A Problem

[red.astrix]

Now heres the problem. Please dont think im shallow for this. I know my profile says i live in Cda bt right now im living overseas. THERE ARE ABSOLUTELY NO GIRLS I FIND ATTRACTIVE HERE. When I go back to Canada i meet and see tonnes of girls i think a pretty and nice. Here i dont find them physically attractive and they dont possess the best personalities either. I want a serious relationship and i actually feel quite lonely. Im 15 now and not even properly kissed a girl not that i cant its because i said the girls here arent the greatest. I have no idea what to do :/ ANY help would be appreciated ANY help please.

[chieko]

Okay I'm not going to tell you that you're shallow for this. I don't say that it is but I think MAYBE the problem is not the people around you but it is you, yourself, yes. I'm sorry but no one is 'best' and 'greatest'. It depends on every people who's the greatest and the best for them. I don't know where on Earth you are right now but if it is really true that there's no pretty and nice girls enough for you, then there's nothing you can do about it. I am not criticizing or anything but If you are too choosy you have to wait and stay like that until you go back to Canada or move away to any other place. Try setting goals other than 'kissing a girl'. There can be a lot of things you may prioritize to make you happy.

[red.astrix]

Okay I'm not going to tell you that you're shallow for this. I don't say that it is but I think MAYBE the problem is not the people around you but it is you, yourself, yes. I'm sorry but no one is 'best' and 'greatest'. It depends on every people who's the greatest and the best for them. I don't know where on Earth you are right now but if it is really true that there's no pretty and nice girls enough for you, then there's nothing you can do about it. I am not criticizing or anything but If you are too choosy you have to wait and stay like that until you go back to Canada or move away to any other place. Try setting goals other than 'kissing a girl'. There can be a lot of things you may prioritize to make you happy.

Yeah okay thanks 4 tht...BUT...to show you the kind of girls tht are here, here is a list of things tht have happend to me due to them
1.I rejectd a girl next day i found she told everyone i said no because im gay apparently
2.A girl spreads rumours about me saying i suppy drugs to people in the school
3.A girl says that me and her "skype" all the time and we are "soooo" close
4.A girl asks the guidence councellor at assembly what to do because I dont like her...yes she used my name
And even morw has happened to me and equally bad things to my friends so yeah