In an unhealthy relashionship.Help!!!!

[Prettyblue3yes]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year....sadly I think our relationship is unhealthy. He is super controlling. He always gets mad... and he always makes me feel bad for what I do. But he has never physically hurt me.This is my first serious relashionship. And I do love my boyfriend.... but im so tired of being unhappy! I just cant dump him.... I dont know why!!! What is wrong with me! Please help! Im tired of crying over him!! Advise please!?

[ImAurora]

Talk to him about it. And if you two can't work something out, you're gonna have to end the relationship, no matter how much you'd hate to do it. Also, I think this belongs in the relationship thread, not puberty.

[conniption]

I strongly advise you to end the relationship as soon as possible. It's quite obvious he has you right where he wants you. He makes you feel so bad so you won't leave him. It's no easy task getting out of such a toxic relationship, but you're gonna have to do something quick before things get worse. I understand that you love him and it'll hurt to leave him, but you have to do this for your own sake.

[Everyusernameistaken]

Talk it out. And if that doesn't work end it find someone you can actually live with.

[hoboliz]

Communicate with him. If he shuts you out or shuts you down, leave. And tell your parents.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Melodic]

This isn't an healthy relationship. I'd suggest you just end it as soon as possible because it is an emotionally abusive relationship. And if you continue it can get harder and more depressing.

[RavleIncarnate]

GUUUURLLL? Why you ackin' so cray-cray? You should end it like yestadays, guuuurl.
That's bout as unhealthy as working yo booty 2 much.

Omigod I'm so sorry, had to do that, it been sitting in me since I saw this weird episode of gravity falls. Sorry.

But yo shood follow dat black woman ego's avice, guuuurl, cuz she is sosososo right wit evrythaaing.

Yeah, she is, so you should probably trust her. Whoever she is.

[Cognizant]

After being through one nightmare of a relationship with an obsessive, overprotective, and verbally abusive boyfriend, I have to just tell you the hard truth. Dump him.
For 5 months, I literally would lay in bed at night and hope that things will improve. They never really did, and one day I just got so fed up with it that I didn't want to see his ass ever again. If after trying your heart out to talk things through, make solutions, take fault once or twice and he *still* behaves this way, then it's going to take an epiphany to make him change.

Sorry if it sounds harsh, but when things get abusive it only makes things worse as time progresses.

[Lisa12]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year....sadly I think our relationship is unhealthy. He is super controlling. He always gets mad... and he always makes me feel bad for what I do. But he has never physically hurt me.This is my first serious relashionship. And I do love my boyfriend.... but im so tired of being unhappy! I just cant dump him.... I dont know why!!! What is wrong with me! Please help! Im tired of crying over him!! Advise please!?

if hes being an ungreatful fuck then leave. its his loss not yours. if he cant treat a girl right then dump him.