1 Time Sex hurts and Blood?

[SeductiveStrawberry]

Heyyy Is it true that when you have Sex for the first time it starts bleeding out of you Vagina?? I am confused...... :( Why? Does it hurt?

[ImAurora]

It can hurt for several reasons. How "rough" the sex is, the stretching of the vaginal wall, and the breaking of the hymen. Bleeding the first time is fairly common.

[IcaJess]

It is normal to bleed on your first time, but alot of girls dont. It may hurt a little at first (:

Off topic - 100 posts c:

[NotShortButFunsized]

like Jess said, its normal to bleed, but its normal not to bleed either. Everyone is different, just be careful and make sure youre ready and bleeding/pain shouldnt be too bad if it does happen

[bethgirl1986]

Not to be rude, but if she doesn't understand why it would hurt and bleed, she's not ready for sex.

[jenna123]

my first time it hurt but i didnt bleed. Its almost always gonna hurt the first time thats for sure. About bleeding its not that common but it still happens fairly often with girls, nothing to worry about though

[Taryn98]

some pain and blood is normal

[Evaboo]

I bleed a little and it hort a little...

[Elysium]

It can hurt for several reasons. How "rough" the sex is, the stretching of the vaginal wall, and the breaking of the hymen. Bleeding the first time is fairly common.
The hymen does not break. That is a myth.

Otherwise, though, she's completely correct. It may hurt, it may not, depending on your vagina, your partner, how aroused you are/how much lubrication there is, and how tense you are. It may bleed and it may not, depending on similar factors. You could probably do some research on the topic pretty easily.

Bleeding is a result of a tear in the vagina or hymen. From what I know, it's not all that excessive. This doesn't happen with everyone, though. Pain is just a result of the vagina having not been stretched in such a way for an extended period of time.

[ImAurora]

The hymen does not break. That is a myth.

Otherwise, though, she's completely correct. It may hurt, it may not, depending on your vagina, your partner, how aroused you are/how much lubrication there is, and how tense you are. It may bleed and it may not, depending on similar factors. You could probably do some research on the topic pretty easily.

Bleeding is a result of a tear in the vagina or hymen. From what I know, it's not all that excessive. This doesn't happen with everyone, though. Pain is just a result of the vagina having not been stretched in such a way for an extended period of time.

I guess my health teacher was a liar, then. Haha

[Elysium]

I guess my health teacher was a liar, then. Haha
Or just didn't know any better, since the whole "breaking of the hymen" myth is too often perpetuated.

For anyone interested: to simplify, it's just a stretchy membrane that some people with vaginas are born with and some aren't. Hymens vary in size and thickness; for some people, the hymen covers the entire vaginal opening and can be ratified with surgery; for others, it barely covers anything. During intercourse, the hymen (assuming it's there) is stretched and can tear, which can cause bleeding. However, I mentioned it was a stretchy membrane for a reason. After a period of time, the hymen reverts back, sort of like a rubber band, and so if someone with a vagina were to have sex one day and then not again for months, it may hurt just the same the second time around as it did the first. There are plenty of useful educational videos available on YouTube that help to debunk this myth, but this is one that I found especially useful (this user in general is very informative, if you care to look at her other videos):
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Also, as a side note, this would mean that you can't accurately determine whether or not someone with a vagina has ever had vaginal intercourse. A doctor may be able to tell if they've had vaginal intercourse recently, however.

Sorry for the unnecessarily long post. This myth is just a pet peeve of mine.

[nicole97]

For me it did a bit. There was some tearing I could feel and a little blood that we ad to stop and deal with. We'd had foreplay and were ready, but I guess it was inevitable because I had never really had anything up there before. But it's nothing to be afraid of, it'll subside pretty quickly after it starts to get going again, and if you're ready just take precaution.