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[LogsTW]

So, Last night i had a little to much to drink and i messaged this guy i like and told him that i found him very attractive and i wanted to be "Secret suck buddies'. I woke up this morning to find messages from him and i read through our conversation and i was like, Holy crap, I messed up...The major problem is i am not out of the closet. What should i do? What if he tells people? Should i deny it or just come out with the truth?

[dingleberryz]

just act like it was a joke

[billybigfish]

just message him and explain your situation and that you were drunk, if he dont buy it then you're gunna have to rely on him not telling anyone

[harley95]

It depends what he said. But you could say you were drunk and that happened and he wouldn't think twice about it.

[jeremy96]

just tell him it was a joke

[deregisterme]

Just talk with him. See what he says.

[Arsenalfan123]

just message him and explain your situation and that you were drunk, if he dont buy it then you're gunna have to rely on him not telling anyone

Listen to this guy

[AlexOnToast]

If it were me i would say that one of youre friends texted that when you were both drunk

[nklarke]

If it were me i would say that one of youre friends texted that when you were both drunk

That's a good idea :yeah:

Since you texted it, it will be forever in your friend celphone so it's just as you didn't text it and changing your cel number could be a good idea also.

[mww113]

What exactly was his response? It's hard to give advice if we don't know the full context.

[AlexOnToast]

What exactly was his response? It's hard to give advice if we don't know the full context.

I agree, full context would be better if full advice is to be given :)

[drmindfreak]

tell him it was a dare or a joke or something, if it was late night he probably already took for granted that you were drunk so no biggie

next time: drunk lock

[dontfiguremeout]

Just say you were drunk.

[drew6]

1. Quit drinking or quit getting drunk.
2. Tell him the truth.

[Eat33]

In the short term, blaming it on the drink is okay but i don't think you'l be able to keep up the lie forever...

[SkiJoey99]

Say that someone else had your phone and was messaging as a joke

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[jerry102]

Just say you was drunk

[Tarannosaurus]

You can either Blame it on The Alcohol (yes that was intended), or if you trust him you could tell him the truth. Technically it was the alcohol that made you send the message so you could kind of do a compromise and say you used to have a small crush on him but that the text was a result of drunkenness.

[Matt_97]

I do this all the time and my god am i embarrassing when i'm drunk :) So basically i just lie and say that i had a couple of friends over and we got drunk and played text roulette. Text roulette is an actual game me and my friends play, basically its when you fling through your contact list and click a random one and give the phone to your friend for them text the contact anything and everything. The winner is the friend who holds there nerve the longest. Basically when I've played the game properly I've came out to my parents 15 times (they now know it as a joke, if only they knew the truth) and i'I've confessed my undying love for nearly all of my contacts.

Basically just use my excuse that you were playing drunk text roulette with friends. ;)

[Hermes96]

this is why i hide or give my phone to someone if i know I'm going to be drinking enough to lower my judgement

[JollyToes]

Just tell him one of your drink friends took your phone and was messing arnd. Could have been worse, you could have sent him a dick pic or something. :/

[Living For Love]

Just tell him you were drunk and it was not your intention. But at least he already knows you can possibly be gay, even if you deny it, and that makes the whole coming out process much simpler.

[topher3141]

what was his reaction?