arm around me and put his head on my shoulders, and when we were alone he said "it's better when it's just me and you." At another hangout, during a sleepover where there were many other people around, he specifically came up to me and asked if I could sleep next to him because the room is "dark and scary," and when I tried avoiding him he'd try finding me and tell me to come inside. At another hangout he randomly jumped on me for a piggyback ride. All of these made me uncomfortable, but I have never been as uncomfortable as I was today. Whenever he saw me sitting on the couch, he immediately came and sat next to me and put his legs in a position so that our legs are intertwined instead of sitting next to me without unnecessary contact like a normal person, and when we were sitting in the car he first began patting my leg and kept his hand on it, and then proceeded to grab my hand and hold it, and when I tried letting go he grabbed it back and wouldn't let go for a good 10 minutes.
However, he does describe the straight porn he's watched and he gets a lot of girls (has only made out, though)... but I don't know. Out of all the friends I've had in my life I've never encountered a guy as physically lovey-dovey as this and it's really strange. I mean, is he just trying way too hard to be close with me, or does he have some sort of thing for me? Either way, it's making me extremely uncomfortable and I don't know what to do because avoiding him means losing the group since he's pretty much the "leader" of it.
What do you guys think?
So I met this friend of mine a few months ago and I already thought he was a little weird. I would catch him staring at me quite a bit, he'd wink at me, whisper "I love you" in my ear, and then he added me on Facebook immediately after meeting me.
I thought I'd never see this guy again and then I ended up changing my group of friends and found out he's in it. I would hang out with practically everyone in the group aside from him and he ended up texting other people in the group asking why he hasn't been hanging out with me.
Now, ever since we've been close, I've been getting strange vibes and I've been getting extremely uncomfortable. He frequently calls me sexy and asks me if I think he's sexy back, he had my profile picture as his phone's background at one point, he always hugs me pretty much every time both of us are standing up, I find him staring at me from the corner of my eye quite a bit whenever I'm not looking...
One time at a hangout, he held my hand, and then in the car he put his arm around me and put his head on my shoulders, and when we were alone he said "it's better when it's just me and you." At another hangout, during a sleepover where there were many other people around, he specifically came up to me and asked if I could sleep next to him because the room is "dark and scary," and when I tried avoiding him he'd try finding me and tell me to come inside. At another hangout he randomly jumped on me for a piggyback ride. All of these made me uncomfortable, but I have never been as uncomfortable as I was today. Whenever he saw me sitting on the couch, he immediately came and sat next to me and put his legs in a position so that our legs are intertwined instead of sitting next to me without unnecessary contact like a normal person, and when we were sitting in the car he first began patting my leg and kept his hand on it, and then proceeded to grab my hand and hold it, and when I tried letting go he grabbed it back and wouldn't let go for a good 10 minutes.
However, he does describe the straight porn he's watched and he gets a lot of girls (has only made out, though)... but I don't know. Out of all the friends I've had in my life I've never encountered a guy as physically lovey-dovey as this and it's really strange. I mean, is he just trying way too hard to be close with me, or does he have some sort of thing for me? Either way, it's making me extremely uncomfortable and I don't know what to do because avoiding him means losing the group since he's pretty much the "leader" of it.
What do you guys think?