Self Harming Crossdresser

[Damien2014]

Hi all,
I Am Damien or Sometimes go under my Crossdressing/Transgendered name Ashley, I used to cut a while ago but I feel like it again well its a long story Ill make it short as possible..

I crossdress, I am a teenager with homophobic family, Biased school that specifically doesnt like crossdressers (e.g. counsellor), I hang out with emos, I've lost most of my friends, I havent cut in a long time but getting urges too, I cant crossdress until like 3am in the morning because thats when everyone starts to sleep, I've now to chronic insomnia and possibly depression due to the fact I live with homophobic people and life in general...

Any advice for an abomination or thing (me)
NICE ADVICE PLZ

[King_of_Hearts]

First off, you are not an abomination. You are a beautiful human being who is perfect as they are. Secondly, try not to cut, no matter how bad your urges are. If you cut, the urges will get worse and worse until you are addicted to cutting. I am sorry about your situation. I really am. But try sitting your parents down and telling them (easy for me to say, I know). Maybe they will understand you and accept who you are. Please try and be strong. I am always around if you need help or advice :)

[abc983055235235231a]

First off, you are not an abomination. You are a beautiful human being who is perfect as they are. Secondly, try not to cut, no matter how bad your urges are. If you cut, the urges will get worse and worse until you are addicted to cutting. I am sorry about your situation. I really am. But try sitting your parents down and telling them (easy for me to say, I know). Maybe they will understand you and accept who you are. Please try and be strong. I am always around if you need help or advice :)

^That

Also, there's totally nothing wrong with crossdressing, no matter what anyone says.

With respect to your parents, act at your own discretion. Some parents will never be accepting of certain things, and people deal with those situations differently; and I can't really tell you how you should handle that.

[Katiya]

Screw people who don't like it. Your a wonderful person no matter who you are or what you like. :)

I've been picked on for partaking in interests that girls generally don't take interests in. Its stupid. No one had the right to tell you who to be or what to like or do.

[AlexOnToast]

First off, you are not an abomination. You are a beautiful human being who is perfect as they are. Secondly, try not to cut, no matter how bad your urges are. If you cut, the urges will get worse and worse until you are addicted to cutting. I am sorry about your situation. I really am. But try sitting your parents down and telling them (easy for me to say, I know). Maybe they will understand you and accept who you are. Please try and be strong. I am always around if you need help or advice :)

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[lawrenceac1]

Hay man I really know where your coming from. (Fellow croosdrsser;):eek:;) and it can be hard I recently went though some tuff Times too. The only advice I can give you is no matter what anyone else says be yourself and DO NOT let them tell you what is right or wrong.:cool:

[Hallie]

Hi all,
I Am Damien or Sometimes go under my Crossdressing/Transgendered name Ashley, I used to cut a while ago but I feel like it again well its a long story Ill make it short as possible..

I crossdress, I am a teenager with homophobic family, Biased school that specifically doesnt like crossdressers (e.g. counsellor), I hang out with emos, I've lost most of my friends, I havent cut in a long time but getting urges too, I cant crossdress until like 3am in the morning because thats when everyone starts to sleep, I've now to chronic insomnia and possibly depression due to the fact I live with homophobic people and life in general...

Any advice for an abomination or thing (me)
NICE ADVICE PLZ

Let me just start by saying that you are absolutely NOT an abomination, and anyone who tells you that you are is an abomination themselves. They won't matter in ten years time. What will matter is how you chose to deal with them.

I want you to know that I've been through the same thing. When I came out to my parents, my dad was more or less ok with it, but my mom was devastated. She cried, and there was lots of screaming and yelling. If you had told me then that things would get better with her, I would have laughed at you. But they did. She is now trying very hard to understand me and my sexuality and she has accepted this part of me, although she is working on being happy about it. I never thought that she would come around eventually, but she has, and she will continue to grow and accept me for who I am.

About the cutting, I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I'm in the same position right now. I'm trying my best to fight the urges, but I know how hard it can get. Just know that you're not alone. Stay strong and keep fighting. We're all in this together. We can make it. I believe in you :)

If you ever need to talk, message me. Don't let those homophobic assholes get you down.