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UndeadLittleRed
January 13th, 2014, 05:04 PM
Okay so a little back story. First week of school i saw this girl. Beautiful beautiful girl. Had no idea who she was. I see her in class and on the bus. Few weeks go by i know her name nothing special. On halloween day she asked me to sit with her on the bus. So lets say about 2 weeks after that she asks me to hang out after school. Sweet right? Girl of your dreams wants to hang out! We just walked through the woods and sat on a curb and talked. It was nice. The day after that her and her boyfriend break up. Then they get back together. Okay when they weren't together i would bring her those starbucks coffee drinks and she would get so happy. But i stopped once they got back together. Thanksgiving night i told her i liked her and all that stuff. She said we'll talk about this tomorrow because we were gonna hang out. So we hung out but didnt really talk about that i like her until she says "its nice to have someone who is my age that likes me to hang out with." I reply saying "whats not to like?" She says "awww. Why do you like me? I Didn't think before saying and i said "i dont know. Feelings." Sooooo stupid i know! But after that nothing was said about it again. So hang out the day after playing on this little kid playset thing and we are just having a good time! Now her and her boyfriend are not together anymore and i still like her alot! :wub: should i go for it? Also my friends say im "too nice" is there such a thing? I was thinking about bringing her the coffee drink and maybe a doughnut tomorrow. She always says she is hungry in the morning and i want nothing other than her to be happy.

Tony X
January 13th, 2014, 05:34 PM
She sees you as her friend. Don't go for it or you will lose her, just move on and look for another girl

WeAreOneRepublic
January 13th, 2014, 06:38 PM
You can be all friendly sure, asking her out might need some thinking or timing.

If you want to ask her out, awesome. Buuuuuuuut, you want to make it at the right time, to early and it might be a rebound or get into complications with her bf and her other friends and too late she might not have feelings. Going into detail here, if you go for it too early you might be her rebound and that doesn't always mean a good relationship(go and google it if you don't know), you want to make sure her and her boyfriend are done otherwise there might be some complications. I would say wait around 3 weeks, plus minus 1 week or so or go by your own judgement. Don't wait too long either.

I could continue writing but I'm on my ipad and its hard, wish you luck mate

IcaJess
January 13th, 2014, 06:57 PM
It sounds to me like she just wants to be friends, its up to you though (:

CostumerServiceGuy
January 14th, 2014, 04:02 PM
Go 4 the kiss and then 4 the bang.

Not the shooting of a gun, that's only if she hates you and makes you feel suicidal, i been 'BANG BANG.'

HAVE SEX WITH HER ERR HOW IS THAT SO HARD 2 SAY ERRR