Getting changed

[Jakie23]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world

[tarheelboy8888]

I'm not gay, but it is a problem that some guys have. I would just change without even thinking about it, because everyone else is doing it, so why shouldn't you?

[deregisterme]

It's true. Some guys are just like that. I's hard to say relax, as the more you think on it and try and relax, the more weird it feels. It's more a case of thinking on something else.

[CostumerServiceGuy]

Some guys are like that- i'm bisexual, so, I (sorta) know what you r going thru.

[BeyondOne]

Nah. I've been used to it being on multiple sports teams. I walk around my dorm hall in just my boxers sometimes.. Don't even think about it much

[Liam TWB]

No it doesn't make me uncomfortable and I'm bi. I strip down completely (boxers off) like the other guys in the changing room, but I guess I'm used to it through lots of playing team sports and showering together.

[megatime]

I go naked in the changing room dude.yeah weird at first but lots of other guys nude as well so ur not the only one man!

[AlexOnToast]

Well I'm gay, and I never have this problem. I do know people who are shy like you so don't worry :D

[Stryker125]

I'm the same way. I'm just not very confident with my body. It's something that I'm working on, but it's not that big a deal since I'm done with I'm done with high school :P

I don't really have any advice, other than to try not to think about it so much...

[Jakie23]

Well I'm gay, and I never have this problem. I do know people who are shy like you so don't worry :D

That's kinda what I mean dude. I think it's stange for a gay or bi dude to feel uncomfortable. They shouldn't carr, and just look around at the fit guys in their changing room cos I do that too ;)

[AlexOnToast]

That's kinda what I mean dude. I think it's stange for a gay or bi dude to feel uncomfortable. They shouldn't carr, and just look around at the fit guys in their changing room cos I do that too ;)

Well just coz I'm gay doesnt mean I go looking at all the people in the changing room all the time :P The reason i dont feel uncomfortable is because i was brought up to be open about myself, and ive never been shy about not having clothes on

[Jakie23]

That's a fair enough point I guess

[teenuser101]

I've never felt uncomfortable stripping to underwear but I would never go fully naked infront of friends.

[jeremy96]

Because your gay you probably don't like getting changed around other guys but if you were straight you wouldn't to be bothered by it from the most part

[From Chris]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world

I can't tell you how exactly what you just put is exactly like me. Although i'm gay, i feel extremely self conscious around other guys and would never get naked around them in the locker room. I'm always that guy who wanders over to the stalls to change... I wish i had more confidence in the locker room. haha. To be honest though, i think a part of the issue for maybe just me or anyone else with my situation would be that we actually care what others think of us. Or at least i do. I think that because i'm gay, i'm worried that they are judging me when i'm naked. Sort of how guys try to impress girls and not disappoint them, y'know? :)


-From Chris

[Shadow08200]

Some guys are just like that, and it's totally normal. I think it's because the straight guys are comfortable because they've most likely done this for years (assuming they've been in the athletic activities). Back when I had to change in front of other guys, I made sure that I wasn't seen. We all are different.

[pjones]

not uncomfortable at all, but obviously not everyone is so try not to worry about it.

[CRH777]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world

Well I'm kind of like that. I'm straight though… but I think that's partially because I'm a late bloomer so I don't have much armpit hair ext.

[XxPipezillaxX]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world

Well honestly I'm not gay but I'm not afraid to get changed in a locker room mainly because I think of it as a place where ur getting changed not thinking about other people while doing so... I have a friend who I talk to while I get changed just because his locker is close to mine but that's all. If u have a shy problem then that's what u have but other wise it's not because ur gay that u don't feel comfortable changing around other guys.

[ksdnfkfr]

I dont see why sexual orientation should have anything to do with it.

[frisbee25]

I'm bi so it does not bother me I have more of an interest in girls than guys so it does not bother. Plus I seen some dicks before

[XxPipezillaxX]

I dont see why sexual orientation should have anything to do with it.

That's what I said!!

[ksdnfkfr]

That's what I said!!

I wasn't responding to your post - just the subject in general

[XxPipezillaxX]

I wasn't responding to your post - just the subject in general

I'm agreeing with u

[ksdnfkfr]

I'm agreeing with u

yeah you better! I mean whoops my bad :whoops:

[teegoo8]

i have no problem. i've played football all my life so i've always done it. don't worry about it, everyone's got the same parts as you. haha. and if you're worried about getting a boner just think of something really turn-offish like "beiste" (glee thing...lol).

[Darksoul13]

Well I never was shy about it I personally don't care. However some people are different and might be shy however it doesn't matter if your gay,bi,or straight.

[SkiJoey99]

I used to be uncomfortable changing in the same room as someone else, but so long as we both keep our underwear on I'm not anymore. I'm straight, but I wouldn't be comfortable changing with girls though.

[jam98]

I'm kind of like that, but I'm straight. If you never really did any sports then that might be the cause, as you're not really used to taking your clothes off in front of other people - that's the problem I have. If you just try to forget about everyone else at first and just do it, then after a few times you won't be so worried about it

[Curious24]

I think it is fine. I change clothes in front of my male friends all the time.

[ECSTASY]

Im kinda shy to do that too:p

[connorftw]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world

im gay and at first i was shy and got nervous about it but now i dont really have a problem with it. give it time and youll get used to it

[JamesJB]

depends on who im getting changed around... if its my mates i dm

[john.doe1111]

Nah I don't feel uncomfortable

[Forsakenbymyself]

I'm not comfortable with my looks, so i hardly ever strip down completely naked.

[Jakie23]

I'm not comfortable with my looks, so i hardly ever strip down completely naked.

Well neither do we. Its only down to boxers before and after PE at school

[Jcurious98]

Its more exciting than uncomfortable for me... showing off is fun for me smhow

[Arsenalfan123]

No because in boxers?!?

[Marius44]

Sometimes have the same problem. Depends on who I'm with though. If it's really sporty people, I don't like that.

[HSJock206]

im straight and I dont have a problem undressing or changing with other guys around, gay or not. I doubt I would even notice.

[gui0506]

I've never felt really comfortable about being naked in locker rooms because my classmates are ~2 years older than me. Because of the age gap, I always thought mine was smaller than the others', and for this reason I never got naked in school.

[Faolan]

They're not attracted the way that we are to the people we change with so it's no big deal for them. I've always been super self conscious changing around other guys, and I believe being gay has a lot to do with that.

[Green Arrow]

I'm gay and I kinda understand what you mean. I kinda just zone it out and just get on with what I need to do... get changed.

[Jtyler]

I do , I'm not sure why

[DorkimusPrime]

I've not got the greatest body or anything, but im alright changing in front of people, I just couldn't care less.

[The_Glaswegian]

It doesn't bother me - we were all born naked so it's nothing different to other guys

[JollyToes]

If you think abt it too much or act nervous it'll just make every day you have to do it that much worse. It shouldn't matter if you are gay, straight or undecided

[Catholic Guy]

Well we don't get naked but no I'm pretty comfortable with it, I'm just used to it by now I suppose, being doing it since I was about 5

[Jason_Monty]

You'll always get those type of guys that will happily strip in front of anyone because they prefer being naked.

[Gifford]

Nah. I've been used to it being on multiple sports teams. I walk around my dorm hall in just my boxers sometimes.. Don't even think about it much

I'm gay and don't give a shit what others think. At my boarding school everyone strips naked to change and/or shower. No big deal. If you get hard, don't worry, other guys will to. If anyone gives you any flak over it, disregard them or tell them it's normal and to fuck off. Don't take crap from anyone.

[ConorM]

Whether you're gay r str8 I don't think it matters I don't really understand why guys are uncomfortable about it tbh

[Your Captain]

That's strange maybe because it would be like strippin in front of a girl if you were straight

[airjordan97]

I'm not shy anymore, I've been doing this since 6th Grade and I've grown accustomed to it. I've also been naked and changed in front of other boys when i went on a trip. Don't sweat it. IF you get a boner, you get a boner it's apart of the male anatomy and puberty. If they laugh, then you say, "are you gay? quit looking at my dick." Simple as that. I was changing at the why and another boy just got naked in front of me and I tried not to look and then he covered himself up. I didn't get hard or anything after that but he was pretty well fit. Anyway, Good luck.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Well , I still cover up when changing, I think its just because i'm shy and don't want a lot of people seeing me even though I am gay.

[Stuey1]

dose not bother me in the slightest

[RavleIncarnate]

I hate the showers with a passion that rivals Brangelina's passion for more kids.
And its all because of my extreme shyness and acute topophobia.

[steellord321]

Well honestly I'm not gay but I'm not afraid to get changed in a locker room mainly because I think of it as a place where ur getting changed not thinking about other people while doing so... I have a friend who I talk to while I get changed just because his locker is close to mine but that's all. If u have a shy problem then that's what u have but other wise it's not because ur gay that u don't feel comfortable changing around other guys.

nah, it can really matter if attracted to some. I used to get nervous for hours before. I'd worry if i got aroused or stared without realizing i might not make it out of there alive...


To the OP, just try to think of math problems or other boring shit or some ugly old teacher.

[rambo_24]

it doesnt bother me

[rambo_24]

its probably because youre gay though

[azza955]

It depends who I'm with. If I'm with close friends, then who cares, but otherwise I won't.

[AlisterPSG]

for some its the norm even getting naked is normal for some depends on who your with dont worry ether no one it going to say anything about you when your changing if they all do it be clam and remember they dont care if everyone is doing it because nobody wants to stick out like a sore thum

[CrazyPerson101]

Does anyone else feel extremely uncomfortable getting changed in front of other guys?? I mean I'm gay and I shouldn't. The straight guys just like strip down to boxers without a care in the world


I do ! Im bi and I HATE having to change in front of other guys ( thats why I go into a stall hehehe ) Idk how they do it though ....

[Luminous]

for some its the norm even getting naked is normal for some depends on who your with dont worry ether no one it going to say anything about you when your changing if they all do it be clam and remember they dont care if everyone is doing it because nobody wants to stick out like a sore thum

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