Cant Get Hard...?

[Speedy29]

So most of the time me and my bf try to have sex we can get hard. Like we'll be erect during foreplay and everything but as soon as its time to actually do it, either me or him goes soft. Could this possibly be due to nerves or what is it? We are both heavily attracted to each other so idk why this is happening.

[Coolguy10890]

Not sure, maybe you are fore playing too long? Idk sorry I have no idea, idk why I'm even replying to this if I don't even know!

[Fireangel]

So most of the time me and my bf try to have sex we can get hard. Like we'll be erect during foreplay and everything but as soon as its time to actually do it, either me or him goes soft. Could this possibly be due to nerves or what is it? We are both heavily attracted to each other so idk why this is happening.

Firstly, How old are you both?

[Fireangel]

Not sure, maybe you are fore playing too long? Idk sorry I have no idea, idk why I'm even replying to this if I don't even know!

Yes, It´s possible or maybe they smoke.

[AlexOnToast]

I would best say that nerves are the culprit. I'm not sure how to reduce the nerves tho, a good Google search might me able to answer that :) Good luck

[deregisterme]

So most of the time me and my bf try to have sex we can get hard. Like we'll be erect during foreplay and everything but as soon as its time to actually do it, either me or him goes soft. Could this possibly be due to nerves or what is it? We are both heavily attracted to each other so idk why this is happening.

I would best say that nerves are the culprit. I'm not sure how to reduce the nerves tho, a good Google search might me able to answer that :) Good luck

Nerves can have a terrible effect. You get nervous, so you go soft, then even more nervous and can't get hard. The same can happen to any couples, so you're not alone. Just enjoy the moment, and don't let the nerves get to you