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DarkHorse4eva
January 13th, 2014, 12:47 PM
I need help... my parents yell at me, i have no IRL friends, school is stressing me out, i'm scared i might lose my boyfriend and i'm just tired of everything!! i feel like cutting and just ending it all...

Miserabilia
January 13th, 2014, 01:09 PM
Don't, seek comfort in the warm arms of the people of VT forum :)

AlexOnToast
January 13th, 2014, 01:14 PM
Please dont do something irrational Ras, we're all here for you :)

DarkHorse4eva
January 13th, 2014, 01:40 PM
i fucking hate my parents right now! i just got grounded for knowing shit... everybody keep yelling at me that i have to find out what the fuck i want when i'm out of school, but i don't want anything and i don't know what the fuck i should do! my dad hits me because i don't know anything and says "I don't know" apparently there's no fucking word called i don't know!!! i don't know what to do anymore...

Captain Canada
January 13th, 2014, 04:07 PM
Honestly I dont really know what to say... I guess as I've always told you, look on the bright side. Yes, there is a bright side even though you may not see it now. If you end your life or follow through with cutting you will have more guilt and pressure on you and thats the least thing you want. The only thing you can do is keep.your head up. If they're hitting you for nothing then they aren't even worth the effort to even glance at.

As hard as it may seem, ignore them. Keep yourself calm because panicking isnt going to help at all. Deal with your problems now and then focus on what you want to do in the future. It may be painful to deal with the problems but its way better than pushing them aside and having them come back to you repeatedly.

Focus, keep calm, be happy, and carry on ♥

Looks like I did know what to say >_<

Hallie
January 14th, 2014, 12:09 AM
Please Rasmus, stay safe for us and for yourself. You are worth so much more than you could possibly imagine. There are so many people who love you to bits, like meeeee :) We're all here for you, and you are going to get through this because you are a strong and capable person. I really believe that. If anyone can make it, you can. And I'm not just saying that. I'm telling you this because I really believe that it's true. Forget your parents and school and even your boyfriend for just a second and remember that you have us. You will ALWAYS have us. No matter what happens. I know it seems hopeless right now, but if you hold on, I will. WE ALL will. You INSPIRE me, Rasmus.

Parents are the family you're stuck with. You can't change who your parents are. They love you though, even though it's hard to believe. They only want what's best for you, although it may not always seem like it. School is shit. It really is. I'm sorry. But you don't have much longer to go--you'll be done with high school soon and you can leave! You can go somewhere else! ANYWHERE! You can escape! And hey, boyfriends come and go. You'll probably have a few, if not lots of them. Guys will break your heart again and again, and you'll be breaking hearts left and right as well. It's the way love works for all of us. Life goes on. There will always be one guy for you, and whether you've met him or not, he's out there. The point is, your current boyfriend may not be your last. There may be others to come. That's the way love goes. You're young. You haven't seen the rest of the world yet. There's so much more out there for you if you and your boyfriend don't work out. Boyfriends come and go, but your friends have always got your back. You hear? WE HAVE GOT YOUR BACK AND THERE AINT A THING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. GOT THAT? We love you and we want you to stay with us. Help us fight. We can make it. Together.