Taking thing's too personally

[AlexOnToast]

This is only recent, but lately whenever I get criticized for something (a mistake, and error of judgement, etc), even if it's something small, I start to worry and it effects me much more than stuff used to. I used to be able to shake things off easily and just ignore stuff, but in the past month or so I've just felt really weird about how I've been reacting to things... I feel like i'm for the changing for the worse :(

[Amsey]

hey you :) don’t worry, I do this too, if my mum/dad or a teacher shouts at me, if i get criticised for my religion, etc. the list goes on and on... i mean even if a mod on here bans/removes my posts i get extremely upset and/or cry, maybe were both just emotional, my best friend say its my fault because i bottle everything up like bullying, unfair treatment and it all comes out at once... i think it helps to talk to your friends and family :P

[AlexOnToast]

hey you :) don’t worry, I do this too, if my mum/dad or a teacher shouts at me, if i get criticised for my religion, etc. the list goes on and on... i mean even if a mod on here bans/removes my posts i get extremely upset and/or cry, maybe were both just emotional, my best friend say its my fault because i bottle everything up like bullying, unfair treatment and it all comes out at once... i think it helps to talk to your friends and family :P

But I was never like this before, and most people would call my whiney :(

[CostumerServiceGuy]

I totally agree :-)

[DarkHorse4eva]

please don't worry about it, we all make mistakes and it's in the past... you're not whiny, we all should be able to cry or be sad once in a while.

[ksdnfkfr]

Ive been told puberty is full of periods of mood swings, especially starting out

[AlexOnToast]

please don't worry about it, we all make mistakes and it's in the past... you're not whiny, we all should be able to cry or be sad once in a while.

Well this isnt about any particular thing, It's about in general, like if I accidentally put something in the wrong place, or if I mess up in a post or something

[jmx100]

don't worry it happens to me say like if my name is being called and im on my way home I get worried and I don't know why but if some one is pissing me off I get worried other people will join in or I will try to beet them up and Ill get in trouble and when I walk home on my own I get worried all the time but in year 7 I always tried to get out of school at 2:40 or so and so time but just try not to worry that what I try to do and most of the time it works

[Body odah Man]

Well this isnt about any particular thing, It's about in general, like if I accidentally put something in the wrong place, or if I mess up in a post or something

I know what you mean, (well not totally because we all feel differently but in general), you just take everything super seriously and it rlly affects u suddenly. Like someone else said I think it's just an (annoying) side effect of puberty and shuld go away after a while and be temporary.

[Amsey]

But I was never like this before, and most people would call my whiney :(

You don't seem whiney to me, we're both just sensitive :)

[ugaboy]

I have read a lot of your posts/replies, and I think you and Ezra seem to give some of the best and most thoughtful answers on VT. You certainly don't strike me as whiny, but just as a kinda sensitive guy. Which is not a bad thing. Maybe this is just one of the phases of puberty.