I'm confused about my sexuality

[Captain-Tybo]

Hi,
I'm confused about my sexuality, I don't know whether I'm Gay/Straight or Bi. I've never found girls bums or boobs that attractive, I've went for the face and personality. I've never felt masculine, I'm very camp - this has drove many "lads" away from me (friendwise).

I've watched gay porn a lot lately and it's really been playing on my mind, I might be gay. People have skitted me and called me "gay" for years but now I'm realising it might be true.

As much as I find gay porn excites me, I don't know whether I could live with a man. I'd rather live with a girl. I keep getting thoughts about lads in my year being "fit", and finding them attractive.

I'm a bit worried tbh :(

[AlexOnToast]

All I can say you have no reason to be worried, because there are a LOT of people in your position. I think maybe you could be gay from what you have said, but that's not for definite... Only you can ever be certain. I think labels arent all that great anyway... dont worry too much :)

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[From Chris]

Hi,
I'm confused about my sexuality, I don't know whether I'm Gay/Straight or Bi. I've never found girls bums or boobs that attractive, I've went for the face and personality. I've never felt masculine, I'm very camp - this has drove many "lads" away from me (friendwise).

I've watched gay porn a lot lately and it's really been playing on my mind, I might be gay. People have skitted me and called me "gay" for years but now I'm realising it might be true.

As much as I find gay porn excites me, I don't know whether I could live with a man. I'd rather live with a girl. I keep getting thoughts about lads in my year being "fit", and finding them attractive.

I'm a bit worried tbh :(

There are a lot of people out there just like you, you shouldn't be worried. :) It could be a phase. However if you're sexually and or emotionally attracted to men for a long period of time (several years) then that could mean something. You shouldn't have to feel worried, just give it a couple years and you'll find out who you are. :)

-From Chris

[ksdnfkfr]

Heres some advice i found about this sort of thing:

"Don't worry about it. That's the best advice you can take. If you worry about having a label or that you might enjoy sexual actions with men, you're only hurting yourself. The best thing to do is think nothing of it for now and move on with your life. If it's anything more than it is now you'll see that more and accept it as you go. If not, nothing becomes of it, no big deal. You can choose to watch whatever porn you want, that's the beauty of sexuality, is that you can do anything that to you, seems pleasurable to you. Exploring that is how you can then develop your sexuality in itself more. Just go with the flow."

[Captain-Tybo]

Thanks everyone :) I don't have a clue who I am, but that's all about growing up. I'll find myself and my place in due time.

[MortimerB]

Thanks everyone :) I don't have a clue who I am, but that's all about growing up. I'll find myself and my place in due time.

Now that's a good resolution if I've ever read one. Remember; If life gives you lemons, burn life's house down with the lemons it gave you! Best of luck to you.

[Reghan]

Honestly, just be yourself. Don't think about it to much, just try to feel. Being gay isn't bad or wrong. I personally am straight, but I have many gay, bi, lesbian etc. friends and I love them all to death. It's okay to experiment and take time to figure stuff out. The people that really love you and care for you will stick by you no matter what. :)

[yoyoyoyod]

YOU AND I ARE THE SAME! I always think some boys my age are "fit" and I have thoughts about them.. but at the same time I adore girls as much as boys. I would like to have a relationship with a girl but those thoughts about boys keeps creeping in my mind

[Toptoptop]

I am the exact same way haha thought I was one of few

[Tenoka]

Nothing wrong with it, you could be bisexual, you could just be attracted to people who have that charm. No need to worry, The LGBT community is very accepting, also a lot of hetero people :D In a few years you will most likely know.