Telling parents about LDR

[Synyster Shadows]

Ok so I've been in an LDR for 2 months and I know that I have to tell my parents at some point. The problem is that I'm really nervous about that and don't know how to do it without freaking out. I know I have to do it face-to-face if I want any to have any luck but I'm just so scared. What do you think the best way and time to say it would be? They're usually understanding but I don't know if the circumstances would change any of that.

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Thanks in advance, everyone.

[AlexOnToast]

This is actually extremely relevant to me, I'm iin a LDR and i've been wondering how to bring it up up with my dad ..... should be interesting to see the reply's :)

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Ok so I've been in an LDR for 2 months and I know that I have to tell my parents at some point. The problem is that I'm really nervous about that and don't know how to do it without freaking out. I know I have to do it face-to-face if I want any to have any luck but I'm just so scared. What do you think the best way and time to say it would be? They're usually understanding but I don't know if the circumstances would change any of that.

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Thanks in advance, everyone.

Morning mate,

Don't make such a big deal about it, just when you are sitting down watching tv with them or another place that you can get away from quickly if you feel nervous.
On the lines of what to say, possibly something like"mum, dad, I'm currently in a (add long distance or you can let them inquire the details)relationship. I just wanted to let you know and I hope you will be understanding." Simple and to the point, if they want to ask questions then they can but just remember, only tell them what you feel comfortable saying. Being nervous doesnt help so just go for it, give no f**** because confidence will make you seem good :P

Good luck mate :)

[Saint]

Why though?

I mean it's only been 2 months,and I'm not trying to burst any bubbles here,but wouldn't it be better if you at least waited for a tad bit longer before bringing it up to your parents? (assuming shit got real in the relationship at that point) I'd honestly advise on seeing where the relationship is going in a year or so,and then telling your parents if the need is there.

But again,if you're keen on letting them know,do what ^ said. Choice is yours,but do consider the advice :P

[Synyster Shadows]

Thanks, Hayden. I'll keep that in mind.

Well, Aerial, my girlfriend and I have really strong feelings and we know it. I'm not joking. And I just feel like I should say something because I don't like being so secretive about some things, and this would be one of them.

[ksdnfkfr]

Ok so I've been in an LDR for 2 months and I know that I have to tell my parents at some point. The problem is that I'm really nervous about that and don't know how to do it without freaking out. I know I have to do it face-to-face if I want any to have any luck but I'm just so scared. What do you think the best way and time to say it would be? They're usually understanding but I don't know if the circumstances would change any of that.

We always bring stuff up at the dinner table.
One thing funny with my autism is that it makes it difficult to not
be straight forward and blunt and I personally would just say
"im in an ldr" the same as i would say "i had pizza for lunch at school".
I just dont know of any other way to tell stuff.

[Etcetera]

OMG this is how I am going through.

I have a boyfriend and he's 7 states away. My parents don't know him and are super protective, all I can say is it's best to tell them than to hide it.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Thanks, Hayden. I'll keep that in mind.

Well, Aerial, my girlfriend and I have really strong feelings and we know it. I'm not joking. And I just feel like I should say something because I don't like being so secretive about some things, and this would be one of them.

Sure thing Andrew, send me a message if you want to discuss more

[Melodic]

One thing funny with my autism is that it makes it difficult to not be straight forward and blunt and I personally would just say "im in an ldr" ff.
Yeah I am literally like this, but again I also have Autism so it does make sense..

And for the advice, I'd just be honest with them and tell them bluntly and at the right time. If you don't tell them and they find out somehow, it will make them question the relationships safety and have them lose their trust in you.

[Synyster Shadows]

Sad news. Her dad found out and flipped out (we did some NSFW texting - probably the worst decision ever). I think it's over :( He probably hates me. I'm devastated now. Now, none of it matters. Thanks though guys...you're all great people.