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Hey Im Shaun
January 14th, 2014, 07:56 AM
I've been going out with a girl for about 2 years now, she's pretty much perfect for me, except well she lies. A lot. I've caught her out a few times and she's admitted it, recently it's been getting worse. It's really frustrating having somebody so close lie to you, I've been thinking about breaking up but I just can't, each time i attempt I think about all the fun times we've had.
I have no idea what to do I've pretty much lost all faith in her I just can't seem to break up
Advice please? :/
Living For Love
January 14th, 2014, 09:33 AM
She might have Compulsive Lying Disorder, you should talk to her about her issue and if she wants to get any treatment in case she cannot stop telling those lies. Tell her how your relationship would get even nicer if she could just stop lying, and encourage her to do an effort.
Harley Quinn
January 14th, 2014, 09:37 AM
It all depends on how big the lies are and whether or not they're impacting directly onto the relationship. Everyone lies, but if her lies are always constant and never stop, you may need to talk to someone about it because it is actually a serious thing. However, breaking up is not easy to do. If you don't love her any more, or don't even want to be with her, you need to tell her that. Communication is key to every relationship, ever. This one is no different. Talk to her about the issues you're facing and see if you can both work through them, otherwise make sure she knows that there may possible be no future between you two.
Hey Im Shaun
January 14th, 2014, 11:38 AM
Wow didn't know it could actually be a disorder, Its not really effecting the relationship when I'm with her I still have the time of my life, she makes me generally happy. Its just when were not together, and she lies to me, all my gut instincts kick in and say, she's bored of you she's moving on. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated. :)
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