View Full Version : very confused about my sexuality
teegoo8
January 12th, 2014, 10:10 PM
before i was 10 i liked girls, guys were alright. when i was 10 i started liking guys, no attraction to girls at all, but i continued to date girls as i got older. and only in the past few months am i starting to actually like girls again, and i'm beginning to like girls more than guys, but i still like guys a lot. i've only had girl friends. my first girlfriend was a lame 5th grade relationship when i just started liking guys more. then in 7th grade was kinda my first "real" relationship, we actually went on dates and kissed. i'm in 11th grade and i've started liking girls again. i've been with an amazing girl since may last year. am i straight, bi? i always say that i'm bi, and everyone knows it. but i am still super confused!
ksdnfkfr
January 12th, 2014, 10:16 PM
Don't worry too much about it.
Interests often go back and forth.
Just stick with bi if you want a label.
abc983055235235231a
January 12th, 2014, 11:28 PM
Sexuality isn't necessarily a rigid thing. It can change, and there's nothing wrong with a fluid sexuality. Just do whatever feels right to you, and don't bother with labels.
AbyssalLight7
January 12th, 2014, 11:47 PM
I'd assume you're Bi based on this, but it also sounds like your still figuring things out, I mean you've never even dated a guy so how could you be 100% sure anyway? Just give it time and maybe try dating a guy sometime, you'll figure it out for yourself, just give it time
AlexOnToast
January 13th, 2014, 04:32 AM
Sexuality isn't necessarily a rigid thing. It can change, and there's nothing wrong with a fluid sexuality. Just do whatever feels right to you, and don't bother with labels.
My exact thoughts, great reply as usual bro :)
If you really want a label, go for curious but there really is'nt a need for labels...
MortimerB
January 16th, 2014, 06:21 PM
The brain are still trying to catch up with hormones in the race that is called "puberty". Just enjoy the ride and see where you end up. Labels are meaningless right now, as you're clearly still in transitioning. Best of luck with everything, mate.
Vdubz
January 16th, 2014, 06:25 PM
You're you. Don't let society force you to put a label on yourself, everyone is different. For example, i consider myself bi because i like girls emotionally and sexually but i only like guys sexually and rarely emotionally though there are exceptions to that. I don't think i would ever date a guy.
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