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Slender Man
January 12th, 2014, 01:28 PM
Alright, this is might be a long story, sorry.

There's this girl I've been friends with for a few months(almost half a year I think) and I might sound like a dick, but the way I started talking to her was through my friend, and the only reason I started talking to him was just to talk to her. I'm a bad friend, I know :/

Anyways, ever since I met her, I basically fell in love. She is funny, awesome, beautiful. We ALWAYS talk and Friday we just now started hanging out.

She used to go to my school, she moved but she told me that she might go back! So I'm excited :D Doesn't help though, I'm staying in Alternative HS till February.

Anyways, on Friday me and he "went out" for the first time. It was pretty basic, just walking around the park and talking, being stupid and funny lol. She opened up to me about some stuff though, so that means she trusts me, right? Idk, but me and her has so much fun. I also found out she has a boyfriend though.

Saturday though...Saturday was INCREDIBLY different! We went out again that night and at first it was pretty much the same as Friday. We went to the store, bought drinks and food, then went back to the park and just chilled. She opened up to me about some more personal shit, even stuff she's never told ANYONE. This HAS to mean she trusts me, right!!?? Anyways, we talked and after a while we decided to walk around on this open baseball field. We basically sat down and just talked, making jokes and laughing our asses off. Something was different though, on Friday she wasn't really touchy feely, but last night we ended being touchy feely. It started off as just play fighting, every time she tried to drop me I would tickle her stomach and she would laugh and jerk away. Long story short, we ended up laying on the grass. At first, she made boundaries, but basically erased those boundaries and next thing you know, I'm sliding my hand up her leg and she's on me a few times. I was surprised we didn't end up having sex right there! If you were there and didn't know the story, you would think we've been a couple for a few years, but we're bestfriends lol.

What should I do!!?? She means EVERYTHING to me, I want her so bad /.\ She told me that her friends want her to break up with her boyfriend because he bf is an asshole to her. Do I tell her how I feel? What if that makes our friendship awkward? Do you think she wants me?

I need a females opinion, it seems like they should know what is going on inside her head.

Blood
January 12th, 2014, 08:12 PM
It sounds like she may like you so I think you should tell her how you feel. But the touchy feely stuff needs to stop because she has a boyfriend and however big of an asshole he may be, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on.

Slender Man
January 12th, 2014, 09:13 PM
But the touchy feely stuff needs to stop because she has a boyfriend and however big of an asshole he may be, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on.
Gah, I know /.\

I couldn't help it though, it just happened randomly and I just went with it.

And we might go to the movies Friday, so idk what'll happen then.

SmokyChica
January 12th, 2014, 09:18 PM
Tell her how you feel. It sounds like she likes you, just don't cheat, it's horrible to do to another guy, and it could give you a bad reputation if you do. Be careful, but tell her you like her, it seems like you two really like each other.

Melodic
January 12th, 2014, 10:15 PM
She likes you but if you cheat with her you will hurt the boy she's still together with. I'd suggest talking to her about it and make sure they're broken up before you continue the touchy feely.

Blood
January 12th, 2014, 11:22 PM
Gah, I know /.\

I couldn't help it though, it just happened randomly and I just went with it.

And we might go to the movies Friday, so idk what'll happen then.

She has a boyfriend. Don't go to the movies with her unless she's broken up with her boyfriend or she's fully aware that you're just going as friends.

Slender Man
January 13th, 2014, 12:33 AM
She has a boyfriend. Don't go to the movies with her unless she's broken up with her boyfriend or she's fully aware that you're just going as friends.

I think she knows I like her, but she also knows that we're going as friends.

I won't try any funny business though, basically do what y'all said and wait till she breaks up with her bf and just be honest with her about how I feel.

Ugh..I wish it was easy lol.

Thanks for the advice. :)

ashdyn
January 13th, 2014, 01:39 PM
D'awww you got me right in the feelz lmao

GO FOR IT BRO!!

I mean at least tell her how you feel. From what you said it's pretty much a slam dunk that she'll leave him for you. Also if she goes back to your school that could like motivate you more to get out of alternative and go back there too.