Point of no return?

[Swimmie]

I've been experiencing with this for a while while I masturbate but hasn't found an answer yet :P

Do we girls have a point of no return like guys? Something like: no matter what happens you're gonna cum? The closest i got to what could be it was like instants before the first contraction. I stopped rubbing my clit and i still orgasmed...

What about you girls?

[enriqueroxx]

Yup I think so....I guess it just depends on your mood-what you're feeling at that moment..Happens to me sometimes too!

[Amsey]

Yeah I get that to, this one time I had to stop cause my brother was about to walk in but mom shouted on him, I had to stop but it still happens which would've been weird if he came in my room haha

[becca07]

Yeah I have def notice this before. Its like you feel the rising tensions in you clit/puss and like you said....you get that " I am soo gunna cum no matter what feelig"

For me at that moment it feels like a switch has been flicked: like the mercury in a thermometer has been set off and if you stop rubbing that red in the thermometer will still keep going up until it bursts through the top( orgasm)

Also to add to your question does anyone else find that at this "point of no return" you seem to start to rub faster? Why do you think we do this if we know we are gunna cum neways...does it make the O more intense for you?

[Amsey]

Yeah I have def notice this before. Its like you feel the rising tensions in you clit/puss and like you said....you get that " I am soo gunna cum no matter what feelig"

For me at that moment it feels like a switch has been flicked: like the mercury in a thermometer has been set off and if you stop rubbing that red in the thermometer will still keep going up until it bursts through the top( orgasm)

Also to add to your question does anyone else find that at this "point of no return" you seem to start to rub faster? Why do you think we do this if we know we are gunna cum neways...does it make the O more intense for you?

I have noticed that yeah, like I’m playing a guitar or something hahaha, I think its excitement that makes us do it since we "NEED IT" haha and personally I think it feels allot better when you do it this way but I does seem to tire me out me than just letting it happen. :yawn:

Do you find if you hold if off for as long as possible its AMAZING!!! Can fall asleep after that hahah :whoops:

[becca07]

I have noticed that yeah, like I’m playing a guitar or something hahaha, I think its excitement that makes us do it since we "NEED IT" haha and personally I think it feels allot better when you do it this way but I does seem to tire me out me than just letting it happen. :yawn:

Do you find if you hold if off for as long as possible its AMAZING!!! Can fall asleep after that hahah :whoops:

Yeah for me i find that if i don't rub hard/faster right before the O its not as intense( the contractions arn't as strong/statifying) and i find that il need to m-bate again cuz i am still a bit horny.

And yea if i hold off on it the O is that much more intense...especially if i have worked/teased myself all day long and finally get to do it ;)

[Swimmie]

Ok, just had a practical research a few minutes ago lol it was fun:

I think my point of no return is when the heat that begins all around my pelvis gets to the tip of my clit. When it gets there, two things can happen. If i remove my hand, i get a weak orgasm and if i let my fingers just resting over my clit i get a normal one... (Hell, its hard not to rub hahaha)

And yeah, when i reach that point, there is an urge to go jimi hendrix on my clit but i also found out that going on slowly and steadily with pressure can give me AWESOME orgasms, even better than the guitar solo ones lol

[becca07]

Ok, just had a practical research a few minutes ago lol it was fun:

I think my point of no return is when the heat that begins all around my pelvis gets to the tip of my clit. When it gets there, two things can happen. If i remove my hand, i get a weak orgasm and if i let my fingers just resting over my clit i get a normal one... (Hell, its hard not to rub hahaha)

And yeah, when i reach that point, there is an urge to go jimi hendrix on my clit but i also found out that going on slowly and steadily with pressure can give me AWESOME orgasms, even better than the guitar solo ones lol

Sounds interesting! I think i will go do some "practice research" too ;) I kind a want to see if its different for different styles of m-batin( i.e clit, vag, humping/grinding)

[jenna123]

Ok, just had a practical research a few minutes ago lol it was fun:

I think my point of no return is when the heat that begins all around my pelvis gets to the tip of my clit. When it gets there, two things can happen. If i remove my hand, i get a weak orgasm and if i let my fingers just resting over my clit i get a normal one... (Hell, its hard not to rub hahaha)

And yeah, when i reach that point, there is an urge to go jimi hendrix on my clit but i also found out that going on slowly and steadily with pressure can give me AWESOME orgasms, even better than the guitar solo ones lol

practical research haha, i like how you named that. For me its similar at that precise moment, i know that even if i stop touching myself im still gonna cum theres nothing that can stop me. But yes i get better orgasms if i continue touching my clit

[Amsey]

Haha I'm tryna think of a way to say practical research haha I think it's fun to experiment and do it different ways, discoving new things I like :) i hope you guys have fun haha :)

[jenna123]

Haha I'm tryna think of a way to say practical research haha I think it's fun to experiment and do it different ways, discoving new things I like :) i hope you guys have fun haha :)

everytime im gonna go try something new m-bating im gonna say i did some practical research haha. Everyone go do some practical research haha have fun

[Swimmie]

Make sure you all post your research results, we're conducting a scientific experiment over here hahahaha specially with the steady and slow technique during the entire orgasm... It gave me the best... How should i put it... Results hahaha

[Evaboo]

Love the reserch! ;)

[Amsey]

everytime im gonna go try something new m-bating im gonna say i did some practical research haha. Everyone go do some practical research haha have fun

Haha me too :P I pic'd you as like an m-bating teacher there or something "today's homework class..." Haha I would "study but on a self ban (2 days in... Killing me haha)

[bethgirl1986]

I love doing that research! ;) Yes, I have a point of no return.

[Sandra Main]

I also have the point of no return. many times

[jenna123]

Haha me too :P I pic'd you as like an m-bating teacher there or something "today's homework class..." Haha I would "study but on a self ban (2 days in... Killing me haha)

well that would be one homework i wouldnt complain about lol. Unfortunately our educational system still does not aprove masturbation as a subject haha

[jenna123]

posting some results, haha, when getting to the point of no return i feel this urge to rub way faster and i cant resist doing it. Ive tried going slowly but i get more pleasure from just rubbing as fast as i can. Will continue researching though...

[IcaJess]

I certainly do.

[nrob1993]

I certainly do.

have you ever been trying to hold off another time during masturbation and stopped too late sort of?

[IcaJess]

have you ever been trying to hold off another time during masturbation and stopped too late sort of?

Yes :s I kinda has the orgasm anyway.

[nrob1993]

Yes :s I kinda has the orgasm anyway.

lol...did it make the first part of the orgasm sort of prolonged? the part before the contractions started?

[NotShortButFunsized]

lol...did it make the first part of the orgasm sort of prolonged? the part before the contractions started?

sortof...that point where you kindof get that high point before crossing over can last a while if you dont do anything to push it further and do just enough to keep it there, but if i keep it there a while but dont let myself cross the point where I orgasm at all it can be uncomfortable

however, its always different, Idk what really causes the difference though

[nrob1993]

sortof...that point where you kindof get that high point before crossing over can last a while if you dont do anything to push it further and do just enough to keep it there, but if i keep it there a while but dont let myself cross the point where I orgasm at all it can be uncomfortable

however, its always different, Idk what really causes the difference though

have you sort of done that intentionally and then pushed further and it was really intense that way?

[NotShortButFunsized]

have you sort of done that intentionally and then pushed further and it was really intense that way?

lengthening the time just before letting myself go over the edge can make for a more intense orgasm, and sometimes i also like to keep rubbing and try to hold off an orgasm myself as long as i can without stopping so when i finally orgasm involuntarily it could be really intense, if that makes sense

[nrob1993]

lengthening the time just before letting myself go over the edge can make for a more intense orgasm, and sometimes i also like to keep rubbing and try to hold off an orgasm myself as long as i can without stopping so when i finally orgasm involuntarily it could be really intense, if that makes sense

yes...I do some of the same stuff...what the longest you've held off?

[NotShortButFunsized]

yes...I do some of the same stuff...what the longest you've held off?

its always different...tbh the length of whats happening is the last thing on my mind lol

[Swimmie]

lengthening the time just before letting myself go over the edge can make for a more intense orgasm, and sometimes i also like to keep rubbing and try to hold off an orgasm myself as long as i can without stopping so when i finally orgasm involuntarily it could be really intense, if that makes sense

Ohhh thats the way to go lol when it happens, its soooo good....
Kind of the contrary of those orgasms you have by going over the point of no return and stopping, which are kinda weaker...

Last time i edged like this, i kept torturing myself just before the point of orgasm for like half an hour straight... Just slowly rubbing my clit. When i finally gave in, i had 5 orgasms in a row :D

[Kristihey]

yeah I know what you mean by that point of no return. It's fun to get close then back off - guess that's called 'edging' ? But I've tried to stop a couple times before and couldn't :P

[Amsey]

Ok guys posting results from my "research". I discovers like most of you once I get to "the point" if I stop it either just happen anyway but is kinda weak or I start to calm down. So I then tried both the slowly rubbing at the point and going all Lenny Hendrix on it haha, I personally believing going insane feels a lot better and I orgasm for longer, I also discorerd that the grinding/humping is REALLY REALLY good to get to the point to. Wait, then go slowly for a very intense (and leg shakey :$) orgasm :D so this was a fun experiment haha :D

[ImAurora]

Yeah I definitely know what you mean by point of no return. Sometimes edging works sometimes I just orgasm anyways... I dunno. I do find that holding out for as long as possible once I reach that point is the best when I can do it, though. And everything Amsey said is pretty much on-point for me as well.

[Mob Boss]

It is criminal to use Jimi Hendrix name in masturbatory vain. -_- How dare ye. Repent.


I'm certain everyone has a point of no return. It's when sirens go off and shizz and then you realize it isn't sirens at all but yourself making that sound. Oh, maybe that is just me. :yawn:

[becca07]

Ok guys posting results from my "research". I discovers like most of you once I get to "the point" if I stop it either just happen anyway but is kinda weak or I start to calm down. So I then tried both the slowly rubbing at the point and going all Lenny Hendrix on it haha, I personally believing going insane feels a lot better and I orgasm for longer, I also discorerd that the grinding/humping is REALLY REALLY good to get to the point to. Wait, then go slowly for a very intense (and leg shakey :$) orgasm :D so this was a fun experiment haha :D

True...also with the humping/grinding i find that kinda doing a circle motion is good getting to that point of no return feels nice then when the O happens its just the best with humping...since your already pressed against something, when the O happens I involuntarily arch my back and do small quick thrusts into the bed/pillow making the O more intense cuz my clit keeps getting that pressure and friction which is key.

And for some reason i find that if i keep my panties on or do with with tight pants feels extra naughty and a different kinda of feeling.

[satarra3180]

Yeah I have def notice this before. Its like you feel the rising tensions in you clit/puss and like you said....you get that " I am soo gunna cum no matter what feelig"

For me at that moment it feels like a switch has been flicked: like the mercury in a thermometer has been set off and if you stop rubbing that red in the thermometer will still keep going up until it bursts through the top( orgasm)

Also to add to your question does anyone else find that at this "point of no return" you seem to start to rub faster? Why do you think we do this if we know we are gunna cum neways...does it make the O more intense for you?

I think rubbing faster sometimes makes it more intense and sometimes purposely slowing down can to if I've been holding it off for awhile. My point of no return is usually an intense feeling in my pelvic area and my mind pretty much goes blank. If I try to stop it will still happen but maybe be less intense.

[Binky]

I discovered that I can orgasm just using my fantasy. I'll either sit or, the best way is laying stretched out on my back and let my mind run wild while I squeeze my thighs together. (no fingers) My clitoris starts to tingle and I flex my vj mussels. When I fell the tingling start up towards my tummy, my thighs begin to quiver. There's no turning back at this point.You want to rub, but, resist it and sart squeezing ur thighs faster. Kaboom.... best orgasms I've ever had

[NotShortButFunsized]

I discovered that I can orgasm just using my fantasy. I'll either sit or, the best way is laying stretched out on my back and let my mind run wild while I squeeze my thighs together. (no fingers) My clitoris starts to tingle and I flex my vj mussels. When I fell the tingling start up towards my tummy, my thighs begin to quiver. There's no turning back at this point.You want to rub, but, resist it and sart squeezing ur thighs faster. Kaboom.... best orgasms I've ever had

just curious (since i haven't personally managed this type of orgasm) does the type of clothing you wear make any sort of impact on the level or effectiveness of pleasure you feel while doing it? I imagine jeans with tighter underwear, due to their thick firm seams and tighter nature, would make a difference. Have you noticed anything based on what you wear?

[Binky]

Lay down to zip-em jeans work best. But nude works for me as well... You really have to concentrate on whats going on down there, and mix in who or what ur thinking about. Don't get me wrong, I still like to rub on my clitoris. And my battery powered toothbush is my BF.:yes:

[jenna123]

I discovered that I can orgasm just using my fantasy. I'll either sit or, the best way is laying stretched out on my back and let my mind run wild while I squeeze my thighs together. (no fingers) My clitoris starts to tingle and I flex my vj mussels. When I fell the tingling start up towards my tummy, my thighs begin to quiver. There's no turning back at this point.You want to rub, but, resist it and sart squeezing ur thighs faster. Kaboom.... best orgasms I've ever had

a friend of mine also told me something similar. Ive got to try it, but still, it looks like someting really hard to do. How long did it take for you to 'master' this orgasm without using fingers or objects?

[Swimmie]

I discovered that I can orgasm just using my fantasy. I'll either sit or, the best way is laying stretched out on my back and let my mind run wild while I squeeze my thighs together. (no fingers) My clitoris starts to tingle and I flex my vj mussels. When I fell the tingling start up towards my tummy, my thighs begin to quiver. There's no turning back at this point.You want to rub, but, resist it and sart squeezing ur thighs faster. Kaboom.... best orgasms I've ever had

Wow... that gotta be something... Are they stronger then when you masturbate regularly?

[Amsey]

True...also with the humping/grinding i find that kinda doing a circle motion is good getting to that point of no return feels nice then when the O happens its just the best with humping...since your already pressed against something, when the O happens I involuntarily arch my back and do small quick thrusts into the bed/pillow making the O more intense cuz my clit keeps getting that pressure and friction which is key.

And for some reason i find that if i keep my panties on or do with with tight pants feels extra naughty and a different kinda of feeling.

I personally now use the humping technic to start my M-bating now haha it's awesome :whoops:

I know just what your saying about the naughtyness at the end it does add a little something haha ;D

[KellyNC]

I get that too, it's sometimes hard to know when I'm going to cross it, the feeling is intense in and around my clit and I can start to feel pulsing, but it's hard to know exactly when it is I'm going to cross that point. When I do I realize it pretty fast, but not instantly, and if I am fighting myself and stop rubbing in that early part of it the orgasm doesn't quite feel as good.

[laurakoller0815]

well point of no return i gonne feel coming, when im keeping close to cum for a long period of time..... There would be one rub/touch tooo much....I know the urge is too much no way to hold back anymore;)

[sweet_girl24au]

For me at that moment it feels like a switch has been flicked: like the mercury in a thermometer has been set off and if you stop rubbing that red in the thermometer will still keep going up until it bursts through the top( orgasm)

Also to add to your question does anyone else find that at this "point of no return" you seem to start to rub faster? Why do you think we do this if we know we are gunna cum neways...does it make the O more intense for you?

haha SO TRUE!!!

Definately for me once I hit a certain spot, I know its gonna happen no matter what. If i go all out and rub as hard as possible then it makes it super intense and strong, but I also like to play with the feeling a bit. I like to stop all stimulation and let it play out on its own, and then I flex my muscles inside there to make it stronger or weaker during the orgasm. Its amazing how it feels though.

[Karkat]

Nah, not really. I usually have to drive that sucker right on through or I'll just be disappointed.

[QuebecGirl]

Like most of you I also have a point of no return. If i stop i have a orgasm but not as good as when i continue.

[TinyDancer]

I failed miserably in my "research".. Whenever I hit my point of no return I never found a reason not to finish.

[stepht]

Def agree with what most everybody has said here about the point of no return. But it seems like if you stop rubbing or humping or whatever at that point its not very good. Well I guess it's like pizza is there really a bad orgasm?

But isnt that called a ruined orgasm or something? I saw that online and it was being done to a guy where a woman was jacking him off but stopped right as he started cumming. He still came but I guess its frustrating because not as strong as it could have been. Its kinda the same for me. I just like to really keep stimulating things right into the orgasm to make it really good lol.

[hotgirlwtits]

I know I have hit that point many times it feels so stimulating, it throws me way over the edge every time it happens to me :)

[Luminous]

Yes I do, but it's not as good.

[Amsey]

update for y'all, so ive been training myself to stay at my P.O.N.R (trademarked and copyrighted) for longer and longer, the results are either a very irritated and drained me me who gives up in self pity.....

or a very tired and noisy me with a wet bed, but it finally all leads up to a very intense orgasm which I fully recommend :), so I suggest to you lovely ladies this, either train yourself up and enjoy the wreaking ball of pleasure (that will try to kill you) or... just go ahead and cum :lol: hope I helped

[ozteen]

After heaps of ''research''' l found if l make myself stop, l still orgasm but nowhere as good as when l keep going....

[Tina36DD]

Sounds interesting! I think i will go do some "practice research" too ;) I kind a want to see if its different for different styles of m-batin( i.e clit, vag, humping/grinding)

Practice research...I like it. Just tried it myself....almost got 'there' and stopped...still "O'd", but not as intense if I kept 'clicking my mouse'....LOL..

I never really went 'Jimmy Hendrix', but tried that too...I'm sitting on a towel now...squirted all over the floor and all sweaty!

TWO orgasms in ten minutes...may have to try for three more!

All in the name of research, right?

Wow!

[Jenni.]

When I'm about to finish there's nothing that make me stop xD I've tried it but i wasn't be able

[sazhedison]

yeah, like when i stop masturbating i can feel my clitoris growing out and that sort of send me over the edge into full blown O

[sweet_girl24au]

haha ive actually been having some fun with this, working right up to the point and then letting it play out

i found if i flex my muscles while its orgasm on its own its like sort of controlling the orgasm :)

[becca07]

yeah, like when i stop masturbating i can feel my clitoris growing out and that sort of send me over the edge into full blown O

Definitely! I know this feeling exactly. Its like when you get to that point the pleasure feels a lot different..like you feel this sudden elastic type of tingle mixed with that anxious feeling at the bottom of the stomach...its like a fuse has been lit and you know in the back of your mind that your body is not going back from it.

My clit does the same thing if i stop rubbing at this point where i can feel it slowly swell to the point where it feels it can't balloon anymore and then its like the tension is so great that the first throb sets off the O and it just pulses. But like others have said...its not as great of an O...without that extra pressure of a hand or fast moving fingers...the O feels unfinished or not complete.

[sazhedison]

Definitely! I know this feeling exactly. Its like when you get to that point the pleasure feels a lot different..like you feel this sudden elastic type of tingle mixed with that anxious feeling at the bottom of the stomach...its like a fuse has been lit and you know in the back of your mind that your body is not going back from it.

My clit does the same thing if i stop rubbing at this point where i can feel it slowly swell to the point where it feels it can't balloon anymore and then its like the tension is so great that the first throb sets off the O and it just pulses. But like others have said...its not as great of an O...without that extra pressure of a hand or fast moving fingers...the O feels unfinished or not complete.

yeah, unfinished feeling like my bladder is full but then when i try to finish off with my hand it is painful. if you want to ruin your orgasm stop at the last second

[sweet_girl24au]

Definitely! I know this feeling exactly. Its like when you get to that point the pleasure feels a lot different..like you feel this sudden elastic type of tingle mixed with that anxious feeling at the bottom of the stomach...its like a fuse has been lit and you know in the back of your mind that your body is not going back from it.

My clit does the same thing if i stop rubbing at this point where i can feel it slowly swell to the point where it feels it can't balloon anymore and then its like the tension is so great that the first throb sets off the O and it just pulses. But like others have said...its not as great of an O...without that extra pressure of a hand or fast moving fingers...the O feels unfinished or not complete.

Yes! You describe that sooo well!
Its like all of a sudden it changes and the tingle gets deeper, and nicer, and you know....its like your vag and clit says to you suddenly "nows the time!! the harder you go the nicer ill make you feel!" but then also like "but if you dont use it its gonna disappear soon"

Its a different feeling though when you dont touch it once in the zone...its like it slowly pulses away, and you know your in an orgasm but its gentler and kinda more sensual. but still not as nice as the full thing

[ShelleyCA]

Practice research...I like it. Just tried it myself....almost got 'there' and stopped...still "O'd", but not as intense if I kept 'clicking my mouse'....LOL..

I never really went 'Jimmy Hendrix', but tried that too...I'm sitting on a towel now...squirted all over the floor and all sweaty!

TWO orgasms in ten minutes...may have to try for three more!

All in the name of research, right?

Wow!

wow...2 O's in 10 minutes..im jealous girl. i think i need to go "practice' ;)

[AmyLe]

How do you know when it is coming close and the orgasm is about to happen?
And is it normal to squirt, or whatever you'd call it. This has me nervous to try having a orgasm.

[Christen]

when i get somewhat carried away that woulf quallify for point of no return i guess

[butterfly00]

I have tried this a bunch of times. I will sometimes get to the point just before orgasm and I will slow down or stop and then start slowly rubbing again until Im almost ready to orgasm. I keep doing this for like half an hour or more not letting myself orgasm and then I cant take it anymore and just rub it till orgasm. If I rub it slowly as I cum the orgasms last like way longer and or way more intense!

[laurakoller0815]

Its kind of art and knowledge to keep yourself so close to the edge for a long peroid of time. [email protected] or Orgasm Control are really good techniques. I really like the surprising moment when the orgasm is coming over me like tsunami. Sometimes multiple orgsams just happend;)

[Janie]

I've been totally consumed with my "research" and "homework" on the subject. I've found that if I get very close to the point of no return, and then let things cool down just a bit, I can have a super intense O just by rolling over and putting pressure on my pubic mound. (I m'bate laying on the carpet, and it looks like I'm planking) My whole body goes rigid and then waves of spasms hit. Fantastic feeling, but can be messy so I use a towel!

[Jamy]

I've been totally consumed with my "research" and "homework" on the subject. I've found that if I get very close to the point of no return, and then let things cool down just a bit, I can have a super intense O just by rolling over and putting pressure on my pubic mound. (I m'bate laying on the carpet, and it looks like I'm planking) My whole body goes rigid and then waves of spasms hit. Fantastic feeling, but can be messy so I use a towel!

Do you also moan a lot then, Janie?

It depends on my mood but I also have that experience of a shivering body and I alos make a lot of noice when I'm going over the point of no return!!!

:D

[Atlantis]

I've been totally consumed with my "research" and "homework" on the subject. I've found that if I get very close to the point of no return, and then let things cool down just a bit, I can have a super intense O just by rolling over and putting pressure on my pubic mound. (I m'bate laying on the carpet, and it looks like I'm planking) My whole body goes rigid and then waves of spasms hit. Fantastic feeling, but can be messy so I use a towel!

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